This post was an idea submitted by an email buddy named BabyLuv, keep reading, things get interesting at times...
As time moves forward we are witness to all different types of parenting styles. Some are good, some are bad, and some leave you wondering and placing bets as to when a Parole Officer will be calling for the offspring. Many people feel that the authorative or dictatorship method of raising kids is not the best. They do not believe that "sparing the rod will spoil the child" and would more likely be faced with giving their children a "time out" instead of knocking them upside the head. Are the children of parents that aren't afraid to use said rod, more likely to grow up to be succesful functioning parts of society, or will they grow up with a rebellious nature and do everything they possibly can to get back at their mom or dad for that spanking?
Are we really raising our kids today or are we their older and wiser best friends who can merely suggest a better way of life rather than enforce it?
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
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I got the hell beat out of me and I plan on beating the hell out of my kids it made respectful!
sorry it made me respectful!
LMAO!!! ANON I know that's real, my mom didn't beat me, but if I acted up i was dealt with, not only did it make me respectful but I feared her beating my ass much more than any gang intimidation or peer pressure in the streets.
Half of the things that I said "no" to doing weren't because I felt I would get taken to jail, please I would have rather been in jail then deal with Catherine (mom) God rest...
That's the problem with the children today they have no fear of anyone or anything because their parents have not instilled that same fear you had of your mom in them.
not only that but my momma wasn't 10 years older than me!!!
These kids these days are popping babies out at 9, 10 years old they don't have discipline themselves themselves so how are they gonna discipline anyone!!
That's very true!
Well I for one am not a fan of the "do as I say and not as I do" speech. I am not saying that you have to hide things from your kids but in hindsight you really do. When you are having intercourse with your husband/wife/mate whatever, you aren't doing it in front of your kids, some things should be left to discretion. LEAD BY EXAMPLE, if you don't want your kids to smoke weed and you DO then they should never see you doing it. if that doesn't work, then wait until they are of age, and smoke with them!! I know that sounds harsh but kids are gonna find a way to indulge in their curiosities, so if you allow them to do it with YOU, then at least you know that they are safe at home. Just keep them grades up or I will put my foot in your ass!!
Great Miranda, getting your kids hihg, whats next doing threesomes with them?
Lmmfao!
You are your child's parent not best friend! You need to rule with an iron fist not a helping hand! Think about the old days (before for my time)back when if you acted up not only could your parents beat you but so could your neighbor teacher or who ever you acted up in front of think about how well mannered and rounded those adults are now! I don't think you have to beat your kids unconscious but a slap or too here and there will work wonders I know it did for me! Parents who don't discipline their children are out!
agreed Heidi it worked for me....
Its like that commercial. "if they act up we take away their minutes on their plan, if they do well we add minutes"
Are you f*cking kidding me!! You are still paying fo rthe phone dumbasses!!! People have forgotten about what a punishment was!! When I was little if I acted out, there was no TV, no radio, no video games NOTHING! Just me in my room looking at the walls.
Now a days folks get their minutes decreased on a cell phone that they are not even paying for...
I know right that commercial pissed me off too!
You know a wise old woman told me if your children don't say I hate you at least twice a week then you are doing something wrong!
Heidi that woman is a genius. The phrase should be "if your kids don't THINK they hate you at least once a week then you're doing something wrong" cus the first time a child of mine utters those words he will be toothless...
lol
Lmmfao!!!! Nothing got the hell slapped out of me faster than "I hate you" lol
I think I'm going to have a baby just so I can beat'em for all the bad kids I can't whup!
No seriously I will discipline my children with in reason I don't want them growing up to be sociopaths! I want to use a mixture of physical and mental punishment because sometimes after you beat a kid 50-11 times it doesn't affect them anymore so you have to hit them were it hurts no tv cell phone friends computer no new gym shoes no new clothes no allowance no outside! That's what hurt me most when it was a hot summer day and I couldn't move off the porch!
lmao @ sunshine!!!
But what about these talk shows that have thse parents that are afraid of their kids...
I remember one time I was watching one with my mom and she looked at me and said "If I ever have to feel like I'm afraid of you, I'll bury you and make another one.."
I knew then that she meant business...
I was just watching Maury the other day and they had kids who were determined to ahve babies and they were like 13 and 14 year old girls...
Are you serious? My daughter would have a permanent hand print on her face and ass and she would be tormented by kids everywhere as "the girl with the hand print on her face..."
Doesn't that sound like a Lifetime Movie?
you lucky sunshine I never even saw the damn porch in my days of punishment!!
But I reiterate our parents weren't 6 and 7 years older than us, like the young gutter snipes of today...
Lmmfao not make a new one! In the words of Bill Cosby "I brought you in this world and I'll take you out" I wish I would ever be afraid of my child Ha! When I get finish round house sweep the floor wax on wax offing that kid they are gonna be afraid of their own shadow!
Yes Miranda it does sound like a Lifetime movie!!!
In my best deep dramatic voice ever
"Lifetime presents... The girl with the handprinted face"
LMAO!!!
But there is no way a stranger's child will disrespect me, much less my own. I don't take disrespect from adults so what makes you think I'm gon take it from a child?
C'mon sunshine,
I will take up kickboxing and be like Phoebe from "Charmed" all over that ass before I fear my own seed. And youa in payin no bills either..
Baby Bye!!
That's right in the words of mama from baby boy "You walk around here like you King tut you don't pay no bills all you do is eat sleep and shit and trying to run thangs"
You know when I was a child, I thought things were unfair and I bitched and complained but I never tried to run my househould and I never thought i had any right to..
The problem is, parents need to start young!! They cannot wait until the child is going to school to try to discipline they ass, last night on Sex and the City, I had a revelation
"The witch from Hansel and Gretel was severely misunderstood, she builds her dream house and then here come these brats trying to eat it up and destroy it.."
LOL honestly I love kids, its these retarded ass parents who don't want to raise their own that kill me, but they is quick as hell trying to tell you how to raise yours...
Well my mom never hit me I was given time outs and it worked I'm not a sociopath! I happen to think depending on the child whippings may not be required all my mom had to do was tell me she was very disappointed in me and give me this look that I couldn't bear to see her make and that was punishment enough! But I am very aware that children today are very different so I'll have to see when I have a child but physical punishment will be a last resort for me.
Well Char your parents were very lucky because these kids today could careless about disappointing their parents or anyone else. I think the punishment should match the degree of the crime! If you got all F's in school I don't think a time out is suitable for something like that I think some ass kicking is entitled!
It's not the kids it's the parenting. Beating / whippings are acts of violence. That's why leading by example is soooo important. You want your kids to look up to you not fear you. My grandmother has never put her hands on me and my siblings. Not saying that I never did anything wrong but I couldn't imagine her being ashamed of me. Therefore I tried harder to do everything right.
WELL genetics play a big part as well, you tow have genuinely good hearts and souls, there fore you will care about your moms looks, these kids nowadays need they ass whooped!!
I concur H20 these kids 2day don't care about themselves let alone anybody else!
Think about it. The kids are stressed out. They are in an environment where they are growing up too fast not understanding how to be a kid with no responsibilities and getting beat in the home and dealing with other kids they are frustrated and getting beat as well. You would be bad too. All you know is stress and ass kickings.
Why does the 6 year old whore in the video even know how to do that? GROWING UP TOO FAST. She knows how to pussy pop and get her ass whooped opposed to knowing her primary colors and the taste of cotton candy.
" I didn't want to dissappoint my mom"
Ahhh good times...
Bottom line kids and dogs need structure and discipline without it the will most definitely go a stray!
girl aint nobody caring about the kids being stressed out!!! Try losing a house to mortgage lapse, lights out, try taking care of those stressed out kids on one salary and still trying to find the energy to keep moving everyday!! Kids stressed out, all they little bad asses have to do is GO TO SCHOOL!! They won't even do that, and then people want to complain about Oprah building a school in Africa and not here!! There are shcools here and kids don't go!! Stressed out huh, miss me with that...
Please, chile, you knew how to pop yo pussy too but the fact that you knew your mom would beat yo ass stopped you from that. "growing up too fast" aer you kidding me, these kids have to grow up fast because their parents are fucking children themselves!
You gon be one of them parents on Maury thinkin yo child too stressed to get popped in the mouth...
Beating a child isn't the only way to discipline them. Spend time with your kids. Shit people get rebellious when they get tired of being hit on.
Activities people!!!!! Get your kids involved in extra curricular activities so they wont have to sit around and be BAD.
I agree that girl poppin her pussy would KNOW not to pull that shit again if it were my child, the main reason why kids are growing up too fast is because the parents allow them to.
You make a kid be akid, give him boundaries and guidelines there fore he doesn't feel that he is grown, because one of these days he is gonna forget the you are the parent, and tell you to kiss his ass, then what are you gonna do
"okay lil ray ray, put down that 45 mm, or mommy is gonna put you in a time out!!"
WHOMP THEY ENTIRE ASSES
so then your child will take his bad ass to activities and fuck with other children whose mom have slapped the shit outta them and they KNOW better than to act up in public..
Then the director of the activities is on the phone telling you your child has gon berserk and you sitting there talking bout "not my Shaniqua, that bitch lying on my baby"
Okay girl, you just wait....
and Miranda yo kids gon be blowed as hell with you so they won't amount to anything anyway....
What good is activities if your child doesn't know how to behave at home so send him to karate class so he can cuss the sin say out and embarrass you! Uhm NO thanx that ass is gonna get spanked if you act up and if that don't work then I will become the repo man on that ass and also sentence you to solitary confinement!
No Boo I actually didn't know how to pussy pop back then. The most sexy dancing I knew was the twirl done by the girls in the spandex dresses coming down the soul train line.
YOU are stressed out about the mortgage and late bills. It's not the kids fault so don't take out your frustrations in them because you're trying to make ends meet. They should be doing something other than being on the receiving end of your attitude on the 1st of the month.
i'm not saying beat them senseless but they have to know that there are consequences to their actions, if they do something bad, their extra curricular activities won't teach them that its wrong.
After school specials and activities don't raise kids, parents do....
arm charm doesn't have any kids..
Uh Negative arm charm my statements weren't saying that I would be taking my stress out on them, my statements were just describing real reasons to be stressed. Since we were comparing how you wre brought up to how you'd raise your kids what was stressful about taking yo ass to school? Nothing...
First of the month attitude who the hell you talking bout?
Ill be cheering you on from the audience of Maury Povich...
If you beat them right the first time, they will remember the beating and will think about it before they do it again, and you may not have to beat them any more. It all boils down to fear, kids should be afraid. My mother had me terrified. She told me i was gone go to bad boys home, and they was gone do me in the booty (which in hindsight i don't know why it bothered me) anyhoo, I was afraid. i'd rather you call the police before calling mom. If you beat them right, when they come too, they won't remember much.
So sunshine it's okay for yot to cuss and sin but when they do it beat they ass. But they are acting like you....right? Okay! Liek I said it's the parenting. WHy is your child exposed to that shit? Growing up to fast.
Miranda I agree with guidelines and boundaries and also making kids respect all adults. Therefore Bitchplease the instructor wont have to call me and if they do Shaniqua will have lots of her privileges revoked.
First of all you are not the only person that has influence on your children! No matter how perfect a person you maybe kids learn other things from other people so no matter how I act in front of my kids if the kids at school that only go to activities and never get they ass whooped acting up then my child may pick some of that stuff right up and bring it home!
And ANON You don't have a name. Try to find yourself one before I do.
So your leading by example will only go so far because at some point peers can over ride your influence on your children no matter how well you bring them up!
Oh no not the revokement of privledges, she's sure to act right now...
lemme call Maury...
just call me the lady with experience on raising kids...
you can't be with your kids all the time....
so will the child be MORE afraid of her cell phone being snatched or her ass..
I'll take ass snatching for $200 Alex
Anon if you go under the comment box and hit name/url you can be whomever you like, just makes the conversation run more smoothly...
I can lemme tell you how. There is a Name/URL field right above ANONYMOUS that you can type "Lady WIth Experience on Raising Kids". We would all appreciate knowing who we're talking to.
are you guys happy now...
Lmmfao @ bp08! Don't tell her nothing she'll be calling Maury sooner than later!
Delighted...Welcome Mother of two.
YEP!
ecstatic...
My first child Arm Charm, I was 22 years old when he was born. I was new mother and was determined to read every child rearing book out there. I did the playing music to him in the womb. I breast fed, and I tried raising him without slapping him cross the butt. I didn't want to raise him like I was raised.
He is 16 now and is bad as hell, he stays with his father and his father doesn't have half the issues that I had with him. Cus he whoops his ass!! I used to give him time outs, take away things and give them back for job well dones. After a while he started not to even care, I overheard him speaking to one of his friends one time and he said
"sure I can go, I'll sneak out my mom aint gon do nothing but prolly take away my computer or something.."
I was furious, he started doing bad in school and he even had a part time job, that he quit to further his drug money sales, this I didn't find out until 3 weeks after he had quit. He always had his own money and there wasn't ever a need to check on him so I never knew.
Then my second child was born and I remember the hell i went through with my first so I put the belt to his ass early. He is a B average kid, 10 years old and is very helpful around the house. He is my little man.
I'm not telling you anything I don't know from experience which is the best teacher right?
I hear you MO2. You sound like you provide the love and support that a child needs and I understand that they may fall off. Close friends of mine that have kids just seem to be always beating them. It's like God damn I know they resent you. WHo wouldn't if they were raised as if they were some kind of slave. That's the end that I see and I thought that was the way to go only because my mom went bananas on me for who knows what.
One of my friends has three kids and I've never seen her put her hands on them and I know they are all going to be very successful. I don't know what her magic is but I hope to have obedient kids like her one day.
Well I know me better than anyone else does, if I felt like I had no discipline I probably would have felt like I was grown and in a sense would have grown up too fast...
In a way I'm glad my mom beat my ass, I feared her more than any outside influences. I was more afraid of getting my ass whooped by her than kids teasing me on the street cus I had to be in earlier than most. I could always kick their ass, but wasn't no fighting my mom...
SHE BEATS THEM IN PRIVATE ARMCHARM...
thats all
my cousin has VERY obedient kids. Smart ass hell too, but its genetic, see some kids you don't HAVE to beat, some kids have it already woven into their genetic fiber to do great things.
(like our family..lol)
Those kids can be talked to and reasoned with, you have to KNOW your child to raise him. If you know his daddy wasn't shit, then the first sign of him trying to go that route, you put yo knee in his back!! But if you knwo that you and the father are decent upstanding citizens then the child rearing should be different.
Arm Charm, just talking shit.
Cause when she drop my little niece or nephew which will be here children, they gone have some well whooped asses.
Y'all better pray that I get some kids that are cut from the right cloth cause I will fuck a kid up.
Aint no way a 4 year old is going to terrorize me.
I already don't like kids and can't tolerate other peoples children too well for not knowing how to stay in a child's place....always begging and shit.
I've watched that show The British Nanny and a kid was scratching and biting his mom. Do you know I would've bust Bobby's head to the white meat.
Again I will fuck a kid up.
There is a four year old over me; white dad black mom who is from suburbia. Anyway this little motherfucker throws tantrums all fucking day. One day I am going to walk upstairs and beat the shit out of him. I just really don't like other peoples kids. Sorry! They cry too much.
Yeah my niece tried to cut up on me......Once
Carrie I do like D-D
we know Carrie we know....
I like Miss D-D too,
but she keep acting like she don't hear me when i'm talking to her, there will be reprecussions.
All I ask is that you try time outs first before physical punishment.
chile any child I baby sit gon act right, there have been times when other peoples kids responded faster to me than them!! Kids know who to pull it on and who not to..
Trust!
I'm with you, headlocks, suplexes, drop kicks whatever it takes!!!
No face shots though, the laws are so strict these days you can't even whopp your child without explaining it to the courts!!
the only time out I gonna try Charlotte is the "time" she knocked "out" for running that mouth!!
or she got one "time" and she's knocked "out"
Well they will be left at court. I refuse to Jordan up and Playstation 5 a kid that I can't discipline at will. He gots to get the fuck out.
I know a girl who dropped her 9 year old off at the fire department two weeks ago because she couldn't get her multiplication. This shit is serious out here. Aint nobody finna play with these damn kids.
You kid is only going to let you hit them for so long. You'll be sorry.
Time out my ass. A time out give them too much time to think about future behavior. The Columbine kids got time outs, you see how that works out. All they gone have time to think about is the pain stinging from they ass.
What the hell they gone do to me. The day they try jump at me, is the day they better know they soul belongs to Jesus cause they ass belongs to me.
Oh come on guys you know time out can give children time to think about their foolhardy behavior!
Columbine and their time outs resulted in two kids doing something drastic. Where beatdowns to Jabulani result in a overcrowded jail cell and continuous murders and robberies at alarming rates.
Time out / Beatdowns
You can either let me beat they ass, to ward off future behavior, or you can let the police beat they ass when they arrest them for some shit i didn't put a stop to.
maybe your kid will only let you hit him for so long, but my grandmother (god rest) could still slap the shit outta my mom and aunts etc...
I don't know what type of chucky you planning on bringing into the world, but me and my sisters could exorcise that demon right up outta you if need be...
That's why I say wash on wash off until they understand who's really the boss Daniel son!
Remember carrie you're dealing with kids who have been beat for so long and they are young and swift. All that tough adult talk wont fly when he is bigger and stronger and tired of you.
I got beatdowns, and now i'm an upstanding member of society.
Shut up Arm, and bitch please
kid don't know the difference between right and wrong,
they
are
kids
why don't you leave your rent and gas bill up to them too since you got so much faith in their ability to think about foolhearty behavior
you'll be in the dark, then homeless with some bad ass kids to boot...
See you on Maury too Charlotte...
Beat downs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kids need to get slapped punched kicked w/belts shoes switches and extension cords if need be cuz that's what I got and worked oooooooooooo soooooooo well!
I got a whooping daily, and as long as my mom was paying the bills, wasn't shit i could do about it. Yeah i hope they get tired of gettin an asswoopin, that means they gone start actin right, that's the only alternative.
Ill send my thoughts of your comments telepathically through the matrix Carrie...
If they get tired of me telling them what to do, then they need to log on to lendingtree.com find them a mortgage and get to steppin...
But they won't be able to do it at armcharms house cus she takes her kids computer away when they tell her off in public...lol
Who was the adult that video taped the baby as she popped locked and dropped it? He needs his ass whooped for allowing it. I would've tore ass up right then. My neighbors little daughter was doing a similar dance. I told her father whom I don't know that if I ever see it again Im gonna tear her ass up.
Carrie do you know Mr Medium, I won't call him Mr Big, emailed me asking about the contents of what his aunt sent up here. I told him
"well I fried up yo eggs boo, but you still got some lunchmeat in there!"
His refrigerator has just arrived...
say that AF1 prolly some child porno producer.. nasty bitch!
Arm charm if taht was your daughter what would you have done after all the parents in the room have watched her try to conceive on the dance floor..
wait lemme guess, when she gets home you're gonna remove every barbie she has?
Dont get it twisted like I'm some white lady who is going to repeat myself and count to 10 and say' "no computer tonight Timmy" No! We will have a good understanding that will come across firm.
its been a while since my last logon!!
Hey AF1, HEEEEYYYY Bp08, Hey Miranda!!
Children acting up..hmmmmmm beating their ass or giving them a time out..
If a child is smart enough to get tired of me whooping their ass then how tired and how effective is a time out gonna be?
I say smash the little fuckers where they fuck up at. An ass kicking on today often prevents a jail sentence in 10 years...
yo kids gon beat yo ass armcharm...
Im am going to find out who she learned it from and proceed to talk to their parents. My child will have innocence that will not be stripped away from her by a pussy popping play mate. Then my child wont be able to associate with that kid again.
You want me to beat her because an idiot has taught her something bad. NO, kids pick up shit like that. So that's why you must monitor who they hang around. Lemme guess yours will be dead right? all without understanding what was so wrong about what she did.
HEY SUN MOON SET!!!!
I don't take no ass whoopins here. Sorry!
Whaddup!!!
well if he/she dead there will be no need to understand anything right...
good luck on that, she could have learned the drop it like its hot crap from TV, then lemme guess you're gonna wirte your local TV stations and say what?
They are gonna tell you, YOU parent your child and you won't have those problems..
Disney channel Bitchplease. Why in the hell would a kid sit and enjoy the same music and tv that I do. They've invented blocks to prevent kids from accessing certain programs.
Aint no way in the hell my little girl will sing Lil Wayne go ahead and let me make it juicy for you. She may not know what she's saying but I do. My Parenting will prevent her from shit like that. If your daughter knows the lyrics to pussy popping on a handstand by Luda then I dont want her around my kids.
Hello SMS..
Arm Charm is soft, her kids gon run all over her, you better have just one that way it will at least be a fair fight when she starts feeling froggy..
"Im am going to find out who she learned it from and proceed to talk to their parents."
Girl the child in the video was like 6 years old, she aint gonna even remember where she learned it from and if she gives you a name and you charge up their parents, them mothers gon look at you like "bitch get back" It's not the responsibility of other parents to help raise yours, Your kid should know that just because lil Sha-Sha pops her pussy doesn't mean that you can, with that mode of thinking you'll be holding PTA meetings through the entire upbringing of your child, instead of raising them yourself!! I wish you would come up to me and tell me LIL bitchplease was popping her pussy and she taught armcharm jr how to do it, so now you want me to reprimand my child for teaching your child how to sell herself?
Crack is whack, its cheap Whitney, you make too much money to be smoking crack....
so there...
LMAO @ Disney Channel, have you learned nothing from todays chat?
you just don't know how many things your child will enjoy that you don't know about Armcharm
you remember how many things you got yourself into that your parents knew nothing about?
I'm gonna need you to wait at least 3 more years before you start to repopulate the world, you are gonna bring a dangerous generation to life..
Bitch Please....First of all if you're a parent who is concerned about what your kid does when she's not in your presence then don't put a flyer on my door asking "Have you seen me" when she's held in confinement by the neighborhood molester.
Kids don;t automatically know that gyrating isn't for them. They must be told that it's bad and only for fast girls like liek tiny BP who will be rated #1 head nurse by dough boy publications before she's in highschool.
It takes a community to raise a kid. But if you look at it different I will walk right by your kid taking candy from perverted mr. Jones since you approve of her juvee solicitation.
Tell Mr. Medium, i'll get him some eggs, Friday honey. He betta shut the fuck up, he should've saved the money he was buying narcotics if he was worried about eating.
I would rather my kid be influenced by Disney instead of Yo' MTV Raps. It's too often that kids get influenced by these rap videos and try to be America's Next top Baller.
Don't knock me for trying. And for all of y'all information I have put in a great deal of work with 3 teenaged God daughters 18,17 and 15 whom I've never had to hit and are faced with hood influences everyday. Realistically you can't protect your kid from everything but guidelines and a positive influences in their lives do tend to keep them on track if their mind is at least in the right place.
I'm a mother of 2 also, and I didn't have to beat mine in the beginning, but when they start picking up other behavior, be it in the street, or from other relatives, then its time to put it down. And please believe, I spent quality time with mine. Sometimes we have to be careful who we have children by as well. They may not be so fortunate to get that good gene.
When my son became a lil' older and felt he was gonna talk back because he was taller than me, I kicked him in his back and punch his azz in the throat. Try me again if you want to!
There is a level of respect and it will be maintained in my house I don't care how tall or old you get. You wanna be grown, grown get their own--now that he's 21, he's outta my crib.
Now on the other hand with my daughter, all I had to do was raise my voice and she'd cry. She can walk around and have all types of hormonal effects she want to, but if she get outta hand, I'm punching her azz in the throat too!
C'mon pooh's girl! that's what I'm talking about wax on wax off!
Hey Pooh's Girl. Glad you could join us in the a.m.
i tell you its Fear, my mom was a single parent, and when she said don't cut on the T.V. you bet not cause if it was warm when she got home. She couldn't spend as much time with us, but when we got out of school, we better had took our asses to the library, and been there when she picked us up. People complaining about the education, Mayor Daley building all these dam state of the art libraries, and parents won't make'em go to it. Parents let too much shit pass, and don't put enough expectations of excellence on their kids.
That's all I'm saying PG. Try talking with the kids first. But when they get older and out of hand or dare try to raise up at you then knock them down. Just beating a kid who has been taught a trick by an adolescent whore doesn't warrant the WWF smackdown. They have to understand what the problem is.
Its chicks like you that inspired me to come up with my screen name. See it, KNOW IT, understand it.. Bitch please!!
You won't be able to do anything you have PTA meetings to hold and time outs to govern. You won't have time to worry about how well mannered lil bitchplease is because you will be too busy wondering where armcharm jr has snuck off too, cus all she has to worry about is you taking away her cell phone.
But her pimp boyfriend will buy her another one so she won't need the one you confiscated.
My child won't be speaking to strangers because again she knows her mother will get in that ass. As for armcharm jr, when you guys leave Maury, Jerry Springer will await and you can tell your testimony to the half/half man that be running around the set....
It doesn't take a community to raise a child, it takes a no nonsense momma with the patience of jobe and the wrath of God. You keep waiting on the community to help you raise yours and you'll be just like Mother of 2 sending them off to their daddy cus you waited till she was damn near grown to put your foot down..
Good luck you're in all of our prayers..
start buying cocoa butter now as I'm sure you will be too ashamed to let everyone know that the black eyes and busted lips came from your daughter who has now told you "bitch you aint never tried to discipline me before so don't try that shit now, i'm grown..."
girl lemme call Maury...
You all can catch my upcoming You Tube documentary.
Kids-The New Menance to Society.
girl that aint what you said earlier armcharm...
skitzo!!
Ms Bradshw if you buy Mr Medium so eggs Ima say a spell and hatch them mugs...
don't he owe you some eggs anyway, trust me he is fine...
we'll talk about this offline...
You know it'll be just regular eggs, not the Cage Free like Arm and I eat. You still buying them Cage Free eggs girl
BP you already said that no one will come and tell you about what your kid is doing when she has taught others how to sell themselves. Good to see your "Not My Shanika" approach which has our class rooms lurkign with nuisances.
I'm sure it's exciting for you and Lil BP to be tied for 1st place in the back that ass up contest.
Only you can prevent forest fires.
finding the hatching spell....
Well Psycho I'm not going to beat the hell out of my babygirl when she's three but she damn sure wont try me at 16. I've never been a punk.
That was me y'all!
You know anon sometimes 3yr olds need a lil wax on wax off too now!
the only forest fire present will be the one armcharm jr has in her panties from her boyfriend a pimp named slickback...
I really don't see how me beating my childs ass after I have told them the rules translates into her being a whore and me as well..
I don told you you make too much money to be smoking crack...
Thas why yo daughter lil Bobbie Kristina is letting yo ass have it now, too many timeouts and not enough knock outs....
Armcharm..
shhhhhhh!!!!!!!
Excuse me Anglea Bassett-Hound...Not SHHHHH!!!!! from the person who dropped Tre off at his fathers house in Boyz n the Hood. Don't do me do your child rearing.
I don't think I ever had a "not my Shanika" attitude, read with comprehension...
The example given was to further the ironic possibility of you wanting me to reprimand my child for teaching yours to sell her coochie for nickles on clark st.
Its funny how parents want you to beat your child down for teaching them something but don't want to teach and enstill in their child the joys of being a leader and not doing everything you see..
That's what I was saying. So woudll you suggest me take my daughters cell phone away for teaching your child how to lick it like a lollipop, NOPE, you'd wan tme to handle my functions because if I gave her a time out, you'd be sitting your ass there talking bout
"this ghetto bitch don't even care about her kids"
Just start buying the neosporin for armcharm jr's knees and the antibiotics for that forest fire...
LMAFAO!!!!! @ ARMCHARM!!!
well Tre did go to college after that. But he won't end up with Dashiki aka lil arm charm from don't be a menace while drinking juice in the hood....
The mother daughter pole swallowing competition will take place in next years "HO-Lympics". Im sure you and BP will be the reigning champs.
Finally a new winner armcharm Jr has been holding down the title for the past 5 years...
Kudos...
Whitney, why I gotta be a hoe cus I want to spank my child? LMAO!!!
You should know LIL BP was her coach.
well lil Miranda and I won't be in that contest..
good luck Bp08jr and Sr on winning...
If I'm WHitney you're Natalie. Heard you relapsed.
Miranda you smoke dope WITH your kids, so this conversation is null and void to you anyways.
Neither armcharm nor I would advocate that!!
Why don't you pop on over the tomorrow's blog "up with hope down with dope"
Crackhead...
as will you Whitney, that night I spent at yo house ministering to you, I happen to backslide, you be having the good shit!!
It be calling me!!!
At least my man wasn't whoppin my ass on top of the crack...
Right cause you dont got one.
now neither do you...
you just worry about that alimony you finna pay, even in divorce Bobby still getting yo money...
I know I'm late but I had to comment being a mother. I have a very intelligent obedient, compassionate little boy. Now the first 3yrs, I thought I was going to die because motherhood was new and I felt like my life was over. But I dedicated and sacrificed a lot for the first 4 years - I thought I was going to jump over a bridge, LOL! But I can honestly say it is paying off cause he is wonderful! I think BP08 mentioned something that stood out with me: Genetics, and decent upstanding parents play a huge role! My son has both characteristics from me and his father. As a child I was quiet, reserved and easy going. His father was patient giving and very outgoing. So he has both of us in him. Just today an older lady told me he was very well mannered and that he must be very intelligent. I proudly said "He is!" Now I'm not against "sparing the rod". My son has had 4 spankings on the bottom - and very good ones I may add in his 7 year old lifetime. But for the most part, he does what he is supposed to do, he doesn't whine, through tantrums nor talk back. He was good from the womb. He never cried as a baby because when I was pregnant I made sure I was not under any stress whatsoever. Now it's not over we still have 12 more years to go to see what type of man he becomes. But you have to take claim and blame for your children. I believe it does take a village to raise healthy well rounded children - a positive village. My son has uncles, and wonderful Godparents in his life as well that reinforce positive behavior, yet never hesitates to remind him that they will hang him by his ankles if he gets out of line with me! Now they are not there constantly just as I won't be to remind him of every thing he does wrong - or right for that matter. But he has and is assured of dedicated people in his life that love him dearly. I think parents and those who your kids are exposed to regularly are going to be the most influential examples in your child's life. Your child's first anything comes from home (in some cases and circumstances they may not). But whatever the case is, as long as a child is reared from a healthy mother, that child has an opportunity to be brought up by someone that can direct his or her life.
Oh and that video of that 6 year old dancing like she was one of Beenie Man's back-up dancers, wheeew! Every body there needs their butts kicked! That vid just made me angry!
that is what I am talking abour Firefly, you DID put the strap to dat ass when it was needed right!!!!
Oh no doubt BP, a child does need to know boundaries. I feel there is nothing wrong with spanking. I refuse to spare the rod! (When he gets older cause he will be bigger than me, his father and uncles can do the knocking out, LOL)
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