Posted on Behalf of Firefly...
Some folks believe in the adage that "what you don't know, won't/can't
hurt you". But what if you found out that your partner/loved one was
secretly sleeping and seeing someone behind your back? Even more
surprisingly it was someone of the same sex! In hollywood this is not
a trend or phase, it's a way of life. But what about us common folks
who just want a honest faithful relationship with the one we love?
Some have come to terms with just "getting over it". Take Kesha
Washington* for example. She caught her husband of 14 years with his
best friend in their home-where there children live. She was
devastated she said of course and her first thought was divorce - but
couldn't come to terms with leaving all that they had built together -
both successful careers (she a Psychologist and he a Orthodontist),
three beautiful smart children and a beautiful home in a nice
neighborhood. Would you be forgiving to accept a person who crept
behind your back for another of the same sex to hold on to your
family? *name have been changed for privacy purposes. Dont forget to click the title link?!!!
Thursday, August 21, 2008
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what I wanna know is how can youtell if yo man is creeping, ya know a dl brother?
Now men may not find this as big of a deal if their spouse/woman was cheating on them with another woman. This happening to a woman...may change her forever. But I would not in no way or fashion go back to my man husband or not if he was caught with another man. 14, 20 or 30 years of marriage - don't care. I know this may be easier said than done because I have never been in that situation but as far as I can see now, "ain't happening".
See this type of thing just scares me, enough to be celibate and single for the rest of my life.
I'm not sure but my guess is you can never tell just by looking. They may not be the flamboyant type or what some may deem a homosexual male with certain characteristics. (acting feminine and such). Even some males who are openly gay don't act like the "finger snapping, switching' men who wear lip gloss. I think there is a ignorance esp. among heterosexual men and most importantly women when it comes to homosexuality and esp. in the black community where to talk about this kind of stuff is taboo. But that's not the case, your hardest thuggish guy can be creeping with another man. Woman think that if they man been to the joint, and used to gangbang that he couldn't possibly sleep with another man.
First of all I am going to Wlid the fuck out on the strength of him living a bold face lie and making a mockery out of my life and our marriage. I don't condone cheating in the first place but to be gay and use me as a front for a number of years is a waste of my life. I understand that there are fears, struggles and identity issues that people face when choosing whether or not to come out of the closet. My heart goes out to the men and women who are afraid to be who they really are. But I love me more and would hope that no one would get me caught up in the mix of their own insecurities.
me too airforce! I'm witcha on that one!
Yeah to get caught up in a lie like that would be mind blowing. But do you think it would be harder to leave if you had been with your loved one for years! I know some women that stay and may put up with their significant other just because it's easier than to just get up and walk away from it all - lifestyle, finding love again etc. Some women actually deal with it and not because they forgive the person. They live together and in the public eye act like a normal family but behind closed doors they live two separate lives! she sleeps in one room and he the other - on opposite sides of the house.
Well I guess you chicks are waiting on me huh? LOL!!
Number 1. Women don't be discouraged if your man was cheating with another man. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!! I repeat IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!! A man who "kicks it" with another man has feelings that you can do nothing about. Suppression is not salvation! If he likes men he likes men. Think of it this way, if you were dating a woman for her money, how often would you crave dick!! ALL THE DAMN TIME cus that is what you like correct? The only thing I can say is different things can push a man to go for his desires, men don't have to fool around with men, even if they like men.
I am openly gay, and I aint never popped a finger, wore no lip gloss, switched no where, well maybe once..LMAO!! But for the most part if I met any of you ladies in a bar if you were single and looking to mingle, I could get to know you without you feeling as if I had a secret stash of dicks in my closet.
As far as men in the joint.... PUHLEASE its more fuckin going on in there than it is in the gay club. For some men, they think that jail life has no bearing on outside living, and they adopt the "what I do in jail stays in jail" mentality. After all who is gonna know, and 9 times out of 10 their image is what keeps a man from dipping not the actual homosexual act...
Number 2. Women who return to their men after finding him with another man are idiots, if you forgive him, for doing what he likes, then what is to stop him from being a repeat offender. People don't get over cheating they just get better at doing it.
Number 3 Alot of the times men know that they have these feelings and they go and get these women to justify the fact that they are straight, that is when nigga like me is their most dangerous enemy. I am cool, never force anything on anyone and IN EVERY relationship I have had, the nigga was the first to advance because I want them to be SURE that is what they want and I don't want them to be able to say I took advantage of them!
I hate when men try to get drunk and fool around with me, nigga please I don't do the drunk fuck thing unless we BOTH are there!!!
I would never stay with a man that cheated on me for another man because in my eyes that's who he prolly really wants to be with. I would be so devastated that I couldn't ever face him or our children again I prolly would run away and start a new life and leave dem kids wit him and his lover!
Well I'm a different breed. I know the difference in being alone and lonely. If I stay in the house with "Bill" (y'all remember that song...lol) I will be lonely...what good is having an unfuckable man in the house. I'd rather leave and allow the world be my playground. Life is short and I like to play hard. Let the games begin.
that is the song in the title link Airforce!!! LMAO!!
Lmmfao @ Bill!!!!!!!
But they do live separate lives including dating other people but they live together and keep their benefits of that union i.e. careers, home, children, friends etc. See people who are in the public sector feel like they have more to loose than folks who may not be in the public eye. Look at the political figures who get caught cheating, their wives are still with them but I bet they are never in the same house at the same time most of the time. I know a guy whose been married to his wife for 18 years and they live together but he be out like he 21 and still single.
wel if I were married to a man and he cheated on me with another man and we have fucked already, then Im gon join in on the festivities especially if he's cute and likes girls too...
I am not for keep'n up an image I am a woman of the truth no matter how bad it is!!!!!!!! I will not paint a pretty picture and I know I'm living a lie it would be hard for me to look at myself in the mirror everyday!
Agreed Firefly
Hilary Clinton is a Scorpio and I KNOW for a fact she aint forgave Bill. It's not even the fact that he cheated, she's more upset that he got caught and embarrassed her worldwide!!
Teh White House was equivalent to a chilly day in December when she found out I know!!!
Miranda men who are DL do not fool around with other men who are DL, they usually gravitate towards men that are all the way gay....
I think its a power struggle and another DL man might make them feel like the bitch growing inside them...LMAO!! So the go for the all the way gay dudes to make themselves feel better. This way they can still claim themselves as straight and not feel gay. Dumb as hell I know.
Welcome to my world...
What I am saying in simple terms Miranda is the other nigga aint gonna want YOU there..
And if the gay nigga, is unhappy then trust me the DL brutha will not be bringing you along for the ride...
Baby bye! I wish I wuold stay around a man that'sbeen kicking it with another man. Like someone said he been that way prolly before he met you so what he got caught doing wasn't nothing knew! He just got caught!
I would be so hurt if my husband/boyfriend cheated on me with another man myself esteem would plummet so low I don't know if I would be able to come back from that!
There are times when men will never act on their urges. I am openly gay and there are times in relationships that I didn't give up shit in the form of sex.
Airforce memba what Leu Jean said? There are ways to NOT succomb to the call of the night. Most times DL bruthas don't want to give in, they WANT to be straight, and as long as their marriage is going good, tehy will keep on that path. But you let the wife start being a bitch, and naggingm, and flying off the handle about every lil thing, and he meet up with a cool, down to earth, attractive business mind like myself, you can kiss his fidelity goodbye if he already has those feelings...
Sorry Ladies I'm the clean up man, nothing personal, but what I DON'T do is go after a female FRIENDS man, I think that is trifling. There are enough to go around and yours has never interested me...
Why ANON didn't you hear me say that it is not your fault!!! It's not!!!
and this ladies is why you shouldn't be too keen on ass stimulation, with anal beads...LMAO!!
Case dismissed...
What I don't understand is why Be DL why not just be open about those feelings for men why involve an innocent woman and drag her through the mud?
Don't most Dl brothas do the sticking though they usually don't take it in the but so they can feel like they are not gay correct me if I'm wrong dat nigga
Yes dat nigga we been waiting on you for a while! LOL!
Naa Ironically the sex act is not what makes them feel like a bitch. In my experiences, (AND I LOOOOOVE DL MEN) they don;t too much like giving head, but they will let you pound them to pieces prolly cus they girl don whipped out some anal beads and they don't see nothing wrong with ass play. I don't have FULL ON intercourse all that often, but when I do, I'm DAT NIGGA!!
UH Un I'm kill a nigga if he cheat on me wit a man !!!!!!!!!!! This sh@@ is pissing me off!!!!!!!! He know he wanna be wit Leroy and he smiling up in my damn face errrrday!!!
I undertstand where youcoming from knowitall but imagine this if you can (and I don't know completely for sure cause I never been in this situation but I know people who are): Your husband is a man everyone admires and looks up to. He helps out in his community tremendously, he knows everyone from Michael Jordan to Tom Burrell (First black man to start the first black ad agency), to Mayor Daley. He has access to everything good living has to offer...because of this and because you are his wife you have access to those things as well. Your husband cheats and you know it but would run the risk of throwing away all of this... respect among your peers, good life, and connections that makes your life easier and outing your husband? You would practically have to move to a unknown town where you wouldn't know anyone.
The reason men don't want to be full on gay is because of what they and their friends have been thinking, saying and doing to gay people all their lives...
They don't want to be what they have trained themselves to hate...
even if he is not an important pillar in society, LOVE is LOVE if you love that man and have been living him it's not that easy to pick up and leave....
see that's why I would hav to shank a nicca pulling something like that on me! i don't play that dl or not if you like other men go be with steve and adam cause eve ain't the one to mess around with!
Right Dat nigga, ( I forgot about the love part, LOL) yeah love shouldn't be that easy to walk away from. If it is then you may have never really loved that person to begin with.
Firefly I don't give a sh@@ about none of that a lie is a lie and I don't want to be involved I don't give a sh@@ who he knows and what he does I might not out him but I'ma be outta there I cannot go in thinking my husband is straight and catch him with a man and expect it for nothing in this world especially if we got kids nigga you jus using me to keep up an image f@@@ that!!!!!!!
It's easy to walk away from somebody you love if they commit the deepest betrayal in the world not only did you cheat on me but with someone of the same sex that low to me that's a deal breaker(no offense to gay people)
My nails are wt so bear with me.
LOVE if this nigga Loved you he wouldn't have been so selfish as to lure you in with his charm and deceive you into to thinking that you guys are a happy couple. If you're gay and want to pull a publicity stunt or have the chance to make politically correct photo ops then you let me know. That way our marriage can and will solely be based on medicinal purposes. Do not lead me into no bullshit...I do that just fine on my own.
exactly af1! Let me know whaz up first and then let me make the decision of whether or not I wanna participate don't trick me into some sh@@!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well you "know" you boo, I was just speaking in terms of the people I know!
but how you know what you gonna do ifyou ain't never been in that situation? I know many a times I said I would never play the fool or do this or do that. when my man cheated on me all sense of morals went out the door right along with his ass and his clothes and his drawers (yes all out on the front lawn).
its easier said than done people trust me, my last boyfriend was gay ans I was crushed when I found out, the nigga lie and told me he was straight!!
I coulda killed him!!!
butyou never know what you will do until put in that situation. Never say never. i never thought I'd play the fool or get played like one but when my man cheated on me all sense of morals went our the front door along with his sorry ass and his belongings - literally. And on top ofthat it was raining! LOL!
right ANON emotion cancels out logic, today you ar elogically saying what you would do if....
but if/when it happens you will not be in a rational mindset...
See people put emphasis on the wrong things now a days my mental well being is more important to ME than anything else on this earth!!!! If my husband whom I loved and adored cheated on me with another man I don't care if he's Reggie Bush(football player whom I love) I am outtie 5000
sorry yall about the retype the site kept redirecting me somewhere else, what;'s up with that?
NO emotions don't cancel out my logic!!!!!!!!! I been in plenty of situations wit niggas and been able to adjust accordingly I have no problems droppn a nigga whether I love him or not I am not your average girl at all!!!!
Hello Anon...welcome to Talking Chit. We get a little crazy in here so feel free to speak your mind. We usually get a few ANON's during the day so to make sure we know who is who Name/URL will keep your identity private but you can create a name.
Enjoy!
I have no problem being by myself!!!!! I can and will go back to being alone in a heart beat I don't need the drama save it for yo babyma or whoever else wants to deal with yo bullsh@@!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lord knows I've accepted some things that I've stood firm against in the past. The key is what you are willing to accept. BILL gotta go. So what I love him, but I love me more. I'm not even going to stay in a realtionship with someone who contiuously cheats anyway. Waste of my time.
I think our focus should be taken away from image and concentrated on health. Anyone who cheats with a guy or gal runs the risk of giving you soem shit you can't give back. So are you willing to rick your life for an image? I'm not. Besides who says that Mister is going to be the breadwinner in my household anyway that I just NEED to hold on to him. Puhlease. EVen if he is. I'd rather leave with my health, sanity and dignity than to stay with him and be paranoid and ashamed because of his status. The breakup deosn't have to be a public disaster. Irreconcilable differences works for me.
My wanting to use anal beads on my man does not and will not make/turn him gay. I like my ass to be stimulated but I refuse to **insert penis**. If he desires beef then that's something that I may help him come to terms with by doing ass play but it was already in him.
okay Arm Charm, keep on you gon have something to write to Professor Grey about...
Women like you make it easy for men like me..
you and your anal beads. Women like their orafices stimulated, the only men that do, are gay, or about ot be...
I aint gon say no more, just the next time you stimulate a man and his anal opening , and yall don't work out, gimme his number after you are done, and I'll invite you to the wedding...
I'm just sayin, its not always the beef that gets inserted there
ever heard of salad tossing...
its not like a tongue feels masculine or femine when your eyes are closed, your legs jacked to Jesus and your chume hole is being stimulated. I'm glad you like to play in men's asses, makes my job easier...
see that's what I'm talking about! Dat Nigga you scaring me! But you speaking the truth - the truth ugly or pretty is the truth nonetheless...
Wow!!!!!!!!!! You really have to be careful now a days!!!!!!!
i'M NOT TRYING TO SCARE YOU ALL, I'M TRYING TO PUT YOU UP ON GAME!!
I have alot of female friends who I care DEEPLY for!! I would hate to see them get hurt for some gump!! As a matter of fact let me find out a nigga they were loving, turned out to be gay, I would whoop his ass for taking them through that...
Yall don got me started, where my heat at...
TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You're right once my eyes are closed a tongue is a tongue. While my eyes are open I'm going to make sure that the other person in teh room with me is the opposite sex. How many men you know will tell their new sex girl that they want beads up their ass? Not many so then they may come see you because I started something that they like and they are too embarrassed to tell the next girl.
Ladies I’m speaking from experience. When I married my husband I loved him to no end. But on June 19, 2004 I walked in on something I never thought I would. His good friend was stay with us for few months after his wife and his departed. I had always had my speculations about David but always shrugged them off as me being insecure. Two weeks before I walked in on David tossing my husband salad. David confided in me that when my husband turned twenty-one he got him sloppy drunk and gave him a blow job. This totally sickens me and gave him my word that I wouldn’t tell my husband. When my husband cam home I told him because my loyalty was to my husband not David. I’m still totally Love my husband but not in love with him. We are still together but in the traditional since. I love my kids to much to hurt them. But he knows come May 29th 2010 I will be filing for divorce. Word can’t describe how I felt when I say him bent over with his ass in the air.
Your name says it all Honey at no ways in hell!!!!!!!!
Oh my lost in life, I am soo sorry to hear that.
This is the thing with me..
I can respect a man who doesn't want to come ou tof the closet because who YOU sleep with is YOUR business. There is no rule anywhere that says you have to scream I'm here, I'm queer get used to it, for anyone's satisifaction. But if you are gonna involve another person, and you are committing to be in a relationship with them, you should be honest. One of the main reasons why I don't have a woman is because I know I like men. I have slept with women before and LOVED it. In fact there are a couple that I still wouldn't mind tagging!
(H2O showed me a picture of Airforce and knowitall to try to turn me back!!)
But my HEART aint there just my dick. I would never intentionally try to deceive a woman, yall got it hard enough!!
I am sooo sorry for your situation, I hate the drunk sex, stop using alcohol as a buffer for your butt sex!!
Knowitall you can say what you want to say but my kids is more important than anything. My two oldest are away at college and my youngest graduates in 2010. Having there dad in there life everyday is what more important to me. My boys are growing up knowing that there father was there for every basketball game every baseball game and every event in there youth. Everything else doesn’t matter.
You can’t say what you wont do because truthful you don’t. Some people act with there emotions and some people think before they act. I like to look at the big picture. What you do is best for you! No one can judge your actions.
Oh girl please! You are worried about hurting grown kids!!!!!!! Honey trust me your kids are gonna ride with u!!! They would not want you to stay in a situation where you are not happy for them. Trust me if you talk to kids and let them know whats going on honey they will be ok!
Their father can still be there for them he just doesn't have to be with you u women kill me with that for the kids bullsh@@ if he's a good father he's gonna be there for his kids whether he's with you or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
On the contrary I know exactly what I would do I'm not judging your actions I'm simple saying they wouldn't be my actions! How do you feel waking up everyday next to a man that really wants to be with another man???????
dat nigga don’t fell sorry for me. Trust me karma has a way with dealing with people who deceive others. You see when things come full circle it doesn’t come back to you the say way you put it out there. Remember that! I affirm that!!! I chose the name Lost in Life not for the mire fact of what happen but for the purpose of not knowing where I’m going in the near future. Don’t get it twisted Ms knowitall. I know who I am and I know what I’m doing and you put that in the Bank!!!
Well good luck with your situation because I couldn't deal with that at all and then his best friend oh hell naw!!!!!!!!!!!!
I see knowitall your name fits you perfectly. People who think they know everything don’t know goddam thing. Oh please!!! I could careless about what you think. Having a good father in the house help a boy grow up to be a good man. Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good man you should know that!!!
My dearest lost in life my heart and prayers go out to you. But do you not think that your husband could be an excellent parent although you're not together. I can see protecting the kids from his sexual preference but what about your needs?
Oh please honey if he's a good father he's still gonna be around whether you are with him or not!!!!! You women kill with that sh@@ so you saying you waking up next to an undercover booty pirate is worth it so he can be a good father girl kill yo self!!!!!!!
Kowitall you are totally missing the point. You single never been married no kids talking out the side of your mouth girls need to go kill yourself. Just because I not out here blasting his name all around town doesn’t mean that I’m not taking care of myself. You don’t know what you are waking up to on any given day when you decide to sleep with who ever it is you are f@@king. Honey trust me you most likely slept with a bunch of pickle kissers yourself. So get off of your tired ass horse.
I wish i could kiss a pickle right now.
Well you may right that but once I've knowingly kissed a rump roast I am out of there because I reiterated if we have kids together and he's a good father he's gonna be one while we are apart. If you want to be with your under cover booty pirate because just say that don't blame it on your kids!!!!!!!!!!!
see that's what wrong wit her knowitall thinks that making up a name justifies her. Knownotmuch should be the display name.
and furthermore you don't know what the hell you would do if you never been in that situation. These people are telling from experience! Do you "know" what that is???? It means going through it, the actual situation. You haven't been there yet. Get a husband let him him do that to you and come back to this blog and speak on your experience and what you did when you found out he cheated on you wit a another man.
Come again Anon because I sholl don't know what the hell you talkn bout!!!!!!!
you don't have to school me on the laws of Karma LOST.
In my practices and experiences, I have come to know that life is balance. Maybe I shouldn't have said I feel sorry for you, if i did. My heart weeps for you though, and that is something that is a from God emotion. I weap for anyone that feels that they have to stay with a man that is abusive, mentally or physically, for the kids sake. Kids (especially in your case because they are grown) are not blind, hell the father may have already explained the sitaution to them and YOU are the one in the dark.
If a divorce is TOO hard for your kids to bare, then it won't get any easier adding two more years (till 2010) of having a father in their life boo....
There are plenty of fathers out here who were excellent fathers, but that doesn't mean they were excellent husbands...
Look b@@@ I know me and You can't say I would react the same as you or any other woman I know I love me more than anything else in this world and as bad as I want a husband I will not stay with one who has a child outside of our marriage,cheats on me with someone of the same sex those are deal breakers and you can bet yo candy a@@ on that (Anon)!!!!!!!
See that’s what I’m talking about. How do you get what I’m say is blamed on the kids. Baby bye! I got to go. Catch you on the next topic.
Thank You dat nigga that's all I'm saying lost in life is with him because she doesn't wanna leave she's hiding behind her damn kids!!!
You are with him because you wanna be he can be a good father in his own crib with his male lover honey!!!!
yall got one more time to give a disrespectful nickname to a gay guy and Ima shut dis bitch down.
I've been nothing but respectful and I expect the same, I don;t recall every kissing a fucking pickle now sailing the high seas looking for booty!
Now you got one mo time... bitchplease and Miranda learned from me...
I do truly apologize dat nigga but this is a very sensitive subject and we mean no disrespect to you just men who are not brave enough to tell their wives sometimes they feel like a nut and sometimes they don't!!!!
thats why you ain't got a husband knowyoudidn't!!! because of yo nasty mouth who wants to be around that! Your man will be the one running into the arms of another man cuz he'll be tired of yo nagging ass!
just shut up and listen and you just might learn a thing or 2!
And a man can have his a@@ cuz that's what he wanted in the first place and I ain't gonna stay wit his a@@ for no kids no money and no damn status!!!!!!!!!!
B@@@@ I learn sumn new errrday!!!!!!
Negative, a nagging woman will not run a man into another man's arms. That is where he wanted to be in the first place as well as a lame ass excuse.
Like I said earlier it's what you're willing to accept. Knowitall doesn't have a man now for the simple fact she's not willing to honor bullshit for the sake of haeving a man.
Like someone said earlier there is a difference in alone vs lonely.
Knowitall wasn't the only one being offensive so this won't be a bash knowitall session. I understand everyone's frustration, and you LOST teh fact that you can get on here and share your testimony is amazing. We ALL really do care for one another here even if we don;t exactly seem like it. All except Miranda and bitchplease, who I think are dyke lovers!!
Fact: Men who like men will like men, no matter how fire you THINK your pussy is!!
Fiction: If I stay with him and love him maybe he will turn back.
Fact: If a man starts to like you playing in his ass, he will begin to feel comfortable with ass play, who is the most comfortable with ass play you ask? GAY GUYS!!
Fiction: I will stay for the kids sake because it will hurt them too much to see us separated.
Fact: Your kids are people with intelligence and understanding, they are the people you raised them to be. ITS HIS JOB as the father to explain his moral lackings not yours!! That isn't be ing a good father or a good husband, that's being a good person...
get it!! you are doing no one any good yourself or him by forcing this man to stifle his true nature.
Ageed arm charm, naggin alone will not run a man to another man's arms. Assplay + nagging will though,,LMAO!!! Just playing. Lighten up people, I'm the hated one in here remember...LOLOLOLOL
Good lookn out arm charm!!!! Exactly !!!!! Lost in life if he is a good father he will always be one no matter what the situation is between you and him and that's real talk. Even when parents divorce for whatever reason if the father is a good father than he is still active in the kids life Honey so save that one for someone who's buying it like yo self!!!!!!
The sooner you stand for something in your life the better off a lot of people will be. If you don't want a cheating mate then cut their ass off when you first find out.
Thats why it's important to have legal rights to these bastards out here. Staying with them for the kids sake or financial stability is insane. If you're married you can collect from him a monthly basis and keep the house. When you settle for less you get less than you settled for.
Dat nigga I kiss pickles too. so lighten up.
Once again dat nigga You hit the hammer dead on the nail!!!!!
No pun intended....LMMFAO!!!
I heard someone mention my name;
Knowitall I applaud you for knwoing what you will and wont deal with, not many women do, and they leave their life up to chance. When you have become and evolved human being, you can make decisions about what you will and wont do BEFORE they happen because YOU know YOU!
Dat Nigga if these women don't want to listen to the advice of someone who KNOWS GAY SITUATIONS then screw em. You can't advise them on nothing else but what you know and if they are too proud to hear you then let them ask Professor Grey about it on Friday!!! Miranda is not my dyke lover, she's my maid!!
Armcharm... you are correct in your assumptions nagging doesn't make people gay, it makes them explore the feelings they already have.
Lost in life, you will find your way again, your kids are adults, they will understand, don't hide behind them
as for you ANONs....I believe I was summoned especially for you. We don't take too kindly to no names giving too much fever in here.... get a personality (Name/URL).
oh and Miranda
you're a fucking loser and you shop with expired coupon clippings!!
bitchplease your are the shit stains on the panties of life....
And you are the maid who has to clean those stains...
back up Rosario Karen needs her afternoon tonic...
Oh Miranda you just tanked. Just stop it.
armccharm huh?
so that would be a cheap bracelet correct?
That's charm with one C.
Not a bracelet, just a pretty bitch that's all.
oh my bad "arm charm"
I know how anal you bitches are about spelling, you don't care to much about making sense but you be def up on the spelling...
just like you be "def up on" a yard sale fucking soccer mom..
Miranda your self respect just called and said that ever since 1925 you all have been estranged..
oh and your beautician called on call waiting and said they have changed your hair appointment from "right got damn now" to "you shoulda been had yo ass in here nappy head ho!!"
"you be def" Hello anal bitch because that makes no sense.
maybe not to a beige bitch like yourself..
but all the black folks in here know what I meant..
wannabee...
Jiggaboo
What I learned to day is woman have no respect for how other woman live there lives. I find it so ammazing how everyone want to give ther opinion when they have no ground to stand in. I left my husband four years ago. I have three well rounded and grounded kid you will meet. This is becaus me and there father work as a team to make sure of that. Me and my first husband are best freind and we live or lives as we see fit. But I wanted to see what woman would say if I took the path of a lot woman these days. Yes I do know two of my freinds husbands are DL brother. But I'm very supportive and I love and respect their decisions. But for me I couldn't stay because I couldn't live a lie. So when I wake up in the morning I wake up to man who loves me and not another man. Second time around is a charm. Af1 My baby girl want to know when she's come back over. Peace and love my sisters and my gay brother. Because I got nothing but love for all my hoes, bitches, faggots and any stupid ass label people want to put on you becuse I except everyone for how they are not what people want to label them.
Thanks for sharing your story and experience Lost in life...
I used to say you can never judge a book by it's cover but you can choose to "read between the lines" if you want to when truth smacks you dead in the face! Conventional wisdom holds that as we do more and more things often we learn from experience and get better and better (or we should). God says look unto Him and be saved. I believe women have intuitional wisdom that can be used to their advantage if paid close attention to. Use that wisdom ladies and like AF1 said - everyone keep yourself protected cause not only do you have to think about your emotions, but your health as wel
Answer me this question please...
Why is it that no one worries about health until a DL situation arises. We have had non stop talks about getting DOWN and Dirty but as soon as a DL situation comes along eeerbody wanna be all "heal the world" about it?!!
People you NEED to worry about health risks ALL the time not just when you fucking with a man who you think or know is DL...
You are absolutely correct dat nigga because dl men are not the only source of catching hiv/any other disease! I worry about my health at all times!
One of my previous comments talked about the risks of dealing with a cheater period...it's risky.
My problem with the DL man is that it's such a waste of a woman's time. Take Ms. lost in life for example. She has given this man her time...time...something she can never get back, wasted her life all because he has an insecurity. That's a jagged little pill to swallow. She loved this man but it wasn't mutually reciprocated.
Well af1 let her tell it it was reciprocated and they are still best friends today! It's a movie called cover it a street production and it's on a true story about a situation much like this one I'm gonna try to pick it up so we can watch it!
Ima get it too and then we can do a 3 way!!
Lmmafo!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bitch I am not doing movie night agian with you tonight. We just sat up and watched Lifetime on Saturday and Videos all day Sunday. Enough...ya' hear me...LOL!
@H2O-Speaking of getting it, when will you be visiting Chicago again?
F@@@ you suck my balls!!!!!!!!!(cartmen south park)
It t'ain't like u got sumn betta to do hoe!!!!!!!!
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