Wednesday, July 23, 2008
The G Spot
Everyday millions of people have sex but only thousands are having good sex! If you are one of the lucky ones please share with us some of the tricks of the trade in terms of what you have found, that if done properly, can produce a healthy and outstanding sexual experience. Men tell us what gets you to "stand up" and women let us know what makes your kitty kat meow! The lack of good sex is more of an issue than you may realize. 9 times out of 10 it is the basis of why people cheat. Yesterday's topic was a prime example so what tips and techniques would you have given to prevent a person from searching for that "good good" outside of their union or holy matrimony? Click on the title for a clearer understanding.
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There must be a great physical attraction. I've had an okay boyfriend whom I loved and respected. We were great friends and the sex was more of and obligation or duty on my part because the attraction wasn't there. If I'm attracted to someone a look will do it for me, Hell hearing his voice will get me ready better yet if he breathes on me it's on.
Slow head in the pale moonlight.
Agreed AF1, I have had multiple partners in terms of relationships. We were really good in all other areas but there was no animalistic cravings for me. As Scorpio we THRIVE off of that. I mean I have dated the pretty but there is a big difference between being pretty and being sexy. Sex Appeal comes from within, it cannot be taught, pretty can be mastered through artwork done to the body. If you aint got sex appeal you just aint got it....
well I like a guy who takes control. Grabbing, pulling, pushing, sweating, pumping, biting massaging and kissing all at once. Don't laugh because it is VERY possible!!
At risk of quoting Tyrese "you know we be tearin it up, breaking stuff that ghetto love" that what I'm talking about. Sex is s'posed to be raw and unadulterated!!
Exactly AF1 Some people you have an animal attraction to and it doesn't take much for them to send you into outer space...... Man I had this one nigga every time I saw him we had to have sex it was crazy but it was great!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then some niggas you be like when is this going to be over and why am I doing this again oh yeah i like him....What the distinguishing factor is I'm not really sure but man some men make you want to show them all the freak you gots in you!! lol
C'mon Miranda, that's what I'm talking about "so I let him lick the wrapper". Just don't choke me. LOL. I was involved in a physically abusive relationship so I'm likely to have a flashback and crack a nigga upside his head. NO CHOKING PLEASE!!!
Yall is Crazy. Cuz as long as he paying I'll be playing.
As long as you spank me and pull my hair and stick your finger in my but while you hittn it from the back I'll be fine!!!!!!!!!!!
I like a nigga who knows how to zero in and shoot to kill. I mean don;t get me wrong, the slow and sexy thang is cute, but damn, GET TO IT!! I think slow and sexy should be limtied to foreplay and that is it, when we are about to get down, I need you to find spots I never knew existed!! I don't want to be able to talk on the phone while you are handling your business. I want to be damn near comatose!!
I know that's right bp08 bang bang bang skeet skeet skeet!!!
I believe that physical attraction is paramount, but I also think both have to be on the same wavelength in terms of what they want out of the relationship. I have been married 14 years and we both lead very busy lives, but even if it's a quickie, it's a good and satisfying quickie. We are connected more than through the physical attraction. We have a deeper connection. Nice blog. Thought-provoking issues!
Damn KNOWITALL, this a side of you that I LOVE!!! Bout time, I knew there was a freak in you someplace under all that anger!!
For me since I play on both sides of the field I'll just speak in general. I like my dick sucked. I like it sucked WELL. Stop kissing the shit, licking the head, and looking up at me smiling and shit. Put it in your mouth and digest the muthafucka!! See when I'm getting head I don't like the "twitch factor." What I mean by that is, when I am squirmin that doesn't necessarily mean its good, that just means you are hitting a sensitive area. Sensitive doesn't always produce ejaculation!! AND THAT IS THE POINT CORRECT!!!??? When I am laying there still as hell, that means you have gotten me to the point where I can't move. THATS A HEAD JOB!!!
So Miranda, Knowitall & BP, if your MAN couldn't do it the way you guys just described would you cheat with someone who could put it down.
Janet we talking about SEX not love and marriage. Although I do believe that sex is better when you are in love, however GOOD sex is GOOD sex whether its your husband, or the nigga from Comcast coming to hook up your HOME BOX OFFICE!!!
Girl it depended on how good the relationship was, if SEX was the ONLY thing that was wrong then i would stick it out and try to teach the old dog new tricks, but if other areas were bad as well, I might have to take a dip...
I would tell the fool, man this is not working why don't you have dinner instead!!! (wink) LMAO!!!
Welcome Janet we usually arent this RAUNCHY but you picked a hell of a day to join. 14 years WOW!!! Tell us how you maintained that!!!
Crimson what if its fast head in the sunlight would that still suffice?
Let's find out
I would try to do whatever possible to keep him from cheating. If he wants another girl...we can do that. But why is it when I ask for another guy I get static.
I don't want them to interact. I just want one in my mouth while the other hits me from the back. Is that asking for too much?
lets!!!, go and try it out and tomorrow let us know how it went!!!
not at all Princess, hell we might be able to hook that up, you know I am an equal opportunity employer...
This post should have been called the "thirty dirty" club, LOL! But interesting enough. I agree with most of the bloggers...that physical attraction is a huge part of knowing if you would have good sex with someone. Luckily for me, I've had great sex with everyone (yes everyone) I've been physically attracted to. As h20 stated, sex appeal is something else and it definitely can't be taught. It's knowing what you like whether you attracted to a man who has a certain swagger about him, or a women with a gap between her legs :0
what attracts you is what will make for an interesting sexual encounter
AF1 I jus discovered recently with a young man I really adore but the sex is not that great that I could still only be w/him and that's pretty big for me because I am super sexual person!!!! I spent most of my younger years lov'n them'n leave'nem now sex is important but not the most important thing but no I wouldn't cheat.
I got turned out by this guy and know he considers me a freak, lol. But not everyone knows I'm a freak catch my drift? I don't dress provocative, and to be honest I can count on one hand my sexual partners. But the ones I did have have been exciting! For instance, I met this older guy. He was 16 years older than me. At the time I thought he was too old for me and I wasn't that attracted to him so I turned him away. He would cont. 2 pursue for at least 2 years. Then one day something struck within me for him. I don't know if it was the suit he was wearing (and boy did he know how to wear one!) or his fragrance. But I gave in. But this was after 2 years of him being there for me trying to buy with lavish gifts and what not. So that kind of added to the attraction. This first time he was hooked! We didn't do anything freaky I just rode him until he came. This went on for about a year. He would always try and get me to go down on him but I didn't. I would always say "I'm saving that for my husband". But little did I know he taught me how to make him cum just by breathe on his d*&K. Year after year he introduced me to a sexual side I never knew I had. And the more I became comfortable with him the better the sex got. It got to the point we would do it anywhere, anytime and just about anything. This was exciting to me! I loved the fact that he was gentle when I needed him to be and gave it to me when he felt like I was "being a bad girl" ;)
He loved the fact that I made him feel like I really cared whatever I was doing to him. This went on for 10 plus years and I have never found anyone else that I can say I've had such a great sexual experience with than this guy.
ANON all praises to you, YOU JUST MADE ME STAND UP WITH THAT STORY!!
So you can breathe on it and make a nigga cumm? Lets do a one on one, I would like to learn AND experience that!!!
And find a name so we can have a reference. Again it doesn't ahve to be your real name!!!
All hail to Queen Anonymous (please select a name so I can properly greet you)....LOL! Now about this breathing thing can you teach me that....like today?
Dat Nigga get out of my head. We posted the same shit at the same time, lol!
For real girl, I thought I was cold but bitch you are the truth.
LOL, I don't do lessons but I will say this, he "fed" it to me - literally ;)
I came across your blog from another blog and thought your topics were very interesting. Keep up the good work!
Did anybody see Superhead's porno? The brotha's think her performance was all that. I thought it was ok, nothing to write home about. Tell me men do you guys like all the hand motion while getting head or would you rather for the hands to be on your balls?
Ladies, are you satisfied with a guy just licking your kitty or would you like him to also lick elbows, toes and booty holes?
oooh wee girl you need to write a book with that story! I was waiting to hear more , LOL!
Okay girl be like that. Im about to go find me an older dude ina suit and see what happens...LOL!!!
Welcome to our blog.
Firefly where has your ass been all day? Somebody got to get freaky for you to appear, WTF?
Your ass didn't even chime in at the round table for the topic. Gurl!
Hey like Adina Howard used to say, "I'll be a freak in the morning a freak in the evening..." LOL!
I think everyone has a little bit of desire in them to be "loose" with that someone who turns them on. Some just have more "desire" than others.
also inhaling as you go down on the shaft will enable you to take more in your mouth..... so I hear...giggle
well good evening Firefly....
I looooooooooooooooooooooove for a man to use his tongue like it's a penis if you know what I mean :?
Alright Firefly, "I need a rough neck brotha who can satisfy me" I see you Adina!!!
oh yes knowitall, DINNER IS SERVED!!!!!
I am not a fan of tossing or getting my salad tossed. I think its repulsive. For girls have them eat you pussy, not your dookey chute!! For men, yall just gay!!
Well dat nigga if a nigg wanna like my ass I'm gonna let him because that sh@@ feels greaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!!!
I must say knowitall, you have really come out of your shell and its very attractive.... very attractive
LMMFAO!!!!!!!!!!11 ;>
Dont get me started. Correct me if I'm wrong Dant Nigga and H2O. Now that sister knowitall is talking about doing the do she's attractive?
So if she tells you how she wants to be treated she's mean, bitter corporate bitch.
I guess that's how men think...as long as they get to hit something they don;t care what you say or how you look of if you're a bitter bitch. Men!!!!
Princess I guess it's ok to be bitter as long as your freaky lol! :
I don't have time to pacify a man with booty talk who bout aint worth shit no way. This is the shit that kills me.
Trust I feel you on that because that's the thing most niggas never make it to the freaky part!!!
You didn't tell us what you like H2O.
Damn, thats what you'll on today!Shit I thought I clicked on the wrong site...all we need now is a webcam & we could really get it...AF1 (reading your commentary) I might have to have some company tonight...LOL
Get her Melllllllllooooooooooo !! ;>
Yes, the hands is essential in your assistants to a GOOD BJ!
One of the things I do to see if I got a squirter on my hands is my special called the "Butterfly" (not to be confused w/ the song)
LOL!!! Anonymous killed it with the breathing technique. I was just trying to get some clarity or a lesson, som'n!!!
But where do you want the hands...on your balls or the shaft?
The butterfly, huh?
I think I'm ready to flap my wings mello.
I hate when a girl just uses all mouth and no hand activity w/ a BJ! Get your hold body involved in the process...I'm a fair man, give yourself a hand-job at the same time as well!
The shaft baby, the shart...stoke "hem" like the cure is in there...
Does anybody in here role play or do dances? Or are y'all just straight sex no entertainment?
Now, I will tell you about the butterfly..but don't be using my shit..I got patent & will sue yo' ass!
Yeah see I knew that already I use both my hands they be all over the place like an octopus!!!!!!!! lol
There you go knowitall...make daddy proud!!!
Lmmfao!!!!!!!!!! ;>
Make daddy proud knowitall.
Butterfly requirements;
-Index finger
-your middle finger+the finger before the middle
-fold your pink (as not to get in the way)
-keeping you thumb available when & if necessary
-Your Tongue
-All of thee above are to be applied to the Virgina- (If more specific information is needed, please ask)
I am officially HOT and bothered.
That's sounds realllllllllllll goooooooooooooooooooood to me I have to try that w/one of my jump offs lol !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please note: If you are a women that is anal retentive, this exercise may not be for you. This exercise requires slight index finger penetration of the gluteus maximus (This is why Male manicures should be a pre-requisite)
Oh lawd!!!!!!!! I love a finger in my glutes!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!! ;>
princess sorry to be so late witha response, you know as well as I do that knowitall telling us how she wants to be treated, has little to do with why she was bitter in her comments. Its refreshing to hear something other than "no good nigga" this an "punk ass nigga" that. THAT is what is attractive, girl don't start....
Yeah princess they want you to be a freak in dark a lady in the light, keep yo mouth shut, feed'em, f@@@'em and suck'em which I would have no probs doing but they don't know how to treat me lol
Also, it should be noted that a clock wise & counter clock wise rotation of the tongue and fingers to the Virginia, Clitoris, & Anal in sequence is essential for proper use and results..
(Hence the name "Butterfly")
again Inhaling while you swallow allows for more to be digested
well Princess I like foreplay. I love eating, licking, touching, massaging and then breakin yo back!!! See the thing with me is I LOVE when a lady WANTS me. I love to see her eyes begging me to relieve her of her stress. More than anything I love a good head job as well. I don't liek my balls played with too tough, its all about the dick for me....
awww knowitall we almost had a hate free commentary from you and you had to let princess turn you...
stop listening to her she's evil!!!
Now continue with how you like your ass palyed with boo
Know see dat nigga I didn't think that was too bad ;/
you good knowitall I was just giving Princess too much!! LOL Does anyone (females and I have to say this because of my line of work) like their tits played with.
I know some men who like their nipples licked, personally that does NOTHING for me. I be straight tryin to push their head down!! LMAO!!!
One time I was ina restaurant (very quiet and private) and this guy I was on a date with slipped under the table and had an all you can eat buffet. NO ONE even saw him, and it was sooo erotic that I was ina public place and I could not even react because of it. The waiter kept coming the the table (which was clothed all the way to the floor) and asking me, if I wanted somethign else and if my date would like something else and I was soooo fucking set off I jsut waved him away!!!
I got head in a movie theater once. I mean that seems very blah, but the trick was not letting anyone in on what was going on, we wasn't in the back of the theater either. Sneaky public sex is the fucking best!!!
I've never had sex anywhere other than a house bed or couch depressing I know right!!!!!!!!!!!! :<
The AMC Theater (downtown) underground parking garage....you wouldnt believe the sh*& I did in there to a couple the girls I used to date....I broke laws in at least 30 states
205 N Michigan, FOX NEWS public bathroom mello!!! I should be banned from watching FOX after those sexcapades!!!!
KNOWITALL! Damn-it don't tell nobody else that!!!(only@home shame on you babygirl..lol)
not depressing knowitall, maybe you prefer the peace and serenity of comfortability. I thought I did too until I was attacked in that movie theater!!! The entire experience was a rush of emotions you couldn't believe!!!
I'm with you knowitall, I hav enever had public sex, not that I wouldn't mind, but I would be TOO embarrased if I got caught. I was embarrassed for PEE-WEE Herman when he got caught!!!
Man, good look'n out dog, I was looking for a new spot...
LMMFAO!!!!!!!! :/
Oh dat nigga I try to make them do it to me other places but usually they are not willing!!!!!!
Embarrassed! Shit, I got caught in July 07' Giving my girl durb on the rocks @ the lake front on 55th...Guess by who! The Chicago police...The MF's walked right up on us, waited till she bussed and then flashed the light on us..they was cool as hell though..dude was like we heard her get hers shit gone get yours..just be gone by the time we walk back around! I still laugh my ass off about that oh man!
Knowitall?? girlfriend, You will f*&^ around and get arrested F*&^* w/ me, shit I will pull it just about anywhere...man it be off the chain & for some reason that much more good...I guess cause of the chance of gettn caught?? idontknow, but shit I love it!!!lol
I guess I'll find someone to try those things wit one day !!!!! lol
I think the key to good sex is a compromise of what you both want. If you know your man is a quick shooter do things that tease and stimulate him without over doing it!! Play with the dick, don't jack it off. Stimulate the head, dance for him, (again this is for your significant other, jump down situations need not listen) If you don't feel your man is satifying you, find things to do to yourself that will heighten his boring activity! If none of that works, FIND ANOTHER PARTNER
Oh Mello I woulda been tooooooooo embarrassed!!!
Agreed pussy cat, and might I say you are looking LOVELY today!!! I know you are married but DAMN girl, I know "sex with you is like when the check comes in the mail after being broke for so long" .....Marques Houston
Thanks Pussy cat doll cuz I shall gots a quick shooter!!! I have a question What does it mean when a man tells you "You are too wet you gonna make me come quick" Now is that game is that the overlay for the underlay jus letting me know that this is gonna be quick because ain't all of them wet? Anyone can answer this!!!!
DAMN KNOWITALL YOU GET THAT WET!!!!SHIT WHAT ARE YOU DOING LATER!LOL
Yes,baby that is true...sometimes the mood can get so intense that your move can get wet, hot, & tight & that could cause an early flight and landing...damn the cost of having Good "P"
girl thas game, you being too wet has NOTHING to do with how fast that nigga cumm. That is an excuse as to why he does cumm that fast!!
Oh ok!!! cuz I thought the negro was running game cuz he was jus quick!!!
So you do think it game huh dat nigga ?
My, my , my what have I missed? Y'all some freaks, LOL!
did you have this issue with any OTHER sex partners knowitall....
But I got a trick for that, when I know someone has a wip that good,dig this;
-I have one on the house (i.e. give myself a hand), probably in the shower.
-Then when we get together later on or whatever to get saucey.My body thinks its round two, which we all know last the longest & sometimes the best!!! Holla
Nope!!!!!!!!!!! but they do make a proclamation as to how wet it is
Airforce1,"G" where you been baby, its gotten hot & ugly on that freaky side up in this mug. I had to take a shower real quick..LMAO!!!!
Damn that..."Knowitall" I'ma start calling you "Waterfall"
It's more like a Tsunami!!!
Tsunami!!! WOW,
Will you marry me (LMAO!)
Lmmfao!!!!!!!!!!
dont go chasing waterfalls... oh sorry!! LMAO!!!
LOL...on my momma!!! Dizamm..lol
That's what we on now Miranda!LMAO
well then it was game knowitall, next time that fool tells you that tell him "my pussy been the same fo XX amount of years, but you the only one who comes quick because of it." See what he say!! LMAO... thas sexual tension that makes you that wet girl, you need to release that energy into the universe!!! I'll be first
Uh thanks for the advice but I don't think it's tension
You always know what to say H2O, I will never understand why you are still single.
Uuuuh tension don't have to be cus you are tense, when is that last time you had some GOOD sex!!?? That can promote tension without you even knowin it, but hey what do I know,,,LMAO!!
cus you went and got married on me thas why...
Well it has been awhile since goooooooooood sex!! ;/
I gotta take a lunch brake man, you sisters got me hungry (take it anyway you want to...perverts!) I will check back in a minute...
Hey PCD...long time no hear. Welcome to the blog.
...and "waterfall" a/k/a Knowitall, stop that teasing shit...Im easy...cook me a steak & have a DVR(comcast) you will have a permanent solution to your problems...
!!! lol !!!!!!!!!
Hey Airforce I just thought I would check you guys out, H2O be over there BUSY!!! I would check you all out on the day you all are talking about sex!!!
I guess people can like you knowitall. If you talk about sex you cant bitch much, huh?
UHHMMMMMMMMMM Princess watch it k pumpkin!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like princess need some d@@@ right now!!!!!!!! call me when that stuff clears up in your throat aight!!!
oooH ANON, you know today is the first day in a long time that no one insulted anyone, isn't it great how sex can bring everyone together and the lack of it, can tear us apart...
This was an excellent topic I got some really good tips thanx this really helped me out!!!
yup not one fight today...dont you just love a good orgy!
lmmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!
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