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Friday, August 29, 2008

Astrologically Speaking

TGIF!!!!

Professor Grey is back to heal the world through the magical science called Astrology. Have a relationship issue, a co-worker or boss got you down, best friend getting on your nerves? Let me help!!

Astrology is the scientific code to the human personality. There is no issue that cannot be resolved by the Zodiac Guru. Skeptical? Try it for yourself. What have you got to lose besides maybe the issue you came here with? Don't forget to click the title link....

His-Story Has Been Made


In case you missed last nights historic moment. (Click on title)

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Think About it Thursday "The Open Door Policy"

Firefly and H2O Collab

In a recent article/interview done on Will Smith he explained his views on marriage. During this interview he revealed the secret to the success of his marriage to Jada, is the fact that "he gets busy with whomever he likes as soon as he tells his wife about it first." He also explained that their perspective is "you don't avoid what is natural and you are going to be attracted to people. If it came down to it, then one would say to the other, 'Look I need to have sex with somebody, now I'm not going to if you don't approve if it'." Smith seems to think that his marriage would survive a permitted affair because of his and wife Jada's honesty. In addition, the Smith's traded in traditional wedding vows which state "forsaking all others" and replaced them with "you will never hear I did something afterwards, because if that happens the relationship is destroyed."
Can true love allow you to share your body with another willingly? Then what of the term "Holy Matrimony?" Is this term leaving our already failing society? More and more husband and wife teams have been exploring the possibility of open marriages, however, my question is, what is the point of getting married? Why not just "shack" for the rest of your lives? Is their (The Smith's) marriage for business purposes only or have they been listening to Digital Undergrounds Freaks of the Industry just a bit too much. What are your thoughts?

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Nature vs Nurture

This is an Air Force and H2O Collab!!

You are a woman on your way home from bible study filled with the spirit and exuding the light of Him all through you. You get closer and closer to your car, and you feel a strike across your head. You fall to the ground and see a masked man on top of you. He strikes you in the face and puts his hand over your mouth telling you "bitch if you scream I'm gonna kill you right here!" Your silence is only drowned out by your fear, and as you lay there helpless on the ground, you think to yourself "why me?" as you feel your skirt being ripped from your body. He enters you, over and over he thrusts his manhood inside of you until he is done. He then jumps up, zips up and then he's up, off into the night!! You struggle to regain your composure, and you go home, tired, confused, and very, very disrespected. You go to the doctor the next day to make sure everything is okay and you find out that you are pregnant!! What choices do you have when you religion teaches you that abortion is a sin? Do you have the baby and be reminded of the rape everytime you look into the child's eyes or do you go against all you have learned religiously for the sake of your own personal sanity? Men if this was your wife what would you suggest she do?Men would you allow your wife to bare the baby of a creep to satisfy your religious beliefs? Keep in mind you BOTH share the same religious beliefs, even if you don't you love her enough to respect hers. What do you do?

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Talk Chit Tuesday

One of our authors (Firefly) is feeling a bit under the weather so we want to wish her well!

Ask a black woman about love and she can tell you all the things she wants in a "black" man. Yet many of black women find themselves without one. Some wait around till their hair turns gray, while others—often with heavy hearts—look for love beyond the color line. Those "others" are not so quick to bash the brothers for stepping over the color line once their options have been explored. Are the days of "sticking to your own" gone? With interracial dating on the rise it appears that there is no color lines to cross, just the color of love to test. If you are single and had thoughts of dating outside your race, what would be your reasons?

Monday, August 25, 2008

Mayhem Monday

Let’s see who can top my weekend from hell…

My buddy (and I use that term loosely), who is known for driving the hottest cars while donning Gucci bags and Tory Burch shoes let me drive her Porsche. Well I’ll be God Damned if Chi-Town’s Stoopedest (police) didn’t stop me while driving through Englewood (high crime area in Chi-Town). When the “routine traffic stop” was over I’d earned myself 7 tix ranging from no insurance to expired registration…you name it I got it….Why in the hell is Miss Glamorous Life in default? As far as the Po-po’s are concerned, someone is shot in Englewood every 3 minutes but they decided to fuck with me opposed to fighting crime. The screwed up part of this is all the tix are in my name and I have to appear in court for a car that ain’t even mine. People kill me with these caviar dreams on a Mc Donald’s budget. It’s Monday and I gotta whole lotta tension in my slap a bitch hand. When is the last time you felt like slapping the shit out of somebody?

Friday, August 22, 2008

Astrologically Speaking

TGIF!!!!

Professor Grey is back to heal the world through the magical science called Astrology. Have a relationship issue, a co-worker or boss got you down, best friend getting on your nerves? Let me help!!

Astrology is the scientific code to the human personality. There is no issue that cannot be resolved by the Zodiac Guru. Skeptical? Try it for yourself. What have you got to lose besides maybe the issue you came here with? Don't forget to click the title link....

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Secret Lovers

Posted on Behalf of Firefly...

Some folks believe in the adage that "what you don't know, won't/can't
hurt you". But what if you found out that your partner/loved one was
secretly sleeping and seeing someone behind your back? Even more
surprisingly it was someone of the same sex! In hollywood this is not
a trend or phase, it's a way of life. But what about us common folks
who just want a honest faithful relationship with the one we love?
Some have come to terms with just "getting over it". Take Kesha
Washington* for example. She caught her husband of 14 years with his
best friend in their home-where there children live. She was
devastated she said of course and her first thought was divorce - but
couldn't come to terms with leaving all that they had built together -
both successful careers (she a Psychologist and he a Orthodontist),
three beautiful smart children and a beautiful home in a nice
neighborhood. Would you be forgiving to accept a person who crept
behind your back for another of the same sex to hold on to your
family? *name have been changed for privacy purposes. Dont forget to click the title link?!!!

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Royal Ass Whoopin'

It's so true what the you can take a person out of the hood but you can't take the hood out of a person. Princess Lisa Raye took her ass to Turks and Caicos and represented Chi-Town style on her husband, Michael Misick after she found out Rocsi (106 & Park) stayed with him in their mansion for a weekend while she was working in New York. The royal couple were both hospitalized after the fight which Lisa Raye sustained bite marks and bruises. Not only that Prince un-Charming is being accused of raping an American celebrity in T&C that Lisa had introduced him to and his assets are currently frozen while the island investigates an estimated 57 million dollars that is missing from the government. Damn Lisa, what have you got yourself into this time?

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Tuesday, August 19, 2008

The Good Life

Have you ever wondered if you are living on the wrong side of the good life? You get up, get ready for work and on your way to work you see your average "hoodies!" The niggas in the hood, with the sounds, big cars, riding spinnahs and all that. Then you see the hoodrats, hair always done, clothes always labeled, (whether or not they are this years fashion means nothing as it is still a label.) You go through your entire day and come home to see them same hoodies and hood rats in the same spot doing the same thing!! You then open up your mailbox to find, energy bill, cable bill, phone bill, cell phone bill, rent is due, and you still haven't eaten yet!!! What are you doing wrong?!!! You are trying to live right, do the 9 to 5 thing, yet your Mercury Sable pales in comparison to Pookie's '08 Durango. How in the hell do this people survive and you are barely keeping your head above water!!!! Don't forget to click the title link!!!

Monday, August 18, 2008

She Loves me....He loves me not!!

In the dating game, almost 85% of the goal is to meet someone fall in love and get married. There are some who seem to just want to "get it wet" but for those who are looking for that significant other when is TOO SOON to admit you may be falling in love? Is there a time period that must expire before we explore the possibility? Or is there a such thing as love at first sight? Ladies do you tell him and risk him testing out his Cross Trainers, or wait until he says it even though you may be feeling it long before? Men do you go out like a suckah and express yourself or do you wait till she says it first?

Friday, August 15, 2008

Astrologically Speaking

Today Professor Grey and Firefly would like to speak on First Date Etiquette. For some of us that first date is the impression maker, and there are certain things that should be obvious when trying to make a good impression such as having good hygiene - you knoooow, fresh breathe and a little cologne/deodorant goes a loooong way (you'll be amazed at some who don't practice this). But there are some things that are a huge no-no on the first date such as with men...don't touch a lady if she didn't invite you to do so! And ladies if you EXPECT him to pay why order the most expensive thing on the menu? But what about if the both of you hit it off. And I mean really hit it off! You see him/her there's instant physical attraction and later the both of you end up at her front door. Ladies do you invite him in (knowing good and well it may lead to the both of you on your couch). Men will you call her for a second date if you end up waking up next to her in bed? Different zodiacs may require different tactics about first date Etiquette. Got a special person in mind that you have been dying to ask out? Professor Grey can give you the know how on how to put your best foot forward with each zodiac to make that first impression a lasting impression. Please click the title link for a comediac look at first date rules!!

Thursday, August 14, 2008

a-DICK-ted

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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Damned if you do...Damned if you don't!!!!

You're at a restaurant on the other side of town and to your surprise you see your best friend's mate entertaining a very attractive person of the opposite sex ( or same sex **wink-wink**). You try to convince yourself that this is innocent….right? I mean it could be a relative or a business dinner but that theory is quickly shut down as they get a little too close for comfort in their booth. Remember this is your "Best Friend" do you:

A) Go to the table and confront your friend's cheating mate.

B) Tell your friend all about it and risk them bringing up your name during the confrontation and if they decide to stay together the mate starts to hate you and then you got to cuss them out and tell them that you will never tell them anything ever again……Sorry y'all I had a flash back…LOL!!!

C) Mind your business.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Finding Love in the Matrix

Posted for Firefly...

Finding lasting love in the virtual world may be no less certain than in the real world. But millions of singles are turning to matchmaking sites in hopes of meeting Mr. or Ms. Right. But are people really finding love online? What are the chances that you meet that"one" behind a screen?" Any success stories/experiences? We'd love to hear them! Please click the title link to hear of on-line love story successes.

Monday, August 11, 2008

We wanna hear from YOU!

You've heard us give you topics that may have sparked "bitch" fests,
angry and funny comments that have been very very entertaining, to say the least!
We'd like to hear feedback from you about what topics you like to talk
about, or things you don't like. Things we may can add that can help
improve the blog (do you like the videos? other blog sites that we
list? etc.) Let's here from you TC Bloggers! "

(Also, let's have a moment of silence for two beloved, talented and very entertaining people: Mr. Isaac Hayes and Mr. Bernie Mac. Both passed away over the weekend).

Friday, August 8, 2008

Astrologically Speaking

You all know the drill, Professor Grey is here to help if you let me. I'm Listening.....

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

"If You Scratch my Back....."

Posted on behalf of Firefly....

The age old human proverb of "if you scratch my back I'll scratch yours.." has taken on many meanings over the years. Take my friends situation. She is a beautiful woman with a well off male friend. She is not romantically linked to this guy, but there have been small shows of affection and a hint of intimacy between them. He has ALOT of female company that he doesn't mind spending money on to impress, wine and dine, or just plain bed. She has never asked this man for money, but is well aware of his extra curricular activities. One day he happened to push the envelope and ask her for sex. Although she might have been willing, she still felt hesitant....WHY? He aint spending none of that paper on her!! Is this wrong? Is she considered to be a prostitute or is she just trying to get some goods, for her goods? On one hand she feels " I don't want to charge this man for my body" but on the other hand she feels "all these other women are getting the financial perks of being with this man and they are not even sleeping with each other so why should I give up my temple for free? You be the judge. Tell us what your take is. MEN would you mind this mode of thinking? Women, what separates you from a prostitute if you charge for your time? Be sure to click the title link for and added perspective.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

To Pee or Not To Pee.....

Last night I was watching Katt Williams "Pimp Chronicles" and through my laughter I had a revelation!! Why are Americans (especially African Americans) so mad at Michael Jackson but not R Kelly. Katt Williams went on a 4 minute and 15 segment segway on the disgust he had for the King of Pop, but you know for a fact that he has an R Kelly C.D someplace in his arsenal of music. Who doesn't? Mike has made more money than R Kelly, so the whole "well R Kelly might be nasty but you can't deny his music" defense still holds true for Mike as well. Then later in his defense he says "Fuck Michael Jackson, I got kids!!" Just sons eh? No daughters? Here it is, you have SEEN the tape of R Kelly using that girl as a human urinal and still you buy every remix this man makes, which incidentally seem to be always sexually driven, but you have only heard allegations of Mike's actions and he is already tried and convicted. Is America mad at the perversion or is it the homosexual perversion that Grinds their Gears? Two crimes, both the same, yet one person is glorified and the other hated? I don't know about you guys, but BOTH parties should be crucified equally, because I know when R Kelly was acquitted every middle school in the US of A should have been put on a terrorist alert LEVEL RED!! People wake up!!! If we are supposed to be enraged about Michael Jackson being free and "running round smelling like lil boys booty holes", then why aren't you equally upset about R Kelly running round smelling like a freshly broken hymen and crayola crayons!! Right?

Monday, August 4, 2008

Stranger In My house

You and your boo are experiencing technical difficulties. You've tried to reinvest in the relationship for the kid's sake, but the outcome is the equivalent of standing in quick sand...you're getting nowhere fast. Sex happens but neither of you are mentally there, the friendship you once knew has ended and all you do is agree to disagree making your situation a true life sleeping with the enemy. Do you sacrifice your sanity for the kids that are involved or do you leave before the bitterness and regret officially sets in? If no kids are involved, do you stay out of loyalty and honor the promises made or do you free yourself from this mental hell?

Friday, August 1, 2008

TCA's (Talkinchit Awards) & Astrologically Speaking

Today along with Astrologically Speaking Professor grey would like to host the first monthly TCA (Talkingchit Awards) Ceremony. The authors of Talkinchit.com Airforce One, Firefly and H2O have sent in their picks for our monthly awards and the winners are as follows.
Airforce One would like to thank and congratulate Miranda Hobbs for the Cut Throat Comeback Award. In the heat of verbal battle Miranda is a force to be reckoned with. You take no prisoners when insulted and respond immediately with tact and class when your opinions are trifled with. You and your comebacks are witty, full of humor and get right to the point. Bloggers beware as she is not one easily dominated by verbal assassination! Congrats Miranda. Also Airforce would like to bless Knowitall with the "Harvest Award" for overusing the word pumpkin! Knowitall you have the unique ability to use that word like the period to the sentence in the insults you deliver. Once a blogger has been hit with the word pumpkin in a response from you, KNOW that you have been served!! So on behalf of Talkinchit.com please accept you awards with our deepest gratitude.

H2O would like to thank and congratulate Mello for winning the Purple Heart of Bravery Award! When typing comments on a blog you always run the risk of offending someone, disagreeing and arguing, and things of that nature. I would like to present the Purple Heart award to Mello, for consistently giving opinions against the masses. This blog's ratio of female to male is 3 to 1 and Mello you have shown exemplary skills in not only voicing your opinion, but making sure it is non-offensive to our female audience. When the chips are down for the men, you step up to the plate and hit a home run each time and for that you deserve this award. So on behalf of Talkingchit.com please accept this award with our deepest gratitude.

Firefly would like to thank and congratulate the Anonymous bloggers! Whomever you are you come in and turn the conversation from a boring discussion about snooty affairs, into an all out opinion and insult fest! Real comedy has a hint of truth and your wisecracks and comebacks are the taboo of Blogcity!! You say what everyone is thinking and get the creative juices flowing in our bloggers. Whenever the conversation seems tapped out, one hit from you and we have at least 30 more comments. You are the comic relief and for that I thank you. Keep up the good work and whether your comments are good, bad or even ugly we still welcome them as you are a valued member of our chat community!! On Behalf of Talkinchit.com please accept this award with our deepest gratitude.

Now without further adieu, Professor Grey is back to host another day of Astrologically Speaking. Got a problem with a friend, associate or lover. State your claim here and let our Astrology Guru lend a hand. Remember if God made us from the salt of the earth, how can we not be connected to the other planets? Today's title link goes out to my Libras! They were most dominant in last Fridays post and this video is from an artist who is a Libra herself. She basically embodies all that is Libra in the words of this song. Click the title and enjoy!!