5'5, light eyes "thick n da Thighs", Tall and dark with a smile that
can brighten any bad day! What makes a person attractive? Men do you
care about women "faking it up" to achieve beauty with weaves, fake
breasts contacts, and/or butt/lip injections? Do women really go
through these great lengths to achieve beauty to attract attention
from men, or is to impress or flaunt for other women? What is beauty
really about?
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
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I think from the man's point of view it really depends on what the girl is "chosen for" when it comes to their outer shell and fake beauty. Me, I like women with sex appeal, that cannot be added by eyeliner and bigger breasts. Its from within, if you are NOT sexy then you are just NOt sexy. In a jump down situation, I could care less that everything on the women is fakely enhanced, its the mental picture that I am drawing energy from anyway!! But for the woman that I will be waking up and going to sleep with every night, I might need to have a little REALNESS to grasp on to! if only to not be totally turned off by the beast under the make-over...LMAO!!
In words of the late Pretty n Pink...."Image is everything"! If you don;t look cute with short hair by all means buy some. Don't want to wear glasses...get contacts. Wear flattering clothes for yourself and for everyone else. The R&B look is a bit much but then some people feel like that's what makes them sexy. If you don;t think you're pretty or do nothing to highlight main features, no one else will.
But Ladies, what about these men and their extremes. They get crazy with this "Stunna" image. That's not real...it's just as fake Miss R&B's 14" silky straight weave. Who in the hell are these people?
these people are people who lack self confidence and base their worth solely on the acceptance and admiration of others. I am the plainest man i know AF1, I do NOTHING to enhance anything. I bathe, I iron and I shave, thats it!! My body is not the best, however I have had my share of compliments, looks, and all of the above. I don't have 22' rims on my plain ass Mercury Sable, but I am happy with self, and whether anyonme tells me I look good, or not, I am complete either way! Also it helps when your SMOLDERING and MAGNETIC personality can make someone forget that your body don't look like LL Cool J...
Its all a game of “bait & fish” Men trying to find and women trying to be chosen. Its nothing wrong w/ it and it’s a great system. However, here is where I see the problem coming into play, the expectations of images we have in our head, or what our friends perceive as the look so on and so fourth. We some how get so lost in what’s “in” that we forget what we really want or like. With that being said, we then facilitated those images based on popular consensus?
Women trying to get then (not for health reasons) but so they can be chosen, implants, butt shots, & on and on! Men, God bless our hearts, its been feed to us that we have to be 6’9” black & bald w/ muscles or like back in the day (before Stella got her groove back) you had to be light skinned w/ pretty eyes & curly skin (consequently, the dark men were ostracized up into around 98’) making at least 250k per year, with, cars, homes, etc. to facilitate a women that doesn’t have 5% of that because she is cute or thick?
@Mello LMAO...
Maybe we should just do prearranged marriages. I think that would work.
well in my case mello, if you aint attractive to me, i can't deal, I have dated some folks that weren't in my idea the SHOWSTOPPERS but they attracted me. The wierd thing is, ME choosing them, made them more attractive to others...
When I get up in the morning and get prepared for my day, i am trying to impress all, myself, onlookers male or female. When you look good youfeel good. Am I trying to attract anyone, not really, but I do enjoy bein looked at, even if I have no interest in the on-looker it does feel good to be admired. It also feel good to crush a girl satorially, when she thinks she is the best thing since sliced bread...Just being honest
@ BP, that's what I was trying to say but I didn't want to come off as fabulous....LOL!
I must say that I feel better when I look like a video vixen. I love the attention, whether it be jealous looks or admiration. I hike up my big boobs, keep a fresh weave and the revlon stays flawless. This is the attention that I love and when your man is with you he's secretly wishing it was me. Sorry
Im w/ you H20...I like what I like, however, like you said, if I like them, they seem to like someone else. Then the ones I don't like seem to ALWAYS like me? Maybe I should use a reverse method???
-And to thee others you are right, one of my motto's is;
"85% of feeling good is looking good"
I get the fact that "everybody doesn't love Ramond" but I have to say, things were a lot easier for me in the 90's when I had "Butters" & was moving weight and was in the Cotton Club, Clique, Club Premier, etc. every night of the week...I remember when you had to have real swagger to get a dime piece. JBoogy, Barbara Bates, Pelle,real money...now you have to look like Gucci man or Lil Wayne crack head ass to relate to younger women & sorry to say even old women...it seems like it would be easier using call girls...
Men who floss do it solely for the purpose of a girl thinking they the shit...
A man's main focus is getting a grils attention, whether its his wife, his Suzuki, or his jump off around the corner, its all done to get us to look!!
Mello you better say that!! What kilss me is these tackheads (and please if you aint a tackhead do NOT feel the need to defend them as no one is hiring for tackhead defense attorney here) think swagger is something totally different from what I think it is. I don't have a grill because I have beautiful teeth, so why cover that up with accessorires. I don't have 55" rims because I have a luxury sedan, I don't dress flashy as hell because I think it's sexier to be wearing Calvin Klein and youa re the only one who knows it, then to wear it and the Fox News Helicopter reporters ar elike "yes there seems to be a backup on Lakeshore Drive today, oh wait is that CALVIN KLEIN HE's WEARING!!!" I am a LURE not an advertisement!!
Yeah Mello you was "THE MAN". Today you're a helluva REAL MAN which I respect you and admire you for.
We need a moment of silence for the Clique aka E2 and the Cotton Club. BTW The Premiere was before my time...LOL!
Not only that Mello, you ain't lost your swagg. I see you coming in curch an hour late w/ your fresh outfits on. I turn to sister Allison and say look at Mello ass walking in here all late and shit. Considering our church has 22,000 members, when you walk damn near 10k of them acknowledge you.
a bitch who wear weeves, contacts fake nails, implants is a fake bitch...period. Or a clown cause that's wht she's gonna look like!
I like em light with hair that curls up when it get wet! No dark meat for me sorry mochas but I like what I like!
Anon...kill it. The men all pause when I walk into the room. You may think it's fake but I'm sure you envy it too.
I was original Anon#1
Whatever redbonesall day. Don't be mad at us because your momma black as hell and you secretly resent dark meat. Mocha, whatever.
What does ones skin tone have to do with 2008. This aint skool daze. So if a dark girl was cute you would deny her?
Thanks AF1, I thought I lost my "ya dig" or something? But if you & Allison say I'm still in the mix...damn-it thats good enough for me?? I guess my popularity switched from one type of group to thee other which is cool though...
-Lets have another moment of silence for the Copper Box 1&2, The Godfather & Ineffects...
Damn Mello, you named some serious spots, did you ever hit AKA's, Chick Rick's??!! Can we give a moment of silence for them too?!
I think you should be happy with who you exactly the way you are.
video vixen, truth b told men only wanna F$%k u. All that head turning and attention ain't nothing but the negative attention u women think u want but then crying abt how niggas aint sh&* when we hit and quit it. The truth of the matter is men want a woman that is near to purity as can b. Why u think older men like younger women? cause they ain't all used up and abused. Sorry to say, all that fake shit is nice to look at, but at the end of the day all we care about is getting one thang from u.
That's why I love Rhianna. she is natural, topping charts and making history without the aid of MOP/WEAVE. I have a cut like hers and I am so happy to be able to just get in the shower and run my fingers through MY hair. yall weave sisters know you would love to be able to wash that hornets nest...
Anon all men care about is getting one thang from errrrrrrrrrrbody it doesn't even matter!!!!!! Niggas decide at the end of the let me see how many ways I can use a b@@@@ test if you good enough to be their girl!!!! I mean I'm all natural and the same thang goes for me men jus really at the end of the day want only one thing so it really doesn't matter if you wear weave or not.
ok ms thinkyouknowitall, a nigga wanna primarily f&*k a bitch that's putting all out there cuz she an easy target so whether she want to dress it up with a weave, fake titties whatever at the end of the day she doing it for some form of attention and when a man sees that its the first thing that pops on his mind. If yo ass hanging out I ain't thinking about if its natural, I just wanna maybe see what it feels like. on the other hand if a female carries herself well, ain't showcasing all her goods I may be intersted in her for her...at least at first :)
and yeah at the end of the day men wanna hit whether it be the first day or two months from initial meeting a chick we wanna hit it at some point. its the nature of the man.
Sorry RiRI fan Rihanna came on the scene with a weave and now she rocking a bald head weave. In Rihanna's words...Puhlease. She my girl but please she is maybellined up too.
and her legs are insured for $1 million dollars
Men think with their dicks so it's no surprise that's what they want. Like Knowitall said, y'all will a girl that looks liek a beast just for the sake of screwing. It's what y'all do.
Anyone can get any of their body parts insured esp. if their body is used to work in modeling.
Men do think with their nether regions soooooooooo like I said before it doesn't matter whether you carry yourself well or not if a nigga see azz and tits he's gonna wanna smash until he has a couple of convo's wit you and figga out if he wanna go any further wit u!
all men don't want to screw whatever they see sweetheart. I'm personally very picky and am not attracted to women who put it all out there so to speak. I like a woman with a lil mystery to her. I don't want a woman that maybe every Tom DICK and Harry done had.
yeah anonymous I am sure, however not EVERYONE can get $1 insurance for a body part... ESP someone as new as Rihanna
I disagree V.Vixen, and knowitall, some men have a preference in who they screw, some men can actually afford to be picky...
But the fact of the matter is H20 90% of men are not picky if you and Jari are then you are in the 10% that is nigga are like a car lot everyone is approved good credit bad credit not credit at all!!!!!!!!!
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