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Friday, September 5, 2008
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Hey Prof,
I just recently met a guy who I really like. We have been seeing each other for about 2 months, nothing too serious, but dates here and there. I am an Aries woman, and he is a Leo male. Here's the kicker I just found out he was married, they are separated but he never told me in the two month time period we were dating and still hasn't. I found out from a friend of a friend.
How do you think I should handle this?
Hi, I need a little advice. I met this very handsome younger guy about a year ago - Very nice guy, very loyal (he's a cancer btw) not your average. We messed around for a couple of months, but nothing too serious for he was undecided about a relationship he was in, and I wasn't looking for anyone at the time. We kind of had separation for a couple of months because we both decided that we would try to live our lives the way we wanted such as being celibate and/or loyal to our partners but we kept in tact every now and then. I recently ran into him and we spent time together having lunch. Then he came over to my place but we didn't do anything even though we both wanted to. We thought staying on our "paths" was more important to succumbing to temptation. But later that night I texted him telling him what a good time we had and how much of a great guy he is. Our conversation drifted to the land of lust and it got really heated! Now I want to do what's right but I'm so attracted to him all over again and seeing him didn't make things better! He really wanted to come back to my place but I told him it was too soon (I really wanted him to though). Now I'm going through this back and forth battle on hooking up with him again or staying on my path of righteousness. Any advice you can lend would be greatly appreciated!
Hello Salty,
The best way to handle an affair of the heart is rationally and immediately. The more you think about it, the more you wwill be subject to react out of emotion rather than logic, Your line of questioning should be intellignet, not heart felt.
My advice, don't let your Aries fire take over the conversation. Otherwise his Leo fire will become defensive and you two will be arguing like there is no tomorrow.
Next time you two spend time together just ask him, in a round about way, "soooo hows is your wife have you two reconciled or will you be getting a divorce?" This will put him on the spot and he will immediately be forced to tell you the truth. If he tries to change the conversation by asing you how you found out. DO NOT FALL FOR IT!! Stick to you line of questions and remain in control of the conversation, if push comes to shove you can even play with his head a little and say "I know your wife" how he handles you alls relationship after that will let you know his plans for the future. If he decides to stop seeing you or if your rooutine changes after he suspects you know his wife, then chances are he wasn't going anywhere and you were just the chick on the side...
what is your sign tryingtoberight?
oh I'm a Taurus! sorry about that!
Taurus huh?
Well I can say this, you two both are slow dancers, you do nothing on a whim and you plan and preplan everything. You must first determine what kind of relationship you guys have. Is it strictly physical? Do you guys have an emotional connection? After dealing with that there is the issue of your consecutive partners. Never rush to take the place of someone who is being cheated on, even if you are the person who is being cheated with. One thing holds true, NO ONE stays anywhere they don't want to be. If he isn't leaving its because he doesn't want to.
I'm not sure if you are still with your original partner or not, but if you are, you have to take into consideration the laws of Karma, stealing happiness will only result in it being stolen from you. If you two are both "involved" then I say you fight the temptation with the same strength and fervor you did the first time. If you were strong enough then you are strong enough now. But if life has changed and you two are both single, then throw caution to the wind and step outside your taurean nature and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!! If you are waiting for the watery Cancer to strike first, you'll be retired and still single.
Us water signs have to KNOW there is a green light for us to proceed. Don't send mixed signals, and don't drop little hints and clues, water signs embody the element to its full exent, meaning we are peaceful until someone or something creates a ripple...
Hello Professor
Libra here. I used to date a Scorpio but we argued alot of the time. For some strange reason I find myself thinking of him ALL THE TIME. It's like when we were together I couldn't stand him alot of the time. Now, that we are apart, I cannot stand to be without him. What chance do I have at getting him back?
Dear Unbalanced,
The chances of getting a scorpio male back depends on 3 things, how much he loved you, how bad the "divorce" was and if he has someone new in his life.
Scorpio is a tricky zodiac to master. They NEVER want to be figured out and LIVE to confuse people. If you are thinking that you cannot talk to him, chances are he will be sweet as pie when you do. If you feel that it will be a piece of cake talking to him chances are he will give you the coldest, blankest stare as you shrink back under the rock he has placed you under.
Scorpio men never truly fall out of love, they do however grow tired of things. If in fact, he felt hurt because of the separation and he has someone new, he will smile, be gracious, and make you feel like you did when you first met, bring you to an all time high of happiness. you will remember the exact reason why you fell in live with him in the first place. Unfortunately he will be very subtle of course, and remind you that he has not changed and what you threw away for trash, another has found as treasure. If in fact he was at fault during your seperation. He will be friendly and compassionate but the meeting will be short and to the point.
My advice, although it is hard to deceive the Scorpio as they are natural born detectives, try to leave him anonymous notes, songs that display your feelings on his VM. he will be soo wrapped up in the mystery of it all, he will be too busy to form negative feelings about it. Then reveal yourself.
If this does not work, then your scorpion is no longer yours and you should move on. Once a Scorpio male has made it up in their mind that you are the enemy of their happiness, there is nothing you can say to sway them...
Who knew that John McCain had a black daughter?
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IF he is elected President he will have millions of black daughters to neglect like this one...
Hello Professor
long time reader, first time blogger.
I have had several loves that ended tragically. Now my heart feels nothing. I have several suitors but i push every one away.
I feel nothing, and now am hesitant to take a leap. Love is not fun and in life you look before you leap, or you don't leap at all because in life, there is now safety net. You might break a bone, or a heart. Should i leap?
Say it ain't so....Carrie Bradshaw is that you?
Well Maximum ride,
Every one goes through something for a particular reason. I tell everyone that I meet to first look inward to see if it something you may be doing to attract the unworthiness that your love has endured. In life, there are many many reasons as to why you are aligned with people. Some you are meant to enjoy for the moment, some you are meant to learn from, and some you are probably meant to avoid at all costs. You will never know how to avoid difficulty if you do not go through adversity.
The problem that most of us have is the fact that we do not learn from our past mistakes. If you have been in a relationship where the man was a cheat, although people can change, they rarely do, they just find new ways to mask their sin. I am not saying by any means that people are doomed to repeat the same hardships but you cannot change people you can only change you. If you are the type of person who likes quiet evenings at home, there is no sense in dating someone you have seen at the local hot spot for the past 3 weekends. If you are a person who does not like to be couped up in the house, when you notice that your partner is that type, take the necessary steps to ensure that if no compromise can be made, you will be fine with or without your mate.
Teh dating scene is one big learning experience, if you have had bad experiences one after another then it may be something you are exuding that attracts these experiences to you. It may not be a bad thing.
Take for instance a female friend that I have. She is intelligent, funny, very beautiful, and likes to spoil her mates. Then her mates become dependant on her spoiling them and the one time she needs to be comforted her mates don't know how to respond. Why? Because she has set a precedent of "I don't need nobody, I can do it all myself" People only do to you what you allow them to.
In the immortal words of Katt Williams, "if you are 30 years old and still are saying niggas aint shit, you need to find out what it is about yo pussy that keeps attracting aint shit niggas" These words, although harsh couldn't be more true.
Take me for instance, I LIKE TAKING CARE OF PEOPLE and then get mad when people don't know how to take care of themselves. How silly is that, but once I learned that about ME, I was better off...
Hope this helps
...and don't be moving to Napa (Milwaukee) to follow Big either. THE!!!
well said Professor, well said!!!! I don't have any problems just droppin by...
Hey Airforce, where's bp08?
she's out shopping for you a new handbag, rumor has it that the '04 Marshall Fields bag you sport is on its last limb...
Hello Ms. Hobbs!!! I dunno where the rest of the crew is today.
Have you followed the Republican convention?
That would be a Marshall Fields shopping bag and not one purchased from there...
Speaking of the Devil...LOL!
Yes it is I, Carrie Bradshaw.
Greetings from New York, my new
LUVVA.
Hello Carrie,
pay no attention to Bp08, she's just mad that her silicon implants have now dropped and she looks as if someone has slapped her upside the head with a bag of pausy...
Hey Miranda girl,
you know i'm used to the haters.
she says my face looks like a foot.
it must be that pausy.
and what's your excuse Miranda?
You've never had silicon, yet you still have the same look as I, except your breasts are where your knees should be...
That was Peter Griffin dear not I...
no
Have a good weekend!!!
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