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Finding lasting love in the virtual world may be no less certain than in the real world. But millions of singles are turning to matchmaking sites in hopes of meeting Mr. or Ms. Right. But are people really finding love online? What are the chances that you meet that"one" behind a screen?" Any success stories/experiences? We'd love to hear them! Please click the title link to hear of on-line love story successes.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
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well I have an on-line love story success kinda! Although i wasn't looking for love, I accidentally bumped into one of the strangest most fullfilling relationships I have ever known.
Months ago someone sent me a youtube video of Chris Crocker crying about Britany Spears! After my initial laughter at this ridiculous act of depression, I looked on the side of the video where they have videos that are "related to" sometimes based on the theme. We all know how you tube works. The person who makes the video usually has a face to go with it! I seen a guy whos face literally spoke to me. So I clicked on his videos and watched them. He was very talented and deep with his thinking, dancing and general you tube shows! We left messages back and forth to each other and became somewhat youtube buddies. Well I initially was attracted to him but I never put my cards out there on the table. Then I was informed that he had a boyfriend. He sent me a video of him and his boyfriend kicking it, and they looked like they had sooo much fun I wrote them a poem about their relationship due to the video. They loved it so much that they made a you tube video together thanking me and telling me I was a beautiful person. Now his boyfriend had never been on you tube never posted a video or anything so I felt honored that he decided to show his face to thank me. Anyways, HE (the boyfriend) was FINER (if that is even a word) than the original guy I started watching videos for!! But I never said anything to him and kept my friendship strictly platonic with the first guy.
Then one day I get a you tube video marked private. It was of the boyfriend telling me that my poem inspired him to do more videos and that I seemed cool and if I ever wanted to talk, or hang out, here is his number! I was scared as hell, so I didn't call him for about 2 weeks. We webcammed every day and talked via instant messenger but never on the phone. Then one day I decided to call him and he happened to be going through a bitter divorce! He was crying and so forth and I counseled him through it as I always seem to do. Anyways he made it through and we became REALLY close! So close that we have been planning trips to see one another face to face as opposed to webcam and telephone conversations because we live in 2 different states. He has also been looking towards going back to school (here) to get his bachelors after I told him that his asscociates degree would need an xtra push in todays job market.
We have talked EVERYDAY all day since we met and I love every minute of our conversations. We were friends first which means alot to me because at this point in time I am not looking for a FULL TIME relationship but if I were it would be with him! Oct 3rd marks our one year anniversary!! He is the truth and I owe it all to you tube!!! LOL
I don't know, I'm always skeptical about meeting people online, I don't want to attract a Jeffrey Dahmer, LOL! But seriously I understand nowadays people are busy and may not have time to go out and meet others. If meeting someone isn't happening at your workplace (I don't know about you all but I couldn't stand more than half the people I worked with) or wherever you spend most of your time, it just may not happen.
Well I haven't ever tried on-line dating put I'm really headed that way as soon as I build up the nerve I'm gonna try it but from what I hear you have about a 50/50 chance it can go either way! I am kinda curious hmmmmmmmmmmmm maybe I'll look in to making me a profile this week and getting it posted! First I have to see what other comments people leave about on-line dating first.
I'm skeptical as well, but hell the people that met Jeffrey Dahmer met him face to face!! Do you know I live not to far from where he lived.. spooky huh? Although I was living in Chicago when he was on his killing spree the thought that he used to reside a couple of blocks away is really Eerie.
Its different for women then it is for men though. But in the Professor's case, he has been talking and webcamming for over a year so he may just have the right idea for a screening process, No one can hide murderer tendencies for a year!! LOL
what you HAVE to do is make sure you get to KNOW the person youa re on-line dating. Know things about their background, place of employment, and make sure a friend knows who you met, and if you plan to meet up do it in public places for at least 2 months. I'm not saying tha tif a person is trying to kill you, they won;t after 2 months, but people who kill for sport have an immediate need, after a couple of weeks they will be moving on to a new target if you aren't complying.
Don't ask me why I know the psyche of a serial killer...
Ok so now maybe I won't be trying on-line dating!
LOL, oh no KIA don't let that discourage you!
I had plum forgot about the serial killer factor lol!!!!!!!!!!
I tried dating on-line for 6mths and there are as many creeps and jerks on line as walking on the street. I met on guy and his wife followed us to the restaurant needless to say he never mentioned being married, Meet a guy who claimed to be an investment banker making 6figures and couldn't even swing a $60 dinner. It is absolute horror I have yet to meet a normal man on line yet. It's like Are there any normal guys left on Earth!
KIA you can be serial killed getting a man from a club jsut as fast as you can from online dating, at least there is a history to check if you did it online....LOL
we could say the same for females "never dating online" (NDO) either they ar mosquitoes and got like 50+ kids, with 49+ baby daddies, or they crazy as hell which is why they still single in the first place!
My advice, don't hope for love, pray for friendship...
You are right h20 but I haven't been serial killed yet and I been tak'em home from the club for like 10yrs now! and jus cuz you type of a good background don't mean it's true.
Yeah that's true I hear horror stories from guys all time about how women use their friend's picture for their profile and when the guy finally sees them he's in for the shock of his life lol!
OHHH I got stories NDO!!!
Lol ! I guess it's the same for men and women but it's like the lottery you have a one in a billion chance of meeting a regular person! KIA if you are bored on line dating can be a great source of entertainment!
you wanna know something funny. i thought that just because I met them on-line it made them a better class of person because they had a computer. I know I know, but that is what I thought!!
But there are bums in the matrix as well as in the streets. Eveyone looks good on their profile, I mean why wouldnt they? you don't put your worst foot forward in an interview do you. Professor grey got the right idea, chat with them for a year before you take them home. Webcam with them so you can BOTH see the mess you are getting yourself into.
well I have tried the online dating but it seems to me that all I get is white guys. where do you go to find thegood brothers online?
anon I think you can try like black planet and my space it's a lot of brothas on there I don't know how good they are but usually I think if you let the dating service know that your looking for brothas they are suppose to hook up wit brothas
Blackplanet huh? Ok, I'll look into it, thanks!
No prob I think even like on if you go on like bet.com they have like a lil dating section too!
Myspace is 75% children activity... they even lie about their age....
Well bp08 I'm well over 21 and everybody I know has a my space page and meet people on there all the time
WTF!??????!!!!!! wit these crazy a@@ anon mofo's what is going on!
nothing as you can see they are no more...
KIA, I hear you but I don't entertain myspace, just feels a lil college kiddish to me...
prolly cus all my neices and nephews are myspace junkies and they are 19, 20, 21....
I don't entertain my space either I think I'm too old but all my old a@@ friends seem to be on there all the time!
you are nothing and nothing is you it can be done all day....ANON
looks like the blog administrator is not up for any of anons shit today....
Now you really are anonymous cus now we won't even know you were here!!
Anon please. No one cares today.
don't delete that scab, let that shim get the verbal thrashing it deserves..
you asked for me now I'm here punk ass bitch. I hope you got your hooked on phonics tape because I would hate for bitchplease and Miranda to rip you another dickhole because your grammar isn't up to par, much like your wardrobe...
Bitch I had no idea Aldis sold clothes...
I have never found love on-line, to me half of love is animalistic physical attraction, you can't really get that froma profile picture!
With me I was always skeptical and wondering if this picture was indeed really them or not so I really couldn't go too far with them until I see them on purpose. Professor Grey wasn't really looking for love so that is why he was able to wait a year damn near to me his beau. But what is to become of us who want love here in the now?
LMAO @ Dat nigga!! Aldi's doesn't sell clothes, ANON just looks like someone who shops at aldis, so its only natural you would think it's wardrobe came from there too.!! LOL
Ms Bradshaw when did you change your name to Piper? We know its you....
Anastasia Beaver-hausen...girl is that you???
@ Piper that's what a lot of people say no one ever really looks like their picture they either use someone's else pic or use a pic from about ten yrs ago knowing they don't look like that anymore!
Anon#1 why are you here. Fell free to go fuck your mother at anytime.
I never said anythign to you ANON, take that up with "Dat Nigga" but I will speak with one of the authors to see if you wish can be granted...
Spice it up huh, how bout you spice up your life by showering, that will be a new experience musty bitch...
ANON #1 Jewels is holding a sale on panty and bra sets, I figure since you shop at aldi's for clothes you may be interested in moving up a label...
LMAFAO @ manbitches,
Anon don't call us any names your momma called your father, don't air your dirty laundry like that puddin...
Right cuz they'll compliment his bo bo's from dollar tree
Let me try this spell I been working on this is my first time on this site commenting at least and I saw the problems that you guys had with ANON yesterday.
What once was here
now begone
your grammar fails you
with the word "buttong"
You are no place
but everywhere at once
please shave your back
you fat ass dunce...
It don't matter where the fuck I shop or what I wear cause ain't none of yall man bitches got shit anyway we all can have what we want and be who we want on the internet that what so wonderful about it huh?
girl don't nobosy wanna fuck yo daddy we actually wanna slap the hell outta yo drunk ass momma for doing so.
You don't owe me nothing but that $10 I gave you to buy you thievin ass grandmomma some Herron.
Look piper bitch you ain't that good of a witch why don't you cast a spell and make yo self disappear man bitch #6
bitch please I see I'm gonna have to get out my read pen what is this "nobosy" and you are spraying raid right?
It does matter where you shop when you come on here mad at the world cus everybody know you are a coupon clipper.
Look yall she gettin mad... we have struck a nerve with her shopping habits..LOLOL
"It don't matter where I shop..." Back Alley Sally gon someplace with your tired insults spelled incorrectly and your discount shoes whose leaning can best be described in Beyonce's song Irreplaceable "to the left to the left..." slew foot fluzie..
"nobosy" is equivalent to what your mom said to you about your birth.
"It was a mistake it won't happen again.."
So you own a red pen, why don't you use it to connect the dots on yo spotted up ass privates...
Dat nigga yo xtra faggity ass always borrowing my clothes for your drags shows so I can't dress that bad hah!
Well bitch please let me reiterate maybe you should get a speak and spell so you can look as smart as you trying to sound!
ahhh but look I got you double checking your spelling, you're doing much better today....
Good work, now class turn to page... oh Im sorry ANON just made me relive my Special Ed teaching days...
Wipe your mouth ANON you're slobbing
I tried dating on line a couple of times I didn't have much success it seems people type themselves up to much more than they really are. Now I'm not saying I'm perfect but these guys were way off!
Oh Piper that spell was the shit.
AHHHHHHHH but how can I get you to check yours man bitch how was that spelling for yo ass!
ANON you stay with a fat fag, your fast food insults have no power here..enough said
Dat nigga you learned to dress like a bag lady from your cock sucking as daddy not me!
Fyi dat nigga that's also how you learned to suck a good cock from watching yo daddy mr.wish i was a bitch!
well how else could I pull of performing bag lady without looking like one?
Don't be mad ANON, you'll never be the woman your abandoning dick sucking ass momma was....
you didn't think I knew it was you did you wash up drag....
Anon#1 give up. Your comments are as useless as your pussy. Dry and wide.
I learned how to suck a good cock from you doing your best to keep your family together. Ever since your mom sold you to your step father its just been one strange dick after another huh?
ANON # 1 Herpes just called and said that she loves you and will never leave your side...
and tell the fat girl you live with I said hi....
ANON Checkers just called and said stop stealing meat for your fat ass landlord...
I have a spell:
Anonymous, Anonymous
You look like snuffaluphagus
LMAO...Piper Help.
where you at ANON#1 that dial up server musta crashed again huh, ahhh no you blogging from your phone aint you!!
that duct tape aint gone keep them titties down for long, everyone will know that you were a man, then woman then a man, then a transformer, then a gobot, then...
Anon#1 what's the matter? Got somn caught in your mouth?
Dat nigga have piper cast a spell to make you a bitch, bitch please have her cast one for you to always spell correctly especially when are insulting people anon 2 have her cast one so you will be noticed by other people because no ones paying attention to you so fuck off man bitch #10
....thundercat, then a 92 chevy tahoe, then a water buffalo, then one of the stooges.Then....
I right behind you
ANON
I Am light
I am one who insults are right
back to the darkness where cum drinkers dwell
you cannot read this halliwell
so go away and leave my sight
adn stop wearing turtle necks too tight..
Dat nigga everybody know you are a rock'em sock'em robot and wish you were a chatty patty fuck you and the horse and dog that made you!
Enuff of this tranny..Let's shut this bitch down like the Generator. 47th street next stop.
LMMFAO at Piper.
keep checking your spelling puppet...
how bout we ask her to cast a spell to cloak your idnetity some more only a select few know who piper is,
and only a smaller few shop at aldis....
Did someone say the Generator?....Noxzema Jenkins is that you.
Anon#1 get you big Ving Rhames on Holiday looking ass up out of here.
no bitchplease is way more skilled than I am in in dealing with losers she runs a resuce mission. by the way, she told me to tell you that you left your shes there....
Anon#1 new name is Douche Bag so lets start addressing this Harold Ickes home resident as such.
Don't nobody want them shoe boxes with laces anyway, who ever heard of a woman with size 17 shoe,
If you don't get yo big I need attention cus I don't have no real friends lookin ass outta here. We the only people who even acknowledge you aint we... The people in your real life think you are insignificant, but the secret is we do too, we only keep you around because you are comic relief, much like your bad skin and hygiene
please if not for me we woulda died in the last season Darryl.... the most useless on the show
How you gon be a woman and be named Darryl
You sho got it cause you responded late ass.
as we approach this blog of misery
sweep anon from the history...
Oh Piper Anon #1 is a self admitted Hermaphrodite. Why isn't this parasite off the train yet.
Anon who?
Beats Me.
Get it. Anon beats me LOLOL. Where's Karen.
Gone in 60 seconds
right here now where is Rosario, (ANON) I gave her a credit card to run down to Aldis and get her some new men shoes and she aint been back yet
I would just like to say fuck all yall man bitches and men that wanna be bithces! <-------
left the dictionary behind for this one again huh?
You finally got me bitch please so what that's 1 against your 100 errors!
Fuck you karen don't you have drink and some pills to take go play somewhere or find some new guest for your talk show ooooooooops it got canceled didn't it!
"yo man a still fuck na!"
That was your statement from yesterday right? LOLOL. The defense restes its case.
no yesterday you started off in the slow class so that would make 101 against my 100?
Today's improvement means nothing you introduced yourself to the blog as a dumbass that couldn't spell and forever will be classified as one.
A polished dumbass but a dumbass nonetheless...
now watch this...
no further questions
your witness Johnny Cockrings (anon)
yes ANON much like so many of your hair appointments judging by your new hairdue...
HA!!! C'mon karen, you gonna work out just fine!!
your case looks like it needs some rest along with them beat up ass reeboks
so 60 today against your 100 yesteday on average you still got me beat. Oh wait that was Math, never mind child, you JUST learn to spell today so we will work on your fractions tomorrow...
We the Jury find Douche Bag Cockrings guilty on fitty leven counts of indecently exposing shis (she/his lmoa) grammatical errors and proving to the world that he made tea bagging possible by allowing us all to rest out nuts on shis top lip.
you are sentenced to the rest of the day of thumbing through a dictionary and to find your own apartment so yo fat ass roommate can stop putting you on punishment if you don't steal food.
Your lunch break is over get back on fries
Baby steps. Please Keep it simple for "sucked it" shim still on colors.
So no one has a really true love story they can tell us about from on line dating? If you can't find a man on line where are you suppose to get them.
Man Bitches says the open hermaphrodite. RIF (reading is fundamental) boo. Got that Sucked It.
Sorry Hopeless Romantic...we had to exterminate a oversized dingbat.
bang bang bang
Oh no yall someone with a receeding hairline was just murdered trying to sneak back on the train after 47th street.
From the smell of it, it must be ANON as it is the only thing alive with the scent of fish and chips...
lets hold a candlelight visual
yes lets I can grab five more candles and summon the bitch from the dead so we can read her in the afterlife...
Professor Grey did but that is about it!!
shell be back just jack, Checkers lobby is full and folks getting unruly on high side drive up....
I see the topic get a little off center but I'm just trying to see if anyone has had any good experiences on line that maybe lead to marrige or something!
Not with a receeding hairline LMMFAO.
Why can't you all ever stay on the topic I read this everyday and you all let some ignorant person take you all the way to left field you all don't know how to ignore ignorance?
Cause they wanna get off topic if you don't like then close your eyes!
Close your eyes?
much like what your man does when he puts his dick in your ass sucks it....
or would that be what your mom did on her mug shot when she was arrested for your conception?
or maybe it was the same thing you did when you went to the sperm bank trying to get a job as a taste tester..
I agree this idiot has taken his insults a little too far. Please find you something else to do or maybe even start your own blog for people like yourself.
Its not that we Dont know how anon, we LOVE entertaining these fools,
ANON #1 has no life, this is the highlight of her day, she just got her electricity turned back on so let her enjoy the hours in the light.
there is no such blog for soar throat cum drinkers....
Bitch please you just go on and on about nothing no one cares that you can play the dozens really well we know growing up in the projects you couldn't fight physically so you learn to fight with your words congrads for finally being able to beat those project bullies!
No dat nigga but it is a rest haven for them yo mama's house in the basement next to your fairy ass!
apparently Wilona and Penny taught you well too ANON you haven't shut up since we started.
Only difference is, you STILL in the projects playing the dozens. Who service you don latched on too, I know that don't have internet in Robert Taylor. I aint met a bitch bad enough to shut me up BOOTZ thas who yo ass is. Hey Yall ANON real name is BOOTZ!!!
besides fool, a smart ass mouth got yo ass whooped in the jects, you remember what happened to yo momma at the currency exchange don't act like you don't!!
Right that's why you gots so much to say now because when you was in the jects you had to keep that mouth shut so that ass wouldn't get spanked! bitch act like you know!
oh and you aint heard, bitch Ima star on here, everyone logs in to find out what bitchplease has to say. Me and Miranda run this shit...
That's why you are here trying to learn a new gunning style cus in your circle of friends you are the weakest link, you are only appreciated when someone says you should be. Stop taking pills you suicide victim, killing yourself will only cost the city money cus we know yo family don't give a damn fag boy....
wait,.. you just said she learned how to play the dozens in the projects, and now you say she had to keep her mouth closed, but you aint defending the fact that you still live in the jects,
You're remedial much like your career...
No one wants you, you have a face that only man's best friend could love, and even then the only reason the dog licks your face is because you taste like kibble...
Just a little Irish Spring will wash that shit right outta your life
damn yo momma got her ass whooped in a currency exchange?!, I don told Florida she can't cash her foodstamps in there!!
Yes bitch please this is the only place you will every be a star and when you leave here and go home to your basement apartment with the celling leaking and the rats and roaches fighting over the little food you have do you still feel like a star then?
and congrads to you on finally winning the war you waged on GED's
what are you 30 now, left back, forgot about ass bitch... LMAO!!!
yes I do cus then I realized that that is your place and I go home and realize that your apartment matches your hygiene and I feel justified
Manranda everyone knows you really are a man and this is the only place you can come to let out the woman you really want to be so keep wishing and dreaming and maybe one day you will go the balls to to tell your wife you really want to wear her red dress that you like so much!
your responses are getting slower and slower ANON need some help? Bitchplease getting in that ass, and yo shit sounds the same, no variety, no creativity, no class and they foul!!
Sort of like the description of your hair, makeup, and vaginal odor
"-------->go the balls to to tell your wife you really want to wear her red dress that you like so much!"
not really sure what that means, I guess you didn't really win that war on GED's huh? well there is always next year...
Anon#1 only wants fame. too bad you'll never get it on TC. We don't like you and we don't think you funny. You gotta curse every two minutes. BP and MH rarely ever cuss and get you right together. Please go away.
Why don't you shut the fuck up anon and grow some balls and get a name before you talk shit or are you really bitch please giving yourself props dumb bitch!
go the balls to to tell your wife you really want to wear her red dress that you like so much!
you stupid ass bitch how you gon studder when you type....!!
"go the balls to to tell" you silly..
now you really are comedy!!
Oh manranda you know what I meant and you know you are really a man so just tell your wife she won't be that mad she did love you once upon a time!
no Im your momma now get yo ass in here and wash thse dishes, you know they aint gon wash themselves, and take your sister to work with you I aint got time to be watching her my pimp is on the way. McDonalds will just have to deal with it
Suck it's spelling and late ass insults are very similar to a usual on this site.
I know what you meant, just like I know what your mom meant by "GOTDAMN I guess I can't feed it after midnight..."
BOOYOW!!
Fuck you anon I can cuss if I want to just mind yo damn business no one is even dealing! Fuck off I learned to spell that right in my ged class!
Anon what is this I ask you "thse"
yes they are she dont know it all like she think.....
Yes I do
Excuse me Miranda are you saying that I'm anon?
Miranda U A "G" 4 real.
I resent the fact that you are saying that I would never do that!
you don't know how to find a man...
you don't know how to douche properly..
you don't knwo how to comb your hair judging from your myspace pictures..
that's three right there
I have nothing to do with any of that mess I just reading along!
I don't have a my space page so you could have never saw me so what the f@@@ are you talking about! B@@@@
knowitall where you been? Playing the dozens in the projects with bitchplease?
Where is the ever so vocal sucked it now? LOLOLOLOL!
no Miranda and she aint been on the hoe stroll selling her body for nickels with you either
I been right here reading a long and look like you trying to call me out on some sh@@ I got nuttn to do wit!
I right here you stupid mutherfuckers
she's been here all the time under false pretenses...
we aint dumb we know you we can smell your cunt a mile away
so what you saying Miranda?!
I confused what's really going on here!
I'm saying KNOWITALL AND ANON is the same person..
Look b@@@ I said it wasn't me what the hell do I look like playing a dumb a@@ game like that talk that sh@@ to somebody else ok!
say it aint so!!
Real cute "suck it all"
Why would I do something like that!
I would never do anything like that! She's lying
I have a feeling just jack is thick n the thighs
oh yeah now I know its you knowitall
girl you had us going for a minute now that we know its you we can move on to another target
I been on here since day one a soldier, standing my own ground, MIRANDA, I don't hide behind anon's to insult my friends, if I got something to say I say it you should try that...
you really foul if that is you KIA, I thought we was girls...
well I won't insult you anymore K pumkin..
Look hoe i said wasn't me! now it wasn't me!
Try Junk Yard Dog
SUP Junk Yard Dog Long time no hear!!!!
shut up suck it all,
don't nobody care about you forgot about ass intuitions..
"I have a feeling just jack is thick in da thighs"
I have a feeling that when the rapture comes you'll be wondering where everybody went with your simple ass fashions, and your common ass hairdue
Look we are girls I don't even talk like that anon person!
don't get mad knowitall, just find another personality this one just got pulled out of the closet...
OooOoo knowitall you said some mean ass shit as ANON, your karma gon comeback and getcha
Bp08 that was not me! I would never do that!
If it was you and you cursed all of your friends out on here I will cast a spell to make sure someone curses your ass out on your way home.
You are pathetic..
Look piper beat it ok this has nuttn to do with you I said it wasn't me k pumpkin!!!!!!!!!!
well who does it have to deal with, you did tell me I was nothing without my sisters right,
now you beat it before I turn your waistline into a shape that resembles a pumpkin....
or I could always freeze, unfreeze your head and slap your fucking face repeatedly
Look b@@@ get your lame a@@ out of here I said that wasn't me so quit talking to me goof troop!
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