Thursday, June 26, 2008
Astrologically Speaking
TGIF! Talking Chit is officially wrapping up week two! Thanks to all who have provided great comments and different perspectives on the topics for this week! Some very interesting reads if we don't say so ourselves! Professor Grey, our astrological advice guru is back to host "Astrologically Speaking". If you have relationship problems with your significant other, interested in finding out if a person you may have your eyes on is your "type", or just need advice, please post a question in the comments including the zodiac sign of you and your partner, and look to the stars for the answers. This is a blog that will be posted every Friday, and our own Zodiac Love Guru will do everything in his power to help with your questions. Don't believe it? Try it for yourself, what have you got to loose?
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Ok Professor, a cancer has struck me. Now I've heard that cancers possess unpredictable behavior. I've been talking to this guy for about four mos. The first couple of months were just casual conversation and I wasn't really interested in him but he was interested in me. We had been making plans to hang out but I was reluctant to because of the age difference (he's 8 years younger than me). But after getting to know him a little better, I found out he was an interesting, responsible guy. So to make a long story short we finally hung out and one thing lead to another. I didn’t expect to go where we took it but I enjoyed him. I wasn't expecting anything from him afterwards either, but we hung out almost every other day for two weeks after our initial time spent together. The last time we were together, was about a week ago and I noticed that I was now contacting him more than he was contacting me. He never initiated conversation, and last time we spoke he said he would call me back but never did. How do you explain just dropping all contact with a person after seeing them almost every other day? We didn’t end on bad terms or anything in fact every thing was going good. I do know he has two children and may have a busy schedule but that never stopped him before he started pursuing me.
Hi professor I am an aquarian that is smitten w/a scorpio that is giving me the flucks. He's soooooooooooo different from any man i've ever dealt with. We are the exact opposite of each other!!!!!!! He makes me crazy but i like him so much and i am not sure how he feels about me but i want to know are we compatiable at all.
Dear Cancerstruck. As you know Cancer is of the water family. Meaning you have to think of him in terms of a glass of water. Water is motionless, still, deep, encompassing every shape or form it is contained in, until it is moved. Cancers are very SLOW do-ers. They have to be SURE of all aspects of a friendship before they can take a step forward. Depending on what zodiac you fall under you will or won't be able to handle this! Fire needs things NOW, they are quick thinkers and doers so they may not have the time opr patience to wait for Cancer to get their mind made up. Air is like the element everywhere. They will deal with you, then leave you alone and go to something else and come back when they feel the spririt hits them. Earth tends to be just as slow and may wait out Cancers "slow-motions" but the interest may be gone at that time. On the flipside when water is interested beyond repair, YOU CANNOT KEEP THEM FROM you. There maybe something or someone who has his attention as of now, or for some reason feels as if what he wanted from you, wasn't in direct relation to what you wanted from him. Weirdly water moves through life with emotional legs so what they feel is just a feeling and there may be no logic behind those feelings.
Professor Grey, I am definitely a fire sign! But should I call him, or just wait till he comes around again? I'm not the type to wait around for someone who doesn't show interest, or keep calling them if they don't respond. But there are no hard feelings on my end if he did choose to move on and I want him to know that.
Thanks Prof.!
Dear Knowitall, you're smitten by a scorpio eh? (take a deep breath) This relationship has the ability to be the best experience of your entire life, or it can make you turn lesbian and give up on men forever. The Scorpio is a very intense being. Always thinking, preparing, and planning. Life for them is a constant game of chess, however when emotions come into play things fall apart very easily for the unbalanced crustacean. Scorpio is the MOST misunderstood sign of the zodiac. On the outside they are strong, demanding, protective and loyal, but on the inside they are very needy people, especially in terms of people they love. The accept NOTHING less than true loyalty and love from a possible mate, and ANY sign of infidelity or non chalantness will send them packing. Scorpios are very hard to penetrate, they will never let the common human pierce their shell. But once pierced they become vulnerable to hurt, and hurt they do. This super-sensitive sign is very confusing because EVERYTHING, while in love, has a tendency to frustrate them. They are so busy trying to create a perfect future that they forget about the present. He will entice you, wine and dine you, love you to the brink of ecstacy, but if he does not feel loyalty from you, he will display the coldest shoulder known to man. Believe me there is nothing worse than when a Scorpio has lost his mojo for you. It doesn't happen easily but once it does, run fast and far!! If he likes you this man can appear to be the most generous, thoughtful, attentive man you have ever met. That is because they LOVE to love you. They love making you for lack of a better word "exhale." They are low maintenence and would much rather spend a fun evening at home with their sweetie, then painting the town red and you will feel like you have traveled the world and you will have never left your home. They are hypnotic characters and it is almost impossible to escape their eyes. Don't believe me, take a moment to look deeply into your scorpions eyes, they are magnetic, powerful, and very passionate. Scorpios date for the LONG HAUL, if you have been exclusive with this man for longer than two months, you are his and he is yours no questions. Scorpios don't like a lot of change especially in the relationship dept as they do not like alot of people. Have you ever noticed that your Scorpio does not run with a group of people. He has alot of friends, but only a few select people are entertained by him. This works the same in relationships. They may have many possibilities, but only one has their heart. The trick to loving a Scorpio is knowing when he needs you to be in his corner, emotionally, and mentally. A smothering technique will not work, but a gentle, "I'm here if you need me" and mean what you say, is sure to keep his stinger at bay. The reason he drives you crazy is because you are an air sign at heart, but you are the water bearer, so the emotions that you feel are foreign to you. If you are honest sometimes you can admit that you have no idea WHY you feel the way you do. This will be a very hard thing for scorpio to follow as they always know what they feel and why. When expressing a point, ALWAYS have the reason outlined in full as to why you feel a certain way about a point. NEVER LEAVE ANY BASES UNCOVERED, as Scorpio WILL find the loophole in your testimony. As far as how he feels about you, trust me if you have had repeated intimacy he likes you. Scorpios are NEVER where they don't want to be and they don't invest their deep seeded emotions into everyone. You all will argue to no end, because you are both demanding zodiacs, Scorpio will loose control, and so will Aquarius and it is up to the more mature party to get things back on track. What is it that he expects from you, and you him that you are not getting? I guarantee I can help you get it.
My advice cancerstuck is to call him on anything other than a relationship issue. Just have a casual fun converssation with a flirty edge. Cancers love to be teased and a little ego shooting won't hurt. Tell him things like "I know why you stop calling me, it's because you can't handle me, you bit off more than you can chew with this one right?" and laugh it off, 9 times outta 10 he will either want to show you that he can indeed handle you, or leave you alone, either way you have the answers you need. I know the fire in you thinks all this is unnecessary, but that is one of the downfalls of fire, it eventually will burn out, and if you are looking for a long term thing you have to find ways to keep your fire burning, water will not do that for you as water extinguishes fire.
Professor Grey,
I am a Libra and currently seeing a Pisces. We have been involved for at least 2 years. We enjoy each other's company, spend quite a bit of time conversating and have great love making each time we enteract. I guess my questions to you are, (1) if we're compatible, (2) will our relationship go further and (3) are we really in to each other or is it just the sex. By the way, he is younger than me, loves older women and very mature for his age.
Wow I am blown away you jus described my scorpio perfectly. What i want from him is for him to be mine and no one else's and for him to pay more attention to me!!!! He makes it difficult to get close to him on purpose!!!! But i want us to get together i see a good future with him he would only act right
Hold on Customer ! will be right with you!
Dear Customer. Libra and Pisces, astrologically you two are nto a match, but I have been involved with a mismatch for about 10 months and loving every minute of it. As libra you are social butterfly. You can get along with anyone!! Your main goal in life is to have a good time, no stress and live and let live. You don't like alot of chaos and discord, and when things becoem too complicated and overly emotional, you may tend to shy away until the waters are calm again. Unfortunately for Pisces they are intense emotional thinkers. You all have good intimacy because you both thrive on attention. Both like to be spoiled. teh only problems I see in the future is Pisces indecisive nature. Fear dictates them. If he grows to love you beyond repair, your fun-loving attitude will make him think you are not as caring as him and don't take matters as serious as he does. Your scales will allow you not to dwell on his fears and act accordingly. Just keep in mind that he is water and you are air, and the more he starts to feel for you, the more he will want you to be all to himself. If you are ready for a full time commitment then go for the gold. Pisces make excellent lovers, but they like mind games, and constant attention. If you can withstand and you eing air i know you can, you will be fine. Just make sure their perception does not become your reality.
well thank you Knowitall, I have had alot of experiences with Scorpios, so we are truly connected... Hope it helped!!
One more thing knowitall, Scorpios resist any type fo push. The best way to get them to do what you ask, is to act as if it doesn't bother you one way or anoher, their intense need to please you on their own terms will produce the results you need.
Thank You sooooooooo much I thought i was gonna lose my mind with this one for a second!!!! But with this new information I'm ready to regroup
thanx a million smooches xoxoxo
How's about libras and capricorns, Doc? Are me and my girl compatible, or should I buy that new flat screen I have my eye on?
Professor,
You hit the nail on the head! As a Libra, that is truly me...and him as a Pisces, he truly does LOVE attention. I know he's falling more and more in love, and somewhat afraid to completely open up about it, but his actions speak volume! I will continue to put him to the test!
Thanks for the advice!
anytime knowitall, remember with Scorpio less is more, but not too less that they don't feel like you care. Be a REAL person, no games, they will find it comforting and will submit to 95% of your needs. Allow them to keep the 5% they hold back, and one day you will have it all....
Dear Seamus, your capricorn is an earthy level headed girl. She knows who she is and doesn't need a man to tel her ANYTHING. This goes hand in hand with your philosophy of live and let live. She is a great lover, and will have natural nurturing instincts. Sometimes you will think that she was created by God just for you. Your playful nature as Libra will help her with the attitudes she will try to have when things don't go her way. Your match is good, but Capricorn is a SERIOUS zodiac, so you MUST know when to do your Stand Up Comedy Routine and when you channel your Law and Order persona. As Libra you are naturally flirtatious. To you this is nothing, its sport if you will. Luckily for you Capricorn, NORMALLY is not a jealous sign as they already feel they are the best and don't think that anyone can compare anyway. My advice to you, keep the relationship fun,and non threatening but be MOST aware that you are indeed in a relationship!
Dear Customer, I dated a Pisces once, I wish that I knew then what I know now as that may have been my soulmate...
But you live and learn right? Take Care
Dont have any issues just fropped by to say hello!!
Well Hello to you too Miranda how is your Scorpio man doing? What... you didn't think I rememebered?
Hello Professor, I'm a Pisces and I've been dating a Capricorn for nine months. I don't think he's being honest with me and I think he was in a relationship when I met him but he won't say so. Should I wait for things to materialize or should I keep it moving? I really like him and I feel as if he likes me?
Dear Anonymous,
You have been dating this Capricorn for over 9 months and you feel that he is cheating...still? First before being suspicious, lets analyze what you are feeling and why. You are Pisces, therefore unfortunately you will always be suspicious as most water signs do not trust easily. They are very intuitive and most often their gut feeling is right on point, however, you must learn how to determine what is real and what is fantasy. What reasonings do you have for believing he is dishonest and unfaithful? If he was in a relationship when you all met but broke it off immediately when things got heavy between you two, would that upset you? Do you feel that if he did it to his ex (dating someone and starting something new with someone else) that he will do it to you? 9 months is a LONG time to keep a lie going. Chances are if he is cheating and you don't have overwhelming proof of why you feel the way you do, then you maybe grabbing for straws. Trust your powers of intuition, and look for the clues to support your thoughts. Do a little snooping (privately) as Capricorn is a very BASIC zodiac, too much questioning and suspicion will run them away. After all if he is cheating and you find out, are you willing to let him go, or torture him in a loveless and untrusting relationship? The truth is always best to know, however, after a full term of pregnancy, and no concrete evidence has been obtained, my advice is be aware of the power of fear. If you are moving toward being in love it is natural to feel that the person you love is less than perfect, especially for Pisces. Pisces immortalize their lovers, meaning they put them on sometimes unworthy pedestals feeling that they can do no wrong, at the same time always suspcious of what they ARE actually doing. Astrologically speaking, your zodiac is composed of 2 fish swimming in opposite directions. YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE DOUBT. The trick is to learn yourself. By doing that, you will be able to determine when your mind is playing tricks on you and when there is cause for alarm..
Thank you that was something to think about!
ANYTIME!!! Hope it helped!!
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