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Thursday, August 28, 2008

Think About it Thursday "The Open Door Policy"

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In a recent article/interview done on Will Smith he explained his views on marriage. During this interview he revealed the secret to the success of his marriage to Jada, is the fact that "he gets busy with whomever he likes as soon as he tells his wife about it first." He also explained that their perspective is "you don't avoid what is natural and you are going to be attracted to people. If it came down to it, then one would say to the other, 'Look I need to have sex with somebody, now I'm not going to if you don't approve if it'." Smith seems to think that his marriage would survive a permitted affair because of his and wife Jada's honesty. In addition, the Smith's traded in traditional wedding vows which state "forsaking all others" and replaced them with "you will never hear I did something afterwards, because if that happens the relationship is destroyed."
Can true love allow you to share your body with another willingly? Then what of the term "Holy Matrimony?" Is this term leaving our already failing society? More and more husband and wife teams have been exploring the possibility of open marriages, however, my question is, what is the point of getting married? Why not just "shack" for the rest of your lives? Is their (The Smith's) marriage for business purposes only or have they been listening to Digital Undergrounds Freaks of the Industry just a bit too much. What are your thoughts?

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think Will is gay and Jada is a Lesbo, (this is my opinion) their marriage is perfect in the eyes of our jilted society.

Let folks be who they are. Not that I am an advocate of gay marriages, I personally think it is a waste of time as well as a mockery of what a Holy Union should be about, however, if you allow gay people to marry each other then maybe they will stop marrying you guys...

Something to think about...

Anonymous said...

I don't know how I would feel about a man I was married to sleeping with someone else. To me that is one of the benefits of being married, PERMANENT, EVERYDAY SEX!!!

Other wise why are you even my husband? As opposed to being my boyfriend or friend with benefits?

Anonymous said...

"marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge"...

Anonymous said...

Preach brother or sister ANON!!!

Anonymous said...

I honestly believe that marriage is a sacred union. You are vowing to love honor and respect this person and above all else be faithful. So what would be the purpose of making these vows if you are only going to give in to temptations. Please don't marry me if you are going still behave as a single man.

Anonymous said...

Now that's Big Willism(Big pimpn) at it's finest.Man if me and my girl could have a set up like that I would marry her ass right now real talk!

AiR FoRcE 1 said...

I'm so hood...you are so funny.

If that's the key to Will and Jada's successful marriage then so be it. Swinging is a lot more common than one would think.

AiR FoRcE 1 said...

What I didn't understand is if they are approving the sex or an outside relationship....Hmmmm.

Anonymous said...

swing on outta here, don't put on no grand production of true love (wedding) to still be the same trifling dog you always been. We never even had to get married then!!

See my screen name in response to that...

and where is everyone, Miranda, Firefly, Armcharm, where yall at?

H2O said...

just the sex and if one doesn't approve the other will comply and not do it...

Anonymous said...

AGREED Sunshine, what's the purpose we coulda stayed f-buddies....

Anonymous said...

Oh hell they ass couldn't just stayed boyfriend and girlfriend! What they think because they got veto power it's better! Puhlease! That ain't no secret to no good marriage that's what everybody do minus the veto power cause I'm going to say no everytime!

Anonymous said...

why would you ever say yes and then two, is there some sort of rule where they can't do it to the same person more than once, I mean giving your man a "coochie coupon" is one thing, but an all you can eat buffet is saying something different...

would that imply that you liked the sex and therefore may become attached to the person as well, so no repeat offenders?

Anonymous said...

Im so hood you wouldn't mind your girl fucking whomever she wanted to as long as you could?

Anonymous said...

See my girl love me she wouldn't ever sleep with nobody else even if I told her she could. But man if I can sleep with other people than yeah shit I'a be like girl you work his ass like you do me lol!

Anonymous said...

you sooooo silly Im so hood....

For me there is no reason to go through all of the time, effort and energy of marriage if we are not gonna be married. That is really just a waste of time. I mean you really have to ask yourself what was the relevance of getting married in the first place. Are the men that agree with this just TRYING to find someone to pay alimony too?

Anonymous said...

The marriage is a business arrangement. You know tax/medicinal purposes. I'm sure married people get tired of each other. I can't imagine the same dick for 80 years shit I can't imagine the same dick for 8 months.

Anonymous said...

well that's fine and dandy but Will nor Jada needed each others hand outs...

neither of them needed each other insurance, health care blah blah blah their purpose in being married is pointless if they aint in love other than to cover up some bisexual allegations.... lol

Anonymous said...

Here I am thinking that they got the perrrrrrfect marriage and these idiots got an open marriage! Hell I hate that I even ever said "As long as Will and Jada together you can still believe in love" Horse shit!

H2O said...

I knew that true love was a myth when Bobby and Whitney broke up..

If they can't make it we all doomed!! LMAO!!!!

Anonymous said...

They were together for a while though you know them crack heads be sticking together! LOL!

Anonymous said...

Like Natalie Cole and her Preacher turned heroin addict husband was together for like 20yrs!

Anonymous said...

yeah Pooor Natalie..

that is why she used to always wear those gowns with long gloves, to cover the tracks of her tears on her arms...

She prolly steered clear of Whitney, like "Girl I can't go near that stuff you trippin!" LMAO!!!!

H2O said...

why is is that crackheads can stick together through thick and thin?