You're at a restaurant on the other side of town and to your surprise you see your best friend's mate entertaining a very attractive person of the opposite sex ( or same sex **wink-wink**). You try to convince yourself that this is innocent….right? I mean it could be a relative or a business dinner but that theory is quickly shut down as they get a little too close for comfort in their booth. Remember this is your "Best Friend" do you:
A) Go to the table and confront your friend's cheating mate.
B) Tell your friend all about it and risk them bringing up your name during the confrontation and if they decide to stay together the mate starts to hate you and then you got to cuss them out and tell them that you will never tell them anything ever again……Sorry y'all I had a flash back…LOL!!!
C) Mind your business.
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
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What i'll do is call my friend and tell them to get to the restaurant asap. That way im not in the middle.
I think you should tell your best friend she maybe a little upset at first but in the end when see's that he's really a jerk she will realize how good of a friend you really are.
mind your own business!! And this is a flashback speaking!!!
Couples fight all the time, and they make up all the time. No need for you to be labeled as a shit starter just because they are back in love now! Best friend or no, who you think she gon ride out with you or her dick supply? You'll as the friend willl be mad as hell in the end....
The only friendships that trump relationships are that of Girlfriends, Living Single and Sex and The City
Be slick about it, tell her you're stranded at the restaurant and need her to pick you up, and let her see everything for herself...
Welcome Arm Charm... love the name!!
Sounds like you are a beautiful arm piece for any man...
I once spotted my sister's bd at the club hugged up with some cheap a@@ broad I told her the next day. Why she gonna call me and say I'm finna click you on three way and I want you to say that while he on the phone because he said you are lying! I will never tell anybody anything about their man because when these hoes are dickmatized there is no turning back and no getting through!
People have their own path, and they must overcome and fight their own demons.
I will mind my own business, you can't save every innocent, besides that if she isn't packing her things when she is told then chances are she will not be going anywhere and now there is tension between you guys.
I would like to make a statement to all bloggers, commenting or blog hustling and reading along.
Yesterday's display of lunacy was very upsetting to the blog administrators. We could care less how many comments are posted at the end of the day especially when they are all negative. If this blog was to ever get BIG, I as one of the authors would PERSONALLY acknowledge each and every one of the regulars for helping us become succesful.
The comments posted by anonymous although, funny were very disturbing. Everyday I get feed back from people and everyday it is really good. Yesterday there were several people on here SCARED to comment because they didn't want to get cussed out by ANON (suck it). It is understandable to want to vent, however it is not understandable or acceptable to come here to get your verbal row off. No one here is here for the sole purpose to insult anyone and if that is your purpose, you will be ommited from the new blogsite that is in creation. We all know each other by now in terms of being blog buddies, lets try to keep it that way.
Although entertaining it severly hurts our chances of widening our audience if they click in and find nothing but $3 insults delivered with a $2 vocabulary.
Even not telling can sometimes become sticky. I saw one of my girlfriends guys on bullshit on several times and never once mentioned it to her. Well once he saw that I didn't talk he began trying to push up on me whenever he saw me. It got so bad that one day I was at his place with her for a card game and while she was playing cards he was pulling on me. I got a sudden headache and left.
yes that can be disturbing, try looking at it from my side of the fence. Once I was with a couple (the wife was a really good friend of mine) and she left the house to run some errands leaving me and the husband alone.
this nigga started walking around in boxahs, and ish, asking me did I like his tattoos and all kinda crap. Telling me he needs a massage and that he is tense and he heard I was good at that!!
HE NEVER speaks to me when we are all together and per my friend he is severly homophobic and the only reason why this nigga kicks it wit me, is because "...he don't act like a normal fag, he cool.."
So at this point I have a decision, do I tell her because she is my friend? Or do I keep it to myself because aint no way in hell a girl is about to believe a nigga could want me over or along with her.
now the average "hunter" I'm not gon lie, will get down, and say nothing but I am not the average which is prolly why the nigga kicks it with me. So what do you do? Well I told her, because if it wasn't me and sometimes he felt liek a nut and sometimes he didn't, some other lowlife sissy might get to him and she is still my friend!! This bastardtwisted the story up and said that I was the one coming on to him.
She believed it of course, because after all, im gay right, so I would have to be pushing up on him...
I asked her, "well Einstein, if this were true what took him so long to tell you" because if I were a homphobic man and a man pushed up on me, one of my wifes friends, I would tell on him immediately!!! She had no answer, so i got them both back, I put one of my secret agent friends on the case, to seduce him, and bring him to a far away location (this took months as it had to be planned just right) and make out in a car, then I had one of my other secret agents, mutual female friend Agent 99, bring her there and watched the entire thing blow-up in her face, after all it was a public place, how was Agent 99 to know that they would be there together?
but what would you do if you were the friend, would you be mad if your friend knew all along?
Well I learned my lesson about telling people about their boyfriends I was once slapped by one of my closest friend's boyfriend because I tricked on him I will never do that again in my life!
I say let bygones be bygones and mind yo biz-ness! Wht is n the darkwill come 2 light!
Miranda you are so simplistic!
How in the hell would the first friend find out that the second friend knew all along? You think if she gon hide that fact that she knows, that she is gonna fess up when the shit hits the fan..
Now that is just dumb....
nall see boo u good cuz I woulda slap that motherfucker right back andtold him to slap some clean drawls on his dirty ass!
Oh no I had my brother and his friends jump him!
I'm interested in knowing more of Anon's story. How did that affect the relationship with you and your friend?
Well I'll just say we will never be as close as we use to be. After I told her he gave her a good ass story and believed him and when he confronted me and slapped me she just stood there and looked like nothing happened! I was flabbergasted!
Me and my husband was driving downtown one day and I was on the phone with my girl that live in Rockford right. So what about I'm like girl your husband is next to me at the light. She say can't be because he is out of town on business. Further more we just bought a new car. So i say a Jaguar she say that mother fucker and of course it was a girl in the car with him. Needless to say they are still together and she and I don't talk. The killer is I wasn't trying to trick on him I just happened to be on the phone with her and he pulled up on the side of me.
So we have 95 votes for keeping your mouth closed and 1 for telling LOL... Are there any people out there that have had successes from telling?
@ Miranda. I will be very upset if my girls kept something like that from me. Especially considering the fact that I would never reveal my source...I would expect them to trust me and never allow behavior that could harm me be in my backyard.
it seems what's the point in telling if u risk straining your friendship and get into strife.
oh no There won't be any slapping going on, and if that is the case and I did get slapped, Im a find my friend and slap the hell outta her....
Here, here!!!
I say these girlz need to mind they business just cuz a nigga stepping out don't mean he don't love his girl and what she don't know won't hurt her! I mean getting slapped and stuff like that is a risk you run when you dippn in people business. I mean all dude gonna do is spit some good game on her and she gonna roll with her nigga anyway!
that is what I been trying to tell these girls I'm so hood! As blatent as you just were , you are speaking the truth...
I can respect the fact that if a dude steps out on me he's coming back but can he respect that it will be so necessary for me to level the playing field?
In reality Af1 no if my girl step out on me and I find out she is outta there! I don't date no hoe ass girls!
So Hood you do know that if your girl knows that you are cheating and you've been busted more than once she will begin to cheat too. Remember most women know how to cover up their dirt so you'll never know that she's found solace in a comforter. Believe that!
Did you hear me say if I find out!
....and that my friend does not make her a hoe. Let's just say she contructively makes use of her free time.
Besides you're out getting sex. She's embarking upon a whole new relationship that provides mental stimulation.
If she doing me and doing another nigga she a hoe in my book simple as that!
You'll probably NEVER find out. Just know that is what is happening.
Let me get this right. She is a Hoe if she fucking one other person but you on the other hand can fuck all you want and you Da Man. Nigga Please. The pharmacy just called they said your anti-biotic is ready.
As long as I don't know it won't hurt me and it won't hurt her!
Dat's right anon my girl has to understand I'm the man and I'ma do my thang but I'm only down for her and she can only be down for me ya dig!
I guess so hood. Somebody has to date the stupid girls.Knock it out.
Now why they gotta be stupid they are just good girls that's down for they man! Total loyalty is the key to having a man that's always gonna be down for u girl! A man can never deny a down ass chick ya feel me! If you are loyal that man gon always be yours and nobody else's!
It hurts when you are cheated on. Why would you do that to a person who loves you and has your back no matter what?
Man it's just so much temptation out her it's crazy girls be just like throwing everything at you and they make it real hard to say no! And besides it not like I'm trying to hurt her on purpose she know I'm with her!
To know that you would joepardize your good thing for a hood fling is disturbing.
I mean I'ma man so that's what we do is take chances shoot first ask questions later!
some men, I'm so hood, Ill never give up a good woman for a hoe. If she hoe-ing around with me, she'll hoe around on me.
Real men date real women...
real recognizes real and game recognize game. There is plenty of temptation out here but all moneya int good money pimp. I got a potna laying dead right now cus he thought it was cool for him to step out and not his girl. He stepped out, she found out forgave him and tehy were still together until he found her with her comfort zone, tried to snap, and the new man shot the shit outta his ass..
You can't escape your Karma, the world revolves in a circle...
Well I'm 30plus yrs old and ain't nuttn happend yet so I'm keep doing what I'm doing and you do keep doing what you doing cuz I have good women hoes, sluts, traps, dykes, and everything else lol! The good life!
Expect what is done to return, we all have seen "The Best Man" right?
Don't be mad, a real pimp would ajsut kept it pimpish don't get all in your chest about it, shake that shit off, you are a pimp remember. So if you are fuckin around on me, I find out and forgive you then I go get even, you'll leave me? Fine...
Just stay gone is all I ask, don't come back here talking bout some "sexy can I..." Ray J
as well as antibiotics, peroxides, ointments...IM so hood
That right she outta there if she cheat on me cuz my girl better be saving it for me! And that's real talk!
Oh please I'm so hood you know yall love when a girl sleep with you and all ya boyz! You ain't going no where if she get caught cheating because you ain't gonna wanna let the other guy have her!
The day I find out a man is cheating on me is the day he should just really pack his shit and leave.
1. It's unacceptable and I'm obviously in the way of you doing you.
He will never get a chance to call my actions hoeish because his filthy ass will never be allowed to touch me again. And knowing that there are decent guys who want to be with me but I chose you. Please!
Please I don't want nuttn my boys done had cuz I know how them niggas get down and if she been with them she ain't no good no more!
30+ huh? Sad...
thats why you'll never find out...
If it were I'd be fuckin you and all yo boyz if I catch you, and they will all be laughing with and at you...
At that point a women could care less if you leave her, she want's you gone anyway..
Af1 all he gonna done when u find out he cheating is make it seem like it was your fault and make it seem like you wasn't taking care of your business and you gonna fall right for that shit! Then you gonna be an even betta girlfriend than you was before!
no necessarily true Miranda, sometimes women just want to get even...
that is what we allow you to think ISH, that we believe its our fault, but trust me youngen, we fuckin just like you are, only difference is, you have no idea who it is....
Can't no broad come between my and my niggas they gonna ride with me all the way mob(money over bitches) So if you foul they gonna run through you and let me know then you are gonna get ratted all the way out!
I lays my game down flat so I know when a broad lying and when she telling the truth I study any girl I dealing with on relationship terms so I make sure I know her like the back of my hand ya feel me!
I would've never in a million years guessed that you were 30plus. Not trying to clown you but your comments and mentality are similar to that of an 18 year old college kid. That explains everything. Enough said.
Look arm charm you just mad cuz some nigga or niggas done played that ass and you still ain't recovered yet but you'a be aight! Just remember next nigga you get total loyalty and he will be yours!
wouldn't be trying to come in between, you and your, but we gon still be fucking long after you gone...
The average girl will accept some good game and stiff dick and be cool with the bullshit that is fed to them. The day I find out my guy is cheating is the day I go get that nigga that told me "when your man fucks up come see me". I'm gone.
Yeah miranda you can hit my boyz all you want I wouldn't care cuz once you cross that line I hate you and I don't care who/what you do at that point! AF1 you know that nigga that told you call me when yo man fuck up is a goofy/already got a girl and you gonna be #6 to him so you know you gonna stay with your nigga!
I'm sohood aint fooling nobody thats af1, when r u ginna stop?
No I ain't af1 I me what are you talking about!
If I'm fucking your boys I really am unconcerned if you hate me..
besides yousa pimp why hate me, don't hate the player hate the game right?
"PI-MP ology, be studyin broke pimps biology, obviously well...."
LMAO!!!
and you boys gon still hit, while you sitting around hating me...
That's the point they can hit my daddy can hit any nigga off the street can hit! I don't care cuz like I said I hate you with your hoe ass!
Im so hood please don't entertain ANON. 47th street is coming up for her real soon.
"ginna" Right!!!!
you don even sound like a dude go sit down sum where. yous tired and wearin this blog out. Jeez can't even have decent convo with u in and yo phony comments. Moving along to next blog.
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and then she can get on that 47th bus and go straight to Vincennes....
Im so hood, whatever. Once I've been hurt there is no way I can stay with you. The trust will be out of the door. I hold on to shit. We would argue too much if I stayed. That's not healthy.
OoOo ISH, you must have had a girl run off on you, I sense a lot of hostility from someone who's game is tight...
Who is caring again that you hate me? I'd probably want you to if I caught you cheating, so mission accomplished!!
You know to hate someone requires alot of thought and energy on your part, I wouldn't hate you, I wouldn't care one way or the other...
A pimp with emotional attachments, are you sure youre a pimp, or did you come from a long line of assistant pimps?
Well I don't know what type of issues yall got going on but I thought I would just give a man's view on the topic that's all!
shut up Miranda....
Im really Airforce 1 too!!
so am I
I ain't never had no broad run off on me! It's just if I make somebody my girl then I trust you but when I select you as my girl that's means I trust you more than most and then if betray that trust of course I'm gonna hate you!
Hell Im airforce too!!
I mean I don't know who is really who but I'm not af1 I know that!
its okay ISH I understand now, you trusted me, somewhat like I trusted you but my feelings don't matter, because you are a man? Correct?
Puhlease save that dribble for the Knicks, I'm getting mine if I caught you, and if you start to hate me in the process then that means I'm doing my job.
@ Anon
...And I'm Miranda Hobbs and I'm H20 and I'm Firefly and I'm BitchPlease and I'm Don't worry be happy and I'm Piper Halliwell and I'm Dream Girl and I'm Seamus Mcnasty.....Next!!!
It's real neat how you're a sound alayzer by the way of your computer monitor but you still can't manage to spell or get rid of your grammatical errors. Don't do me do dictionary.com
Look miranda I told your a@@ that wasn't me know if you keep bringing me in this sh@@ I'ma have to handle you know I will confess the only other personality I have been is ghettofabolous that's it!
Don't tell me this trick baby is back again (ANON). We do just fine without you. Please do us all a favor and find yourself anothe blog. BTW I'm AF1.
Now if you want it with me let me know k pumpkin!!!!!!!!!!
I'ma holla at yall later I don't know what's going on!
okay Miranda I KNOW you just didn't take the convo I said to you over the phone and apply it here word for word,
"47th and Vincennes" I just told you that on the phone you retard!!
You stupid a@@ b@@@(miranda) what part of it wasn't me don't you understand!
I don't know what you are talking about knowitall.. do you?
yeah ISH now you can focus on bein af1 fulltime
Don't play coy with me?
Identity theft at its finest ISHood!! Don't worry the schitzophrenia is not contagiuos!! LMAO!!!
Coy knowitall whatever do you mean?
so now you aint asnwering yo phone Miranda, ima get Carrie to whoop yo ass
Oh b@@@@ you know exactly what I mean! Now keep it up if you want to !!!!!!!!
and you anonymous can focus on being knowitall full time
If you got something to say it b@@@@!!!!!!
Look anon that wasn't me don't fuck with if it was me I would have said so!!!!! whenever have I been afraid to say anything!
and what are we gonna do about it, through a computer, are you gonna plug into the matrix and put black leather suit on come get me....?
bitch please... get back on the red line and go back to 47th we at Jackson now...
why are they still bothering you knowitall, I aint never heard you this upset, yall bitches back up off of knowitall!!!!
Damn Air Force you musta took this no spelling bitch man or something because. Why is the invisible bitch always at you.
You right miranda f@@@ you b@@@@ you don't know sh@@ about me and nor do I about you so f@@@ off k pumpkin! Whoever you really are I know only Af1 could have told you some sh@@ about me!!!!!!!!!
Now I done told you b@@@ it wasn't me so don't try to keep hint on that it's me everytime somebody come on her anon b@@@ I told you who I was ghettofabolous so f@@@ off stupid b@@@
I don't know who Airforce is, never met the bitch, but I know who you are...
but I'll give you a hint, we used to work together...
I didn't know you were ghettofab, knowitall, Clever.....
B@@@ I done had 50 m@@@@f@@@ jobs so you gonna have to do betta than that stupid b@@@@
Sorry knowitall I haven't been on the phone with anybody today but I do remeber mentioning something about Vin. to a person looking for a condo right there. I think I'm on to them.
Thanx H20
Whoa MH.
No prob af1 I not upset with you just this goofy a@@ b@@@@!!!!!!!
well bitch I know who I am you the one trying to figure it out, so YOU gon have to do better..
But seriously all jokes aside, I aint never met Airforce, H2O or Firefly, I got the blog through a friend of a friends email when you guys were advertising it. Been here ever since!!
Stop cursing so much, its very unbecoming of a lady ANON, I mean ghettofabulous I mean knowitall...
I know who you are stanking bitch only one triangle wreaks of semen and testicle resin...
done...
Miranda I know I have said this before but you are one tired ass broad...
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