Falling in love is a many splendid thing. You're on a quest to know another person spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally. You think, as well as the outside world that your relationship must be heaven sent. Or so you thhought, up until the point that the one you have given your all to out of nowhere throws a wrench in the game. This wrench sounds something like, "I can't do this anymore". In a nano second your world is turned upside down. There is a hollow feeling in the pit of your stomach and you feel as if a part of you is being viciously stripped away. The person you thought you knew is a complete stranger that has just used words which pierced your heart like a dagger used to slay vampires. With all the fury, anguish and distress that is running through your veins do you leave peacefully or do you try to equate your pain by making sure that person feels hurt in some form or fashion? How do we get over a broken heart? Give us your worst break-up story and do share what you did to get by? Donnie Mclurkin says "We Fall Down, but we get up" how did you?
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Monday, September 29, 2008
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After giving up the life I knew to be the prfect wife only to be left home alone because of my weight gain while he played around with his bitch I prepared his food daily with high doses of his heart medication. May he rest in peace.
Well Here's my story:
Boy meets girl courts her for 5 glorious months.They spend everyday and every night together she knows his family and friends and vise versa. They went on dates all the time he gave her whatever she wanted whenever she asked. She couldn't have wanted a more perfect boyfriend. But one day things started to change it was just like Tamia said " A stranger in my house" it was like she didn't know him anymore. Then one day he finally built up the courage to tell her that he wasn't gonna be able to do this any longer with his work and school schedule he just didn't have time for the relationship anymore! She was devastated! All she could do was cry for the first three days and after that third day when there wasn't anymore tears left her heart closed for good and then bapsitzed in the funk was born a pimp never to look back at that relationship or any other one again. As far as her getting over dude she start messing with the nigga that her x-boy-friend brought work(drugs) from! And it helped her get over him with the quicks! The best way to get over a man is to get under a new one with no strings attached.
oh no ANON!!! May God have mercy on your soul..
Well for me my worst breakup story was with this nigga named July (real name has been changed for confidentiality purposes)
When we met I was down and out, no job, no money, no hope. I was in a strange town and my friends who I was staying with was a little tired of my not being employed (as anybody would) so in a sense they turned against me. We lived in the same house and didn't talk to each other until we needed to. One day this young man came over with another friend of mine, and they introduced him to me. When I shook his hand I KNEW we'd be together. I said nothing. I never asked about the boy after that or anything. 2 Weeks later I get a call from my friend alerting me to the fact July kinda liked me. I was ecstatic!! We talked on the phone and for 4 years after that we were soulmates....
Our relationship was very good, we were best friends as well as lovers, shared everything. He loved me outta unemployment into a very well paying job, and I loved him into a good college, into a fraternity, into his own apt, and into one of the most successful programs for academics scholars in colleges ever.
He was soo consumed with how well the relationship went that he had trouble allowing me to kick it with friends. None of my friends cared for him because he inspired my creativity and my independence from them. He accused me of cheating, and we broke up several times. The last time he dumped me I left vowing never to return. It was the hardest breakup that I had to endure because he was my EVERYTHING!! My Best friend, my partner, even my partner in crime. Professor Grey once told me that "never make your lover your everything because when or if they leave, you have lost everything! Love is supposed to be added to an already complete life, not complete your life!"
How I got over it was simple. I told myself that I deserved better. Sure it hurt, but I surrounded myself with positive things, and people and set aside time in my day everyday to mourn the loss of him. I didn't shove the feelings to the back of my head, I gave him his just due. Each day it became easier and easier to think of him and to this day, I can still think of him and smile.
It also helps when they return, as mine always do, to be so over them that you could care less what they feel. You can speak with a smile, and it doesn't even bother you that they are your X and not your present. Since the breakup he has tried several times to get into contact with me. No thanks buddy!! Nothing helps you get over an X faster than the feeling of KNOWING you deserve better. I began a relationship with myself!! That is the most important relationship of all. Once you learn that, the rest is a piece of cake!!
It never made me feel better to seek revenge on someone that hurt me. Slashing tires, busting window, all that kinda shit seems like acts of desperation to me. I mean when my husband of 5 years broke it off with me for someone else I was livid!! I didn't want to make him think it affected me so I surrounded myself in my work. At least I would get postiive feedback from that and like Dat Nigga I surrounded myself with positive people. Sooner or Later out of sight was truly out of mind...
so female mac, do you think your new found way of thinking is because of what you went through? If so, how do you feel about the fact that you let a man change you?
I feel fine about it because I've yet to see anyone in a happy healthy relationship. I mean I felt like I had gave love a shot plenty of times and it didn't work out well at all. So I see I'm much better at friendships with men than relationships. I don't think a man really changed me I think those feelings were always dormant in me he just brought it to the surface. @ H20
OH OKAY. Well I can indentify with that. But what happens when a man comes along who wants to love you, do you railroad him or do you allow him to at leat prove to you he wants to love you?
Oh yes! I give each idiot their own chance to prove themselves unworthy!
Do you guys think that spending every waking minute with your God Send kinda takes the spice out of things?
I mean if your CO2 is their O2 then essentially sooner or later you will need some fresh air...
I Love you Female mac. LMAO
Anon was it your weight that made him leave really?
*Wink Wink* @ Poseiden! lol
My horrible breakup story goes back to highschool when my then love of my life was expecting a baby with the neighborhood bust down who was 10 years his senior. Anyway, she was prego when we got together and I thought it was possible to keep BM and girlfriend dealing separarte....right? WRONG!!!! Well when SirLeavell FoShay arrived that chick gave me the business. She used the baby in everyway possible to sabotage our relationship and eventually won. His exact words were "my baby momma is going to always be there for me". Needless to say immediately after that final comment he did a 5 year bit in a state penn and Miss Thing was nowhere to be found and he couldn't understand why I only visited him once and maybe wrote 3 times.
That there conditioned me to know and understand that a negro can and will change in the twinkling of an eye. The sooner you understand that the earsier a breakup will be.
Is there anyone here that has broken up positively?
Well Miranda Hobbs, I never got a chance to ask. I experienced issues with self esteem, depression and thougth of suicide. Then I asked why should I off myself when I can just do away with teh root of teh problem. The disturbing part is I haven't any sympathy. I wanted his heart to shatter the way mines did. His was literally.
Positive and Breakup story is an oxymoron H20...LOL!!!
Lmmfao!!!!!!!!!!
to you Airforce, Dat Nigga seems fine with his breakup...
girl may God be with you, things like that tend to come back to haunt you...
Believe me I was anything but fine. But I didn't feel the need to see him die though, (Oh ANON)
I figured that it was torture enough losing out on me...
But I have had positive breakups before take Leu Jean and I,
(Airforce Leu Jean was the guy over your house with Poseiden and H2O.)
We broke up and are still cool we just realized that we weren't supposed to date...
I had one very amicable breakup.
We had a beautiful peaceful relationship. We would have disagreements and by him being on ridlin, he would say in the calmest voice ever, i said i'm sorry baby, what else do you want me to do. He and i just eventually begin to call each other less, and soon not at all. We never really broke up just kind of drifted into the wind. No one was hurt, no one cried. We are very good friends now. We occasionally go to the movies and have lunch. I really don't feel like sharing my bad breakups, number one i don't know which one was more horrible, considering this weekend i had to turn into Ke Ke Brown, and reach over and open slap my boyfriend. It takes too much energy rehashing shit, don't be mad cause you got a sexy motherfucker with six pack abs and you got a keger with a tail pipe sticking out of your stomach and think you can talk to me anykinda way..... i again regress.
Don't get me wrong, I've had breakups before my husband. None took the same toll and mental strain on me as his did. I could have plead insanity and got off an it had it come up legally because I was in a state of disturbia.
I feel ya Poseiden! You will not talk to me any kinda way we are gonna respect each other because if I start talking crazy yo azz ain't gonna never recover from what i say and it will all be true!
The worst breakup i had was when i fell in love with Walter. He was 6'3, musular, and a smile that made me moist. I used to even pick him up at 4a.m. to drive him to work leave him my car and continue to work on the el. Needless to say i had it bad, well one night i went to his apartment, and he heard moaning and groaning coming from inside, this motherfucker had another bitch in there, I went into kill mode, now i'm 5'7 and not that big at the time, so after it was over i was walking away with my braids pulled outta my head hanging to each side like Curtains, with my blouse ripped, and my boobs exposed, crying like Nettie from color purple yelling "whyy whyyyyy".
We got back together 7 years later, and he was back to his old tricks at the club. I saw him with someone in his lap, so i said nothing, swiped the corkscrew from the bartender when her back was turned, when out side flattened two tires (you only have one spare) and went and ate breakfast, met a fine nigga in the diner and spent the night with him, and still haven't lost any sleep over that time.
To Female mac,
Well i haven't talked to him since the slap on our way home from the club saturday. I'm not a violent person, he just called me one bitch too many in front of his friends. He asked did you just hit me in my face, i said i'm the only one sitting here with a stinging palm. I never call him out of his name, i'm always there for you not gone disrespect me when i supported you. So if that was a breakup, I don't feel all upset, cause when you make up your mind you not taking shit, and they don't want to treat you right, I look at it as a tradein not a breakup, cause you wasn't happy in the first place. But contrary to dat nigga, and Miranda, the open hand slap gave me peace like a river.
"aint no feeling like being free
when your minds made up and you heart is in the right place
aint no feeling like being free
when you done all you could and was misunderstood its all good, its all good
aint no feeling liek being free I'm like an eagle set free and finally Im looking out for me.."
Destiny's Child... one of the healthiest songs to listen to after a break up
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JumRmo5zCx4
here you go its therapy!!
It's all wonder full that some people can take a peaceful approach, and getting back at them, But for the rest of us, Jasmine Sullivan says this, and i concur.
bust the windows out ya car
And no it didn’t mend my broken heart
I’ll probably always have these ugly scars
But right now I don’t care about that part
I bust the windows out ya car
After I saw you laying next to her
I didn’t wanna but I took my turn
I’m glad I did it cause you had to learn…
I must admit it helped a little bit
To think of how you’d feel when you saw it
I didn’t know that I had that much strength
But I’m glad you see what happens when…
You see can’t just play with people’s feelings
Tell them you love them and don’t mean it
You’ll probably say that it was juvenile
But I think that I deserve to smile
I bust the windows out ya car
You know I did it cause I left my mark
Wrote my initials with the crowbar
And then I drove off into the dark
I bust the windows out ya car
You should feel lucky that that’s all I did
After five whole years of this bullshit
Gave you all of me and you played with it
Oooh, ahh…
I must admit it helped a little bit
To think of how you’d feel when you saw it
I didn’t know that I had that much strength
But I’m glad you see what happens when…
You see you can’t just play with people’s feelings
Tell them you love them and don’t mean it
You’ll probably say that it was juvenile
But I think that I deserve to smile
But it don’t comfort to my broken heart
You could never feel how I felt that day
Until it happens baby you don’t know pain
Oooh, Yeah, I did it (Yeah I did it)
You should know it (You should know it)
I ain’t sorry (I ain’t sorry)
You deserved it (You deserved it)
After what you did to me (After what you did)
You deserved it (You deserved it)
I ain’t sorry (I ain’t sorry)
No, no, oh… (I ain’t sorry)
You broke my heart
So I broke ya car
You caused me pain (You caused me pain)
So I did the same
Even though all that you did to me was much worse
I had to do something to make you hurt, yeah
Oh, but why am I still cryin’?
Why am I the one whose still cryin’?
Oh, oh, you really hurt me baby
You really, you really hurt me baby
Hey, hey, hey
Hey, hey, hey
Now watch me yule
Now watch me yule
I bust the windows out ya car…
after you listen to that you listen to this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F33Vay0riZY
and I guarantee youll feel better!!!
Michelle looks sooo sad...LOL!
Damn I didn;t know that Michelle could sing for real. Iight Michelle.
No I'm threw with it love I'm threw it threw with love I finally given it up! I've so much in the past for that didn't last I threw it threw it love I finally given it up!
yes Michelle aint no punk Beyonce big head ass dont want you to know Michelle could blow like that!!!
Its an age difference thing Meduim Kim, Jasmine Sullivan is 19 years old, the peaceful approach comes with age and experience.
At 19 I felt the same way, but once you get to be 30 a light bulb is supposed to pop on and the silliness that you entertained in your youth shouldn't even be given a second thought to.
For some our intellect is like fine wine we get better with age, some of us are like cars, depreciating over time. Its up to you to decide what you will be...
so after she busted out the car windows, scarred herself up she's still single right...
and the point would be?
See most of the men I dealt with had money so doing something to their car didn't make since because they could just it fixed right away. So I to result to more intriguing measures!
Fuck what professor g talking about, i didn't flatten my first tire till i was 30 honey. Don't put me down for getting revenge on these motherfuckers that fuck you over. I don't fault you for the peaceful page, but even at 40, i'm fuck a bitch life around. It's not maturity, it's fuckin life.
@Miranda, thats a song girl, if you bust a window you use a brick and gloves boo. Motherfuckers have to learn there are consequences for your actions. This is not fine wine or any of that shit, it's simple physics, every actions equals a reaction.
LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!!!!!
Kim's way may not be suitable for all victims just like the passive "this too shall pass" mantra wont work for others.
No matter what the age of the person is, if you're at home can't eat or sleep and looking at your phone every 10 minutes trying to make sure its on and facing the reality that they have moved on is a jagged little pill to swallow.
Some poeple have run thier husbands over in a motel parking lot, others may drive cross country with a pamper on. SOmebody used heart meds.
I'll take a busted window anyday over someone killing me.
You can not accurately sum up how someone should react to hurt based on ther age.
Madea said it best in Diary of a mad black woman when they were tearing ol boy's house up. It may not solve anything, but you feel better when you do it.
I think it depends on the level of devastation, how long the relationship was and if you are at your breaking point with men/women period. Hell sometimes you just get tired of giving your all and getting nothing but the shaft in return.
I hear you skillet.
Some people are just relationship people. Everytime you turn around you got a new man. Although they may only stay around for 3-4 months you still call them your man. Thats why it may not be so devastating to you when you break up because this is your 15th relationship this year.
Other people may date several people during the course of a year but then they'll come across one who they feel is truly special and decide to give their heart to.
LOL!
What you laughing at Female Mac the skillet comemnt or these hoes who begin a new relationship with the seasons?
both! lol because I have a couple of friends who think it's nothing wrong if every man has been your boyfriend!
aint no body putting you down no class having bitch if you felt put down then you were then that was your own psyche telling you you shoulda been. Most often our own mind makes us hear what we should be hearing not necessarily what we heard.
All Im saying is I don't remember our parents busting car windows, if that is the kinda life you want to live then by all means bust away...
But if you bust my windows you going to jail, Ill know its you and don't think I can't find 4 witnessess to say they saw you, so now you in jail, busted knuckles still single and a record.
Fuck what medium Kim is talking about, she speaks for them females that cant do no better than the triflin niggas they hook up with. I understand anger which is why I chased a nigga down the street in my Kenneth Coles to beat HIS ASS not his windows ass. Liek Ima get some satisfaction from that!! I'm not saying the revenge isn't sweet but be smart, leave the project antics for those who live there, again Kim if this is you, then do you, but someone as ignorant as your comments suggest really doesn't know to much about physics, because if every action has a reaction then what is to become of you for slashing someones tires cus you couldn't get your way.. "WAAAAAAAAA!!" Someone give this child a pacifier!!
Ill be sure to put some money on your canteen.
Aww Kim you didn't flatten your first tire till you were 30, aint you supposed to be passed that by now. So when you meet people and they upset you do you bust their tires then, NO, so you musta put p with a bunch of shit before you got to the window busting stage, maybe that is the maturity that Professor Grey was speaking on, knowing when something is not for you and not letting someone push you to the point of insanity.
God put us here to progress and you goin backwards...
girl get some business, LMAO!!!...
Well everyone isn't as tough as BP and can't chase a man down the street to beat him up.
Not Ke Ke!!!!
Relationships aren't easy and they require work. Have you ever been mislead into thinking that you are working towards having a good relationship when in fact you find out that you were the only one who was putting forth a real effort. You just don't run at the first sight of stormy weather.
only the arrogant get that depressed over rejection because they cannot believe it happened to them. So if you are angry enough to buss a window over a man or a girl, then chances are you had nothing going for yourself before that man and girl.
I am a very succesful woman at 30, my head is on straight and I have a degree. I KNOW I deserve a good man, but all men have flaws, as do we!! When you forget that you are not a perfect being you tend to forget that others may fall short of perfection as well.
Heartaches are hard to deal with but doin something ignorant is not gonna make that man or that woman want to be no closer to you than they were before.
If I am gonna go to jail, it aint gonna be for vandalism...
well then those ladies should cut their losses and shut up arm charm...
The only reason I hear that guy got chased is because he stole money not a heart.
Once a guy came to my house acting a damn fool because of relationship differences, calling me all types of names and junk, my and my new boyfriend just sat there and laughed at how pitiful he looked.
This fool had nothing else better to do but act out because I didn't want to be with him, now thats power. If you give a man that much power over you, you will forever be busting car windows, your mind will never mature to the point where you are beyond that, because you think someone paying $200 to replace a window jsutifies the lonely nights they have forced upon you.
guess what silly lil girls, you're still lonely and them and their new person are laughing at you...
I'd call you laughing if it were me and belittle you even further, cus here it is I got yo silly ass out in the middle of the night, lurking around, mad!! You'll never be able to convince me that I'm missing out, who'd miss that immaturity?
Ladies I find the sweetest revenge is when he comes back for seconds after he has treated your whole life and really thinks he has another chance and you get to smile and tell him "You only get one shot at greatness and if you don't recognize it while it is in your presence than that is your lost and your problem now please remove yourself from my presence with inglamorous and shabby self" The look on his face will be priceless just like the commercial!
again you are not provoked into slash tire mode after the 4 disagreement, if something has pissed you off enough to buss out car windows then guess what, eithe ryou need anger mgmt, or friendship mgmt.
Either way, you are the only person who controls what you do, when you start doing things because of how someone made you feel, then you become their personal puppet, I wish I had a puppet...
CMON FEMALE MAC!!!!
That is what I am talking about!!! LEAVE THE GHETTO BITCH ANTICS TO BITCHES IN THE GHETTO, you aint finna look down your nose at them and then act like them. We call them corporate hoodrats round these parts!!
First to Bitch 08, miranda and p.Grey,
FUCK YALL.
God is a vengeful God and i was made in his image and i will smote thee. Miss Miranda, just cause you shit and don't wipe completely, when i do a job is done right. I don't feel like i'm wrong, but its these passive ass fuckers like yall that enable these niggas to continue with their tom foolery. I don't slashed six tires, broke in one house, confiscated and notebook and still i say, Prove it boo. P.Grey your premonitions won't hold up in court boo. Plus i want you to know i die, what satisfaction do you get out of it if the bitch know it's you and can't prove it. No bitch i'm pretty i'll bust your window and have another you in a minute. Every body ain't like Miranda with boyish looking curves, but yall can take that maturity shit and shove it up your ass. I i bust your windows Grey, just sweep up the glass that's all you gone be able to do bitch. Bitches im mutherfuckin Black Mamba from kill bill, i don't get caught.
These bitches ain't got shit to say, moral court dismissed,
or let them catch you in Walmart and and speak to you and you tell them you "don't have any spare change..."
the look after that si priceless as well Female Mac!!!
Your not wrong just immature, youll learn that when you hit 30 I mean 40 hopefully...
Look Dat Nigga, I personally don't care who's fuckign who. I don't make phone calls to the possible other person either. My thing is that everybody don't handle things the same way. I for one have never knocked out anybody's car window. But I've beem hurt before and I see why someone may turn into Glenn Close and boil your son's rabbit.
@Miranda, when i meet someone and they piss me off, i don't hit them, people i don't love are like earthworms in the rain, i step on they asses. BP08 you can call a bitch and try to belittle them further, but u risk it being you window pane the next time. One thing that helps me, is i don't give a fuck how you look at me, you can call me pitiful, but it only matters how i feel,and busting yo windows improves my mood. And while you at the auto glass place paying for that replacement, i'm gone b standing across the street with a Mai Tai toasting. I don't bust them cause i want you back i bust them cause i want closure, now find some plastic and duck tape and close that brick hole. You bitches kill me and tryna always talk about this i too good for that. Bitch-09
Now taht was just nasty Kim....LOL!!!
don't do me, do that nigga you slapped in the mouth. I didn't see no glass, no rubber or anything, from his car but you did pop him in the mouth right...
If you're so pretty then you shouldn't be out in the middle of the night slashing tires. You're case is dismissed on the grounds of insanity, no one THAT fabulous even has to get angry enough to bust windows, the replacement is called before the glass is shattered and that man has made you forget about your past mistakes...
Nice try, but I knew you'd be led down the road of hypocrisy sooner or later
Again I'll sweep up the glass while Im on the phone giving your information to the police and getting the signatures from the neighbors to admit that it was you... You going down boo, maybe you'll find someone of equal intelligence in the big house...
Where is that pacifier?
My boyish curves have kept me away from having to bsut car windows, your boyish curves has you losing sleep, who would be the dummy?
Miranda Hobbs, i misjudged you.
You're an idiot. This is the definition of mature:
Mature:
Completely worked out; fully digested or prepared; ready for action; made ready for destined application or use; perfected; as, a mature plan.
So as i see it, my plan for fucking a bitch out falls in the catagory
I can see why too Arm Charm but what pretell kept you from doing that?
I'll wait..
See ladies if you read a nucca his miranda rights it will sting and scar much worse than any car windows or paint job because those words you tell him especially if they ring true will stick with him forever! The male ego is much more fragile than any car windows when you get through letting his azz have it to the utmost he's never gonna remember to forget not to cross you believe what I say is true!
So Miranda and Dat Nigga and BP and Female Mac. Now I'm not saying that you haev to cut the fool like Sista Kim, but you've never thought about doing something mean to inconvenience him?
You bitches kill me with the Jack MacFarland "All in A Day" don't shit bother me, MLK turn the other cheek, Miss. Congeniality malarkey. Save it.
@Dat Nigga, huh?
I'm telling ya chile words if used properly will kill him on the inside n out believe what I say chile!
Female Mac...men are like machines. They do not deal with emotion instead they opt for ration. So while you're READING him he's hearing "Womp Womp Womp". And will probably tell you that your nagging and lack of understanding is why he didn;t want to stay in the first place.
The best way to deal with a breakup is to just deal with it. Stay busy and move on.
Again, as i've told you many times just cause you type a plea don't make it stick, there are eleven other jurors. Yes i popped the muthafucker in the mouth, there were too many people to see the tire slashing he should have gotten, remember bitch I've done this before, and statements from your neighbors, while they are lying saying shit, i'll just inform police of the contraband and illegal weapons your neighbors are sure to be carrying, character witness dismissed.
That maturity level must make your comprehension level go down, cause as said before, the broken window, is to teach you a lesson on treating people wrong, not for reasons you otherwise stated, apparently maturity must be somehow related to downs syndrome.
@Miranda, i never said i loss a bit of sleep, ask BP08 after the i popped that nigga in the mouth i slept soundly. FYI Arm charm mentioned the losing sleep. Maturity must be linked to dsylexia too.
If you're talkign about that it was signed, sealed and will be delivered at the end of the day.
Negative AF1 every man I've ever read and he know he was wrong was sorry and tried his best to get back with me! So that's what works for me if you have a legitimate gripe a man will concur this I know chile! I'm not a nag at all but when it's time for him to be let have it he will hear me R-O-A-R! And he in return will have not choice but to listen because the shock and Awh of me loosing it on him will keep stagnant because he's never seen me like this before!
Oh so now I'm the only person who has dreamed with a broken heart. Well I'm human and I have feelings and emotions unlike you non-emotional beings.
I've only been hurt twice. I'll be damned if it happens again.
Female Mac, they always come back. That's a known fact. The only problem is they come back to everybody. I don't know if it's a good come back or just to see if they can hit it again for old time sake. But they always come back...to everybody.
You can say that they were wrong and they will listen (or at least hear womp womp) then they'll agree to everything you just saif and it only to see if they have a chance for hitting it again. When you don't put out again they label you as crazy.
You just have to know who to invest your emotions into! That's the most important thing to remember about relationships! If you study the male species he is most often right and wise by who he invests his actual emotions in to I take great heed to this and other ways that males conduct themselves!
See Female Mac, every single one that got a slashed tire by me, still tried to come back, why cause when they got it, they knew they were major fuck ups. Fuck that shit, my body represents the U.S.fucking A. and when you fuck over me you just fucking ran a plane into the twin towers and i'm not H.W. Bush, i go after Bin Laden, not nobody else.
OH no Af1 they don't come back to everybody! But if and when they do it's up to you to either send him on his merrily way or give him a second chance to do you in again(most females choose the latter) but that is your best chance for revenge when and if he comes back! And if you let him have it even if he's not listening you will have gotten all that off your chest and will be able to move on instead of sitting around crying waiting to find the right moment to let him have it and then title it closure!
I've never slashed a tire in my life because I never had to but ask any nucca I been with and they azz know that I don't play with them and nobody else! So many men that I've dealt with a lot of other women had a lot of problems with but I didn't and you know why because they know the consequences would be verbally lethal!
That's called having too much mouth and aint no man about to stand there and willingly listen to you tell him off.
If it's one thing I know it's that men don't wanna hear chit bad about themselves because all of their lower level whores have them thinking they are prefect! But just like I'm not perfect when I let them know they are not perfect they usually conform to proper behavior because they never want to hear that again or anything else like it!
HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM cuz they listen to me all the time! And you know what they say you are right I'm sorry!
If you hit a man with the truth you will be surprised at his reaction! You really will you can't just be like yousa punk ass bitch you have to hit him with something with more substance!
Its not an insult being called an idiot, coming from you oh one who creeps through the night stalking the one who doesn't want you...
nice try but something tells me your mouth is shut when it needs to be opened and open like now when it needs to be closed.
and who might HW Bush be is that the nickname for your nappy dugout...
Lmmfao @ miranda!
Men don't realy care waht females is saying when they jab out..
all they hear is the Charlie Brown teachers....
if they were all that mental you could probably tell them something once and not be reduced to bussing windows...
LMMFAO!!! @ MIRANDA!!! GRIL YOU SPEAK LIFE INTO EVERY STATEMENT!!!
KIM SHE GOT YOU THERE IF YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE ALL THAT YOU'D SURELY BE WITH ANOTHER AND NOT HAVE TIME TO SLASH TIRES!! DUMB ASS
Okay girl, you keep thinking that a man is going to sit there and let you scold him. Remember although they do silly stuff they still need to be treated like a MAN. If he wants to hear some fussing he'll call his mom. When he wants his ego stroked he'll call the other chick. All because you are the wicked witch of the west.
And while all the other hoes sit a home crying over some loser who wasn't worth their time in the first place I'll be just fine and on to the next one like I said every nucca I mess with lets me scold them and they love it! Fyi they are gonna call another chick whether you stroke or smack his ego anyway!
Like I said he may come back around to see if you're off taht bullshit. If not what reason should he stay. Who wants to sit around anybody man or woman who always got something to say.
I'm not sayign be a doormat but if you accepted soemthing and didn;t put a stop to it while it was unfolding then don't bring it up when you're ready to lash out.
Well H20 I must be the ultimate exception because they listen and comprehend very well every word I say because I don't go off often so when I do have a legitimate gripe they will are willing to listen!
I don't know anyman who likes to be scolded but I do know a lot of them who will become putty in your hands if they can't get to you. For example I change my number and teh guy I'm ducking is outside my palce telling me that something is wrong with my phone....LOL! I'm like naw nigga I'm tyring to avoif you..LOL!
Don't put me in this mess Medium Kim, I personally think its foolish to waste all that energy. It's not my job to teach you a lesson, it's my job to call that replacement you were speaking of.
That is the true meaning of having "another you", a replacement if picked properly will have your mind so consumed that by the time you think about bussing out a window, too much time has been past and it aint even worth it any more..
But you always did let your emotions think for you, but whose to say whose right or wrong, we're both single, don't let me being content and stress free over a man's bullshit be the deciding factor on who handles men better. Maybe I should offer more feeling..
But then why would I, if the outcome is you, who is incidentally no different from me in the relationship status?
Different strokes for different folks, but tell me this, after you buss the window, and he pays for it, he's taught the lesson, but you're still single right?
Yes Kim slept soundly after I liquored her up with Urban Herbal Incense!!
NO you lash out when it happens is what I'm saying don't what until he's chitted all over you and you've took him back 50-11 times and then try to bring everything up at once do it at the present time!
Yeah i thought that too female mac, until I realized I was still single and them bastards aint chnaged, what good is pacifying me by listening gonna do if you do the same stupid shit repeatedly?
Most cats in the game already expect some sort of retaliation or retribution so when it happens it only confirms to them that they made the right chose to shut it down. True revenege is when a woman continues to keep it pushin' and treat the situation for what it really is...a small speed bump in the journey.
So let me ask this, is the window busting act what you guys are calling immature or any type of inconvenience/retalliaton. Like I said I don't buss windows. I tell the opposing drug dealers that my ex has intentions on sticking them up. I feel window can be replaced. When your head is knocked back it a little more difficult to recover.
Preach bp08! Af1 I've had the same namber(number) for 20yrs cuz if a mofo keep calliing me that I'm trying to avoid I let his azz have it and he keeps calling no matter what you and when you see him he says can I call you and you know you done called him all kind of female dogs and whatnot it's just as gratifying! lol
Welcome to TC MadPoetic...Enjoy!
I tell him "LIME" that I'm not interested and that I am happy with my boyfriend but he still wants to text or call occasionally to say hi. Now I did shut No Mo down when he called and I was with my boo. But I had to give it to him real deal cause aint nigga feelings going to be spared while my man is present.
BTW Cadillac Tracy comes home this month.
That's why I don't double dip H20 you seriously only get one chance with me so you betta make it the best! That's because no one else is willing to tell them they are immature and the road they travling down gonna lead them to some low rent tart who has no backbone and no real woman is gonna deal with you the way you are and that's why they keep doing the same chit!
it wont be a lie from my neighbors if you did it...
again I will be laughing at your for having nothing else better to do than stalk me.
If I had enough sense to be taught a lesson by a brick through my window then I may have had enough sense to not do you to the point where you got that mad. But since I didn't then I don't.
so to all my exes that feel like a little immaturity goes along way, Ill take this measley $200 and replace my window, and you take that misery that I have caused you by rejecting your incomplete ass and fix your windows to your soul....
Your depressed but Ill have more money next payday...
THANK YOU MAD POETIC AND WELCOME, please continue to school the First Wives Club on their foolishness
I'm trying female mac, these ghetto broads trying to take away all the progress we have made!!!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! tell them to keep that one (Kadilac Tracee) LOL!
when will you females learn. Don't no real nigga give a fucka bout yo mouth, yo bussing they windows, none of that shit. Bitches is so out of order these days! the only thing you gon do is find my new girl at yo doorstep!!
Real niggas dont' give fuck about your tiny acts of revenge, stop thinking we think like you, you females think like that because thas how yall feel, yallmad as hell when yo nigga buss out yo shit..
we jsut talk about yo lonely ass to our guys, and find new ways to shit on yall...
Mr. Man killyoself and yo new low rent azz broad do you think we care when you leave and get with a broad half the woman we are nope just like you talk about us we talk about yall gooftanous azzez! I wish a mofo new girl would come to my door I'll beat that bioch beyond recognition!
Uhm MR. MAN, If a man doesn;t think like a female then why in the hell is HE busting out windows of a girls car. Now that's weak.
SAY THAT SHIT FE MAC!!!
You could never shit on us yous prolly a loser I didn't have way like in the first place!Send ya new skee-o if you wanna that bitch gonna get that ass lit to the sky!
If a girl comes to my door she will be sorry becuase my first degree murder charges will be removed due to trespassing.
If yall didn't care there would never be a broken window by a mad azz broad.
Lemme give you a tip, what hurts a nigga more than anything is a bitch he shitted on doing betta than him!!
I was just trying to help yall mad azz broads...
Mr Man please excuse them, this is a touchy subject, no one likes to be shitted on and its obvious that everyone in here has been....
To Anonomous and Miranda,
I understand being dumped is regular for you girls, your faces being toxic and all. And i see the the dsylexia continues. It doesn't matter what you think of me bitch it only matters what i think of you, Coyotes opinions don't count ask road runner. It's always the ugly bitches yelling somebody thinking they all that, thank you, apperantly you two ringworms think im all that, and the bitches who tires slashed think i'm all that, cause they all beg to come back. Yes bitch i'm a night stalker read marvel comics and see what i could do. So you two continue to take the high road, eat pints of ice cream and and add pounds to your boyish figures. God you bithes are amazing. But i imagine you felt lucky for any man to want you and you knew the dumb was imminent and took it with a grain of salt. Just to let you high horse haters know there is always a list, the last tires i slashed, was on my way to the new mans $500,000 thousand house and i'm like Fed Ex, 24 hours and i merely dropped of a delivery.
Different men respond to different stimulus! What works for you might not work on others each male specimen is different! Besides we doing what makes us feel betta whether it affects them/not!
the same can be said to you for bussing them windows..
besides its hard to dial 911 when you is knocked out...
what makes you think that if I am not supposed to know you busted my windows that you will know that random girl and her routy ass friends jumping you was my doing? Lets be real..
At least Ill be in the clear I wasn't with Random girl, but YOU were busting them windows...
Coyote? Road Runner? you chose cartoons for your defense, no wonder this conversation goes over your head...
Enough said Kim....
you till haven't expalined to us who HW Bush is oh high and mighty, if you had a boyfriend with a $500,000 house then what are you doing mad about a nothing ass dude...
Girl you're pitiful....
whether or not I'm ugly or cute doesn't matter, what matters is you're so fabulous and still get left at the alter, must be something on the inside that over rules that fabulous box its wrapped in...
Oh no, that busted window, cures the depression darling, and when you have to choose between paying the heat and keeping the cold out of your car, your soul will be chilled either way. Like i said, i"ve never been caught boo, I'm a pro. What you all fail to realize at the moment of the shattering, it unleshes the shackling you had to my heart, and i move on. You bitches are taking this awfully personal. You call the police and try to convince them of shit, but boos, i work with jewish millinares, they've got me out of legal jams before do what you do, don't worry you won't see the brick coming, no one will.
ADD pounds? girl i wish I could gain weight.. I'm way to slim to defend myself against a fat girl insult...
its no wonder you have to buss windows to get your point across like I said Kim even SHIT looks pretty wrapped in a Vicky Secret box...
And here it is I thought you were the smart one...
Miranda,
H.W. Bush is George Bush's middle initials. Any bitch who has lived under that president for 8 years and doesn't know who he is, deserves the anna nicole smith award. You're blond and not pretty, you have got to be dumber than bacon grease, well you are what you eat. When you stop going to see your man at the projects we'll talk, but when you just learn the last 4 presidents, do like in grammer school, and don't mix your LD ass with the rest of us.
Actually H.W is the father W. is the son!
again you got all this going for yourself, nice bod, working with Jewish Millionaires (that's how its spelled) and yet you still let men reduce you to night stalking...
one day sweetheart, one day, again some folks take longer than others to mature, maybe had your intial screening process for suitable partners been tweaked for perfection instead of mediocrity (that would be the niggas who dont have enough finances to NOT worry about a busted window) then maybe you wouldn't let yourself go that far...
Dear Dr. Wyse
Why do I have a rash around my mouth?
but Geroge W Bush was the one going after someone other than Bin Laden for the twin towers right?
That was your intitial statement correct?
Thanks Ms Fact Check, but HW Bush wasn't in the presidency when the twin towers were treated, that would be George W..
You high class bitches kill me, all Dollars and no sense!!
You will see my man in the projects because thats the only mentality you embody riding around at night looking for a man, pitiful...
Anon you know why you gots a rash around yo mouth!
"you just fucking ran a plane into the twin towers and i'm not H.W. Bush, i go after Bin Laden, not nobody else."
Your direct quote not mine...
um okay no will you be using the cartoon defense or we been letting you have it for so long that have you graduated from 8th grade and now using that Japanimation defense?
you should change your name to Knightrider Kim..LMAFAO!!!
I'm sure that everyone has done something to get even with a person that they are not proud of. Just be careful and remeber acts of insanity will not bring the person back.
But what if it makes you feel betta!
I swear I love this blog!!!!
Miranda you and Kim are on fire on today!! What is going down!!!!
and FYI there is nothing wrong with me thinking I am too good to buss out a nigga windows who has dumped me!!!
Why do I have to be all high and mighty just because I think its silly to waste energy ona nigga car?!!
Why we can't just agree to disagree!??! I mean I do think its stupid, my bad, I'm sure you think flirting with a man for 8 years to finally get the prize is dumb too, different folks for different strokes bitch damn!!!
To me I jsut can't allow myself to let a nigga know that I care that much, that is all I'm saying!!
Oh Anon, you're so late. We've talked about the adrenaline rush in all 131 comments before yours. Once you get caught up feel free to join us.
I say sometime your emotions really do cancel out your logic and you may be reduced to slashing a tire of two! It just really depends on what the mindset is at the time!
especially a nigga that DONT WANT ME!!!!
What are we truly fucking saying here!!
we know neva say neva but some of us have truly matured and have truly jsut ended up saying fuck this shit. Like I said I have beena witness to am angry ex, the targeted person laughed at them so bad, that it made me embarrassed for them.
He wa all out in the street yelling and screaming and all my friend was saying was,
"look at what my dick can do to a mufucka"
I was sooo irritated at the ex for allowing himself to be treated like a used dishrag that I vowed to never show that emotion to a nigga that didn't want me.
YOU ARE JUST PROVING THEM RIGHT!!!
Why he don't want me no more why why!
Welcome to the chat anonymous. I take it that you're new. Please select the NAME/URL field and creat a blogger name to be correctly identified. There was an anonymous who asked about a mouth rash liek 10 comments ago and we want to make sure we don't get you two confused. But if you don't mind that's fine with us. Enjoy!
Sometimes something in you just scnapps and you just lose it and you step outside of yourself and you see yourself doing it and you wanna stop you but you just can't!
Yeah I understand that, but that has only driven me to beat their ass not their cars ass..
Slapping the shit outta someone for saying something smart is nothing like pre-meditating to vandal someones car cus he don't want me....
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