Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Baby Mama Drama
What do you tell a friend who is struggling with 5 kids by 5 men, all of whom have no contact with their children and conveniently happens to be pregnant again by yet another man. I personally don't feel it's my place to tell a person how to conduct themselves in the bedroom. She sees the "Wrap it up" ads just like you and I. I make pretty good money w/ no kids and still can't understand where most of my money goes. She isn't receiving public assistance. She works a lot of overtime to make ends meet. That means that the streets & daycare are raising her children. At this point am I allowed to even speak out on this situation? I can't possibly give her the birds & bees talk. Hell she's a few years older than me. Did I mention that she's had twice as many abortions as kids. I've been diagnosed with a condition which highly prohibits my chances of having kids. But she gets pregnant when someone breathes on her and then decides which ones will make it to this earth based on how fine the daddy is. What am I as a friend supposed to do?How do I talk to her without offending her or coming off as a know-it-all?
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Obviously you are extremely concerned about your friend and maybe you should let her know the real and not pull any punches about it. I highly doubt anyone has bothered to be a friend and tell her the cold hard truth. In doing so, you will definitely risk losing her as your friend but sometimes that's the chance we take.
There is no easy way to tell a friend that their life choices are wrong. Many of us care deeply about our friends and hate to see them go through difficulty. We must remember however that what looks like hard times to us, may not be hard times for all. People can handle their own demons, and God gave us the common sense to avoid simliar demons in repetition. She obviously sees nothing wrong with reproduciton or she would take the necessary steps to prevent it. All you can do is offer your advice as a friend and make sure you let her know you are not trying to run her life but you are concerned about her and just wanted to let her know that. People tend to forget that when you are REAL friends with someone their hurt becomes your hurt and vice versa. Just let her know how you feel and maybe give her a box of condoms on her next b-day!! LMAO!!!!
If she don't care why should you? Its her ife, her sex, her vagina, don't let your feelings manifest into hers as long as she don't ask you for money to pay for the lil crumb snatchers then let her continue to raise the population.
At this point I think the least of your worries should be the possiblity of you offending this person! And if she's does get offended, I'm sure she'll get over it!! It's clear she doesn't comprehend well!! I agree, I too make decent $$, have 1 kid with support from the fam but money seems to go as fast as I get it. She needs to be told flat out! For years you've tried to hold back but some times you gotta let it out! If you don't want to tell her, then I will!! Let me know....
Are u serious pregnant again????????? Honey it is time for some tough love!!!!!!!! You need to dig deep with this friend and find out is there some kind of void she is trying to fill by having all these children. No mentally sane person wants to have a bunch of kids they can't afford to take care of. I wouldn't worry too much about coming off as a know it all it is too many lives involved. Suffer not the little children because their mom is a basket case!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's HER body. It's HER choice. She knows what she can and can't afford. Handsome B..no one has to let her know the real. She has 5 real kids with one on the way. It don't get no REALER than that.
Pretty in Pink who are you to tell anybody anything when you said you receive family support. She's doing it w/o the kids father so maybe she should school you.
Well in the beginning the statement of her "working overtime alot to support these kids" is the issue at hand. If she's always working to support her vaginal intake, then who is raising them!! She can't school no one on anything Thick in da thighs, she aint got time, she gotta work to support her army. $100 bet she is the first parent at her kids schools talkin bout "uh uh, not my Tequila she wouldn't do that! I know my daughter!!" girl right, you haven't the slightest who your daughter is, you're never there to get to know her!!! Strap it up, we don't need no army of Section 8 hoes to back her side up either.....
Bitchplease she made her bed so let her lay in it. You are going to pay taxes if people are on the 8 or not. It's HER decision. Not what you feel the world needs now.
Section 8 is here to stay! Open up your fucking wallets. Suckas!
I can speak on it because I live the shit everyday!! When you truly take care of a child paying for dental, medical, saving for college etc., it's hard ass hell!! My fam's helps prevents me from paying babysitting / childcare cost which is something ole girl ain't paying either!! Considering I actually do know the person we are discussing, I have all the damn right to speak on it!! yes it's her body and her choice but what's the limit!! She has her older kids taking care of the smaller kids and that's fucked up!! The older kis can't enjoy their own pre-teen and teenage lives because their stuck dealing with their mother's irresponsible sexual behavior!! And BTW the way thick n da thighs, I'm doing it without any financial support too from my BD!!
People like you are the reason I'm going to law school!! Once I'm done I'm getting into politics and getting rid of that Sect 8 bullshit!! And I'm sure I'll succeed because everyone is tired of u lazy muthafucka's getting ova!!
If you are an adult and are fine with Section 8 then that is your cross to bare. She did make her bed, and she is laying in it, but the original blogger has nothing to do with her bed, nor does she lie in it, however she does help her make all 5 of them beds...Oh Thick in the thighs, the first of the month is coming soon, no need for the sarcasm..meanie
I think she needs professional help. Anyone doing this is definitely walking around with blinders on. I am willing to bet that someone has told her something already. So, you are beating a dead horse trying to tell her to wake up. This woman has to have some family somewhere even her teenage kid(s)that have told her that this is ridiculous. Having 5 kids isn't the issue; it's carelessly having them. Not thinking of the kids and their future. These children may not ever know who their sprem donor was because she may not even know. From what I am reading she doesn't care about diseases, hopefully she will be around to see her kids. This is horrible not sad in the least. She may need 1-800DOCTORS for a VD and Psych consult.
Bitch Please and wanna be Pretty in Pink can both go and enjoy a cold glass of bleach.
I got you right here PNP, "My fam's help keeps me from paying child support" that's your quote right? Well if it wasn't for your fam then your ass would be on Sec 8 waiting for the 1st to.
That's for PNP.
what the hell?
Now you all that because you are a lawyer. Well if more peoples fam was in the picture more we'd all be lawyers to. You got lucky, don't tturn your nose up at the rest of us. Remember what goes up must come down.
Bitchplease I see you are being careful. You don't want me to get after your ass...bitch please!
Well lets have a toast with that bleach, while me and PNP will be sipping on Name Brand Top Shelf Bleach (Clorox) we will inform the waiter that we are a part of the "Reach Out To Hud Home Hoe" program, and to bring the cheap bleach, you know the one that is spelled BLEECH for you as Section 8 can only afford that brand.. Will we have to wait until the first for you to join us, or do you still have some money left on you link card that you can sell?
I dare any one of you fake ass boogee bitches try to tell me anything. I'm a slayer, i'll verbally cut you up. Believe me you don't want it with me.
Oh I'm not being careful I just had to whip out my Low Class Ho dictionary to find the accurate words to talk to you in...besides I can tell by your insults that your vocabulary is limited and you'll run out of words soon enough, New Flash cumdrinker, just because your legs look like gyro meat dont make you thick in the thighs.... you prolly look like a can of busted biscuits, thats why you all FUCK and be merry about it, Pretty Women can afford to select, the only select you can afford is a chicken select from McDonalds... GOD I wish the first would hurry up and get here so this bitch can go cop her a bottle of Moet and think she doin it big....insect!!
a slayer huh, Muffy the welfare check slayer....be gone
LMFAO! ROTF! Hell to the Nall!
Im still waiting for her to slay me...
well lemme give you one to grown on, Thick, if you get some cocoa butter and lather up before you put your clothes on that rash caused by your thighs rubbing together will fade. Also, the smell coming from your triangle can be easily remedied with vagisil, soap, and spring water. I woulda said tap water but yo shit need a lil more than a tap! Bring it back alley Sally, this is what I do bitch, this is what I do!!
Hi...remember me? The one with the dilemma. I was tryna to find out how to talk to my friend, not a douche tutorial...Thanks a lot Bitch Please.....LMAO!
what the hell?do u care about urself or just lay on ur back and open ur legs to anyone that says hi to you?It looks like the guys unload there goods in you and than take off and u never see them again.come on girl its 2008 girl power baby.How in the name of god do u put a roof over ur 5 kids heads.I know my mom had a hard time with 4 back in the 70's.Spend more time vertical and less time horizontal..
Anytime Air Force every woman should know these things, but some are late bloomers. Thick is prolly one of those women that is someplace wondering right now why her bras never match her panties, gutter snipe ass....
as for your issue, any friend that cannot take constructive criticism that is gien out of love, is a friend that is not worth the worry of losing. It is her life and her concern only, however when she ask you to babysit read that bitch her rights, like I just did for Slick in da thighs....
Maybe you should let Brad set her straight. Then again she gets pregnant if she's in the same room with a guy. Beware Brad!
shit.i am not ever guy(dog) out there that bangs everything in the park.close those legs honey and go to school and better urself.What the hell dont make me get Jesse Jackson and Rainbow Push on your ass.Ur better than that girl..Now is the time to take care of ur business and care about urself rather than the whole city of chicago.Time to get ride of those junk yard dogs and get a man that will stand by ur side ..peace
Bitch...Bitchplease. You bout busted your dam self. You don't know shit about me bitch. My thighs my ass my stomach and tits and cucci is tight. To bad you can't say the same. I look good. SPeaking of BLEECH who done seen that but your po ass. You bout shop at Aldi's drink red pop and live on the low end in the projects. Don't give me no hygene tips. If your man saw me I'd have him paying my bills. Bitch
Ok here is how to deal with ur friend,get as many people as u can find and make a line,and one by one bitch slap this girl until she gets back into the real world.brad 3:10
yes he would "Thick" he gives to charity quite often one more won't hurt. So lets see I'll tell my honey to give $10 to the "My Momma on Crack Rock" fund. Now you're taken care of. Why don't you pick on someone your own size like the 79th street bus, you fat uncomfortable built bitch. You ugly, broke, got Red Pop in your refrigerator, a broke down oldsmobile in your front yard, and a broke ass man on your couch, yeah I seen BLEECH in yo fuckin house bitch which by the way is sooo small you got a sign on your front door that says "Don't spit we can't swim" Bitch NEXT!!!
Wanna be thick n da thighs, it's time to break out that ghetto dictionary because coochie is the way it should be spelled, not cucci!!
change
pretty n pink and thick should get together and have sex and become lesbo lovers and go to cali and get married and shut up.
Fuck you Ugly in Green
PNP, she thought that was hot spelling it that way, its almost like Gucci, that way she can be free to think that her tirangle is worth as much as something sold by them... NOPE!!!! If thats the case you should name your shit SAMS CLUB where people buy shit in bulk, for dirt cheap!! Dirt being the operative word in the sentence!!
Thats right Obama. Both them Ho's need to ride out with they bullshit ol raggedy lookin' hoes.
Get your big reject Ellen and Portia lookin more like Grace Jones and Macy Grey lookin ass out of here.
Wait why is everyone so angry? This blog started originally today to find out how to help a friend in need. So far all Air Force One has learned is that Thick in da thighs has a ripe pussy that needs to be taken care of, a nasty rash from thigh friction and is shaped like the 79th street bus, we have learned that Bitchplease stuck up ass hates section 8 users a program that was originally designed to help those in need, and that she wouldn't know a HARD life if it snuck up behind her and stole her 1996 Dooney and Burke purse. Can we get back to the subject at hand!!!
Now y'all have forced the mission statement to be changed. Thanks Thick, Pretty n Pink and last but surely not least Bitchplease.
Miranda you don't know what you geting yourself into girl, please don't let you fingahs write a check your back account can't cash. This is an information site correct? Well Thick needed some lessons on how to get rid of triangle odor, and how to alleviate thigh friction marks, I gave her that, now she's fine and you will be too if you speak out of turn again...
ummm getting is spelled with 2 L's, and whats a back account?
thank you very much Miranda for your spelling tutorial, its nice to know that all 6 years you spent in high school have finally paid off. A "Back" Account is an account that you have to take separately, one for you and one for your fat ass back, ask Thick she knows, her Back account is severely overdrawn....
and don't do me Miranda, do your hair trying to give me a little too much on my spelling...
well don't do me, do spell check Bitchplease....
I just did spell check in the last two paragraphs. I "checked" the bitch that was overly concerned with spelling....hence the spell check.. Keep talking you gon find out what other kinda spell I know....AFter we drink that bleach that Thick was offering why don't you have a glass of "Shut the fuck up" as a chaser...
Thank you for inviting me to this back and forth LUNACY people are writing..WOW...Anyway, why are you even friends with somebody with such a mentality?
Well hello Shansmeeze. She's not a bad person. Just a little misguided with poor judgment. She needs help right now not abandonment. Yeah this post did take a bit of a detour....LOL!
Misguided she is not, if she had one or two BD maybe but 5 kids by 5 deadbeats with a 6th on the way and many more abortions. She is not misguided! She lacks good judgment, common sense, and thinks being pregnant is a joke. What type of example is she setting for her kids?
That is what I call trying to feed a dead horse or pushing sand against the tied. Friend or no friend at some point we all have to let them make their on decisions. We all know they are going to make them anyone w/o regard to anything we say. Certain things they will listen to and the obvious things they are not. That is what I like to call "selective hearing" At the end of the day, as much as we love them, we have to pretty much let it go & let God deal w/ that person or situation accordingly. Finally, to keep it real, because I know the person, you know just as well as I. She/they aren’t going to hear a word we say, they didn’t back then & definitely are not about to start now @ her age…that ship has sailed…
Dear Miranda Hobbs before you try to cut bitchplease for not using spell check u may wanna refer to a spelling and phonetic guide as well. You told bitchplease that "getting" is spelled with 2 "L"s. No boo boo, it's 2 "T"s. In the future check urself b4 u wreck urself. Tomorrow we'll work on colors. Class dismissed.
With all due respect Mr. Obama, you should've told your former pastor to shut up. Not people on a blog. Change that!
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