Friday, August 15, 2008
Astrologically Speaking
Today Professor Grey and Firefly would like to speak on First Date Etiquette. For some of us that first date is the impression maker, and there are certain things that should be obvious when trying to make a good impression such as having good hygiene - you knoooow, fresh breathe and a little cologne/deodorant goes a loooong way (you'll be amazed at some who don't practice this). But there are some things that are a huge no-no on the first date such as with men...don't touch a lady if she didn't invite you to do so! And ladies if you EXPECT him to pay why order the most expensive thing on the menu? But what about if the both of you hit it off. And I mean really hit it off! You see him/her there's instant physical attraction and later the both of you end up at her front door. Ladies do you invite him in (knowing good and well it may lead to the both of you on your couch). Men will you call her for a second date if you end up waking up next to her in bed? Different zodiacs may require different tactics about first date Etiquette. Got a special person in mind that you have been dying to ask out? Professor Grey can give you the know how on how to put your best foot forward with each zodiac to make that first impression a lasting impression. Please click the title link for a comediac look at first date rules!!
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#1 men, if you go out with a girl just be yourself please. I can't stand a wanna be baller. it's not cute to be fronting like you "got it" like that knowing damn well you dont! Cuz when I order that lobster yo broke ass be looking like you wanting me to chip in and pay for th e meal!
I agree with just being yourself, (true jerk or gentlemen). Don't open my door for me on the first date then on the third and fourth you don't because you were trying to "act" like you were a gentlemen. If you are a gentlemen at heart you will be that throughout if not the real you will eventually come out! I'd rather know what I'm getting into (or not) up front. I'd also rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I'm not.
Well ANON that's the problem with men. They do all this big baller shit to get girls and then they turn around and say girls only want them for what they got. Well dude that's why you got it to increase your chances of getting girls.
And then wanna call us golddiggers! Nigga please!
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annnd, if I do order the most expensive thing on the menu he should be prepared for that! It is a first date! How you gonna sound telling a girl you on a budget so don't order the lobster or filet mignon? Like a cheap ass!
Hey professor I'm an Aquarius as you know and when I on a first date I'm always relaxed and chatty maybe a lil too chatty but I don't only talk about myself I do try to get the guys involved in the conversation but I find that a lot of men do not find it easy to open up to me or to just be themselves around me and I'm trying to see if it's something I doing that's making them uncomfortable what do you think it maybe?
But anon why do you think you're entitled to have steak and lobster? Are you just ordering it because it's there?
hmm...I think both parties should be considerate in the first date. Of course you both wanna make a good impression, you only have one chance to make a first. So ladies if a man asks you out to say Ruth's Chris he may be able to pay for that lobster but still be considerate. If you know you wouldn't buy it for yourself why would you expect someone else to? But if he takes you to Golden Coral then you know he may be on a budget, LOL!
I'm entitled to have whatever I want not that I need him to pay for it but if he asks me out I do expect!
I'm asking is the only reason you're eating steak and lobster is because you're on a date so you feel that you have to go all in. Are you ordering what you enjoy or are you making a point.
I like steak and lobster and some scrimp err' now an then lol! But I'm saying though even if I didn't order it if a guy ask a girl out he should prepared for me to order whatever I want even if I don't order the most expensive thing.
I'm a little different. My aim when on a date is to see where a guy's appreciation of different foods and cultures. The ability to afford surf & turf is real cute but I make a mean one at home so that's not a big deal.
I need to know if we go to a Spanish themed restaurant and order Paella and a pitcher of Sangria or Sushi and Saki he's not going to turn his nose up or be opposed to trying it. That's what I can't stand. A cultured, open minded person is what's important to me not a hood nigga who still orders his steak well done.
Okay okay I want to stop this men bashing snowball affect before it gets too far...
#1 On a first date you shouldn't be ordering a Lobster anyway. Women talk all the time about how men want them to give them girl friend benefits without offering boyfriend treatment. Okay ladies, LEAD BY EXAMPLE! Compromise on what you are ordering. YO BROKE ASS AINT ORDERING LOBSTER WHNE YOU GO OUT, so don't try to match my fake baller persona with yo classy trendy fake bitch persona! Lets keep it real ladies, just ebcause a nigga is flashing money to impress you doesn't mean you are entitled to any of it. You wearing abad ass dress on this date, and you are showcasing all of your goods, does that mean that I am entitled to it..NO
#2 Ladies ALL PEOPLE MEN AND WOMEN put on a front on first dates. Niggas act like they are gentlemen and pulling out chairs and shit all the while KNOWING they ignorant asses just learned those tricks from watching an episode of G's to gents!!! Ladies you sit there at this table acting all prim and proper, you down for whatever giving the illusion that you are a down ass chick and don't have issues or baggage knowing yousa ignorant bitch that has way too much mouth for anyone to deal with on a daily basis!! KEEP IT REAL
HEY knowitall,
your chattiness on a first date should come natural. Don't try to push conversation let it come natural. Everyone is nervous ona first date but if you go places that inspire conversation, Movie, art gallery etc, at the dinner table you can always talk about what you just encountered. After that show the guy your silly side, talk about people!!! Don't be nasty, but be comical. Everyone whether they like to admit it or not enjoys a good rib session!!!
I here ya A1 but sometimes a guy just likes what he likes. If you can find a well rounded guy that can appreciate the fine things in life as well as the simple that's nice. But a regular guy (don't matter his income/education status) just may want his regular old steak and potatoes. My Father was that guy and he traveled the world, played professional ball and has a degree. He still came home and wanted my mother to cook a steak, salad and for dessert pecan pie with vanilla ice cream on top!
Well don't flash yo cash in front me tell me about yo net worth and try to take me to red lobster! Don't do me do yo babymama!
Thanx profess!
and don't my fake baller personality do your fake bitch persona!!
He probably is doing his babymomma which is why he can't afford to buy you no Lobster!!
Im just saying, EXUDE what you want to attract!! If you don't want no fake ass broke pimp, disguised as the last Don, don't be no fake ass broke hoe disguised as Diamond from the players club...
LOL @dat nigga! But see that's all I'm saying what's wrong with just being yourself on the first date? I think when you're younger you are more concerned with what people think about you so impressions are more important to you. But as you get older some people tend to care less and less about what people think if them. A good friend of mine told me - after cursing somebody out something ugly, "I stopped giving a fu&% after 30!" I laughed so hard!
You welcome Knowitall, and Dat Nigga you aint pullin no punches today are you?
Don't get me wrong I'll chop it up at the Chicago Chop House no doubt. But I've been on a date with a guy with a lot of money but no culture at all. All he knew and wanted to know was steak. That's what I can't stand...that gets routine and boring.
your mind has to be equivalent of the age bracket as well Firefly. Some people are over 30, or 30, or kicking 30 in the ass and still have the hang-ups of their highschool kids..
Either they gon like you or they not!! You think I give a fuck whether a nigga likes me or not on a first date, I'm usually the bread winner anyways so sit yo ass there, shut the hell up and receive this treatment... LOL
Well if he broke his babymama can have his broke ass just don't front like you got some money if you don't cuz I'ma call yo ass on it!
hey yall I had the best BLOW JOB ever last night, all that foreplay talk yesterday made me go home and get the business!! !
Oh my bad was that TMI..?
"the incense was burning and Im feeling right..aiight.." C'mon Erykah
If it's one thing I hate it's a stunna because I gots my own sh@@ and nuttn I need wit or from no nigga but some d@@@! So I reiterate don't do me do those low rent whores you all are so accustom to!
It aint that he don't have no money he may just don't want to spend it on you....
Not yet anyways...
and don't do his conservative ass do them 60 and 70 year old trick daddys that are just waiting for some young hot thang to spend they money...
Yeah that's true Dat I agree - you either like me for who I am or not, I could care less one way or the other. If you don't then I know I can expect you to not be in my life. But speaking in more terms of making an impression on other folks. I found as I got older, the less I cared about what others think especially about me, the better life is! It's so much easier to be yourself than to play someone else...wouldn't that be like having another job, LOL!
Well if you ain't ready to spend it then don't inform me about it because I don't need to know and don't care to know I gots my own sh@@!
I get sick of these nigga roll'n up on me going out of their way to let me know how many whips they got where they crib at and trying to show me some watch I've seen a thousand times and then when it's time to go on a date yo wanna try to take me to fridays o hell no!
that I can agree with to the fullest knowitall, I have been out wth niggas too that be trying to flash their money. They pull out their money I pull out my credit cards..
Money is for the now, credit lasts your entire life... WHAT!!
I know that's right dat nigga one thing i hate worse than a stunna is a nigga with money and no class still keeping his money in a mattress!
That would be the "hood nigga" that A1 is talking about, LOL!
Professor, I went on a really good date on Monday night with a Gemini. We met in December at a friends party. He returned home in April after the season ended but we lost touch. Well to my knowlede he's been going through it trying to find me because my friend doesn't date his friend anymore so it was damn near impossible for him to get in contact with me. He was the absolute perfect gentleman, with an outstanding personality we laughed the enitre night and found we had a lot in common. It was one of those dates where I lost track of time and before you know it 3 am rolled around. He's 32, no kids and damn good short term career and not married. What is our compatibility level?
you two are a match made in Heaven Airforce!!!
Gemini's thirst for knowledge will not only impress your Librean nature but it will compliment your quest for oneness!! There will never be a dull moment with Gemini and Librean curiosity will need that. Also you both are air and silly games of jealousy will NEVER be an issue because both of you all will be too focused on having a good time. You all will grow old together and still be the best of friends...
KEEP HIM!!! That's an order...
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